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How To Make A Leo Man Fall In Love (31 Ways)

by Sonya Schwartz

Are you wondering how to make a Leo man fall in love?

Perhaps you’ve got your eye on a specific Leo who hasn’t made a move yet?

Or maybe you’re in a relationship and you want to take things to the next level?

Either way, you’re in the right place. This article lists 31 surefire ways to make a Leo fall in love with you.

However, before we dive into these, it’s important that you listen to this story. 

I used to always be the woman fighting to make men fall in love with me.

I spent most of my twenties pining after guys who didn’t want me - or in relationships with emotionally distant men.

It felt like I’d never find a man who loved me for me...

But I want to tell you how everything changed!

It all started when I discovered a powerful aspect of male psychology which had a huge impact on how men feel about the women in their lives. 

It’s called the ‘Hero Instinct’ - a primal line of thinking which is held by nearly all men. Once activated, it makes men feel incredibly empowered and purposeful. Naturally, men are drawn closer to women who make them feel this way.

Once I learned how to activate this psychological trigger, it became so much easier to create strong emotional bonds with men (to learn how I did it, read my personal story). 

This is such an easy skill to master, once you know how. 

If you’re hoping to make a lasting impression on a man, I’d urge you to learn more about how I discovered the power of the ‘Hero’s Instinct’. Of course, it could be that this Leo is already interested in you. The five behaviors below are the biggest hints that this is true.   

How To Make A Leo Man Fall In Love

If you’re wondering how to make a Leo man fall in love, this article is for you! 

Making a Leo man fall in love is no easy feat. Leo men are known for being loud and marching to the beat of their own drum. 

These social butterflies not only love to be the center of attention, but they also expect to be put on a pedestal. Leo men are known for putting their women on a pedestal too. But, how do you become his queen when the king of the jungle has yet to make his move?

My ex-fiance was a Leo man, and he was head over heels in love with me. (I broke up with him, and he still loves me.) He was a stereotypical Leo man, and most of what I read about Leos, and how to make a Leo man fall in love, fit him perfectly. 

If you want to make this zodiac sign fall head over heels for you, simply follow these tips. 

1. Be self-assured

Every Leo guy likes a woman that has confidence. He won’t be okay with you falsely accusing him of cheating or being insecure when another girl checks him out. Leos are known for having plenty of friends and always catching someone’s eye, so he’ll need you to have a healthy amount of self-esteem. 

2. Leo men love positive energy

He’s always bouncing and full of life. Granted, a Leo guy will have his bad days, but he prefers to be upbeat and have fun anytime that he can. 

Help your Leo man fall in love a little quicker by showing him that you are packed with positive energy. Find the silver lining to every gray cloud. Laugh and smile at parties, but make sure that he knows it’s not just for show. You need to actually show him your positive side. 

3. Be a passionate lover

A Leo male will bring his fire with him into the bedroom, and he’ll want a partner that can keep up with him. If the two of you spend time together in between the sheets, you need to bring everything you’ve got to guarantee that you make his memory. Leos love everything physically, so this is just one more way to make a Leo man fall in love. 

4. Don’t be self-centered

Remember that a Leo man loves himself. He always wants to be in the spotlight, and there’s only room for one person at center stage. He’ll want you to cheer him on, he’ll shower you with love and affection, but do not only focus on yourself, or your Leo man will start to lose interest.

Want him to chase, love and worship you?
Well, you’ll need to have a much deeper understanding of his astrological love profile. My friend and relationship astrologer Anna Kovach prepared this Free Compatibility Quiz to help you discover the secrets of his zodiac sign.

Instead, let your Leo man know that he’s amazing. Shower him with compliments and send him the occasional good morning paragraph. If you’re wondering how to make a Leo man fall in love, the secret is to stroke his ego every so often and don’t steal his shine. 

5. Dress to impress when around a Leo man

A Leo man cares a lot about how the rest of the world views him. He’ll want to always look his best, even if he’s just driving to the drive-thru to grab a can of pop. 

If you want a Leo man obsessed with you, remember that he’ll want the same in a partner. Always make sure that you look your best when you leave the house. Get your nails done, wear clothes that are in good repair and make sure that your hygiene is on point. The more attention you get from other men, the more he’ll want you. 

6. A Leo man loves physical affection

Another thing you need to remember if you’re learning how to make a Leo man fall in love is that your Leo man loves physical touch. You can incorporate this into being friends as well as dating. 

When you are just friends with a Leo man, keep the physical touch platonic. Brush something off his face. Give him a hug before you leave. Accidentally brush up against him when you walk past. He’ll remember all of those small touches. 

Once the two of you start dating, avoid too much affection in public. Instead, hold his hand, give him the occasional kiss and simply remain in contact with him. A Leo man will love every second of it. 

7. Get to know the real him

He always looks his best. Every girl seems to want him and every guy wants to hang out with him. You don’t want to be just another girl that wants to stand next to him. It’s important to make sure that you stand out from the crowd of admirers. 

To do this, you want to make sure that you don’t pursue a Leo man. Instead, sit back and let him notice how great you look. The fact that you’re not chasing him will catch his eye. 

Then, don’t sleep with him. Keep the physical flirting at second base instead of shooting for the home run on the first date. It will intrigue every Leo man. 

Finally, get to know him. Instead of asking to see pictures of his six-pack, ask him what his favorite color is. Inquire about his hobbies. When you take the time to get to know him, he’ll slowly fall more and more in love with you. 

8. Spend time doing your own thing

Make a Leo fall in love by not always being available. Develop some new hobbies. Spend time with friends and family. Throw yourself into work. Leo likes to do his own thing, and he does need his space. An independent woman is perfect for the Lion. 

9. A Leo man is a hopeless romantic

This is one of the most common traits seen among these zodiac signs. If you have a crush on a Leo, it’s best to just assume that he’s a romantic. When he asks what your ideal first date is, make it romantic. Tell him that you love romantic gestures, etc. He’ll be thrilled that he’s met another hopeless romantic. 

10. Make a Leo man chase you

make a leo man chase you

After you get rid of your negative energy and develop an emotional connection, keep him chasing you. Let him know that some days you’re busy. 

However, make sure to send him a quick text so he doesn’t think you’re playing games. A Leo man likes to chase after a woman, and you want to keep him chasing you long enough that he’s still interested after the chase is over. 

11. Smile

Make a Leo man love you by simply smiling. This single act can show him that you’re positive, that you’re happy and it’ll catch his eye. 

When men like you, they want to see you smile. This is particularly true for a Leo man. Every time the two of you lock eyes, smile at him, and then go back to what you were doing. 

12. Shower a Leo man with compliments

There are a few ways that you can catch his eye without chasing him. A Leo man loves to be complimented. If he’s showing off, make sure that you compliment him to let him know that you noticed him. Tell him that you love his outfit, or that you love his positive energy. 

When you pay a Leo man a compliment, make sure that it’s genuine. These men can sense when you’re being fake or playing a game better than some other signs can. 

13. Be nice

While some people like to playfully tease one another, this is not the way to flirt with Leo. Leo men are easily wounded. There’s a good chance of hurting his pride, which is not going to lead to the relationship that you want. Instead, it will push him away. 

Want him to chase, love and worship you?
Well, you’ll need to have a much deeper understanding of his astrological love profile. My friend and relationship astrologer Anna Kovach prepared this Free Compatibility Quiz to help you discover the secrets of his zodiac sign.

Being nice is the key to a relationship with Leo. He’ll adore the attention and compliments. 

14. Avoid competing

Playfully competing at a board game during the relationship is fine as this won’t hurt his pride. However, it’s not the best way to catch his eye if you want a relationship with him. 

When a Leo wants to shine, simply let him. Don’t try to steal his spotlight or make it known that you’re better than him at something. 

15. Quality time is important

When the two of you are together, make him feel special. Don’t spend an entire date talking on the phone or texting. Instead, spend the date talking to him. 

Leo is confident, but he wants to know that you think he’s amazing too. Surprise him with a thinking of you gift or give him a compliment. If the two of you are dating, make sure that there is plenty of physical contact between the two of you. 

16. Don’t shy away from talks about relationships

Once he’s interested in you, he’ll start to ask about previous relationships or how you feel about certain things in relationships. He’s deciding what he wants with you, so this is your time to shine. 

Instead of telling him that you’re afraid of emotional attachment, give him a long list of things you’re attracted to. Make sure that those are traits that he possesses. Let him know how confident you are, and that you’re not easily jealous. It’s guaranteed to impress a Leo. 

17. Have some fun

Leo is not the one to sit at home all day doing nothing. These guys are balls of energy. They have more social and physical energy than most do, and they’ll want to go out to have fun. A movie date once in a while is fine, but don’t make it a routine

Instead, be the girl of his dreams by taking him to drive go-carts or play laser tag. Plan a bowling date or check out amusement parks in your area. Leo will be fine looking at things, such as animals at the zoo, but he’d much rather do something.

18. Be tactfully honest

You don’t want to be so blunt that you hurt his pride, but you don’t want to lie to Leo either. Instead, be sweet and honest. He’ll appreciate your honesty more than you realize. 

When Leo is surrounded by admirers, he’s also surrounded by girls telling him what they think he wants to hear. It can be hard to ask someone’s opinion on an outfit when everyone tells you that you look amazing no matter what. 

However, being nice is key. For example, instead of saying that a shirt is ugly, tell him you don’t think the shirt he is wearing goes very well with his pants. He’ll appreciate the feedback. Keep in mind he might tease you by wearing the outfit you don’t care for at least a few times. 

19. Don’t try to make him jealous

An easy way to make Leo lose interest is by trying to make him jealous. Just like the lion is the king of the jungle, Leo considers himself king. He hates being compared to other people. He won’t want to see pictures of you with other guys. Instead of him trying harder to chase you, he’ll start to slowly push you away. 

20. Explain previous cheating

explain previous cheating

There’s nothing a lion hates more than disloyalty in the pack. Leos despise cheating, even if they have previously cheated on people. 

If he knows that you’ve cheated in previous relationships, take the time to explain why you’re no longer the same person that you used to be or explain why you cheated. If he thinks that you’re going to stray no matter what he does, he won’t stay interested in you. 

21. Leo has a dominant personality

These guys tend to be attracted to more submissive women. This isn’t because they are abusive or full of red flags. It’s because they are a leader, just like a lion in the jungle. 

They tend to prefer to be in charge of everything unless it is something they don’t like or actually admit that they are not good at. In that case, they will let you take control

Because of this, Leo may have more traditional values when it comes to a household. He may prefer that you cook and clean while he works like crazy to be the primary breadwinner. 

22. He can be lazy

This is just something that you’ll have to accept about Leo. He loves to have fun and will work at a steady job to bring in a reliable source of income, but he can be lazy outside of making money. Don’t expect a lot of hard work unless it benefits him. 

23. Leos like money

If you’re money motivated, share that with your Leo crush to instantly catch his eye. They aren’t greedy and definitely are not gold diggers. However, Leos enjoy a lavish lifestyle. It takes money in order for them to have that. He’ll love it if you feel the same way. 

24. Don’t be fake

It can be tempting to pretend to show an interest in something or tell him that you work eighty hours a week. However, Leo is used to that just like he’s used to people trying to sleep with him. Because of that, he recognizes when a person is acting fake. He’ll hear a lie and instantly know it. Be yourself instead of trying to trick this zodiac sign. 

25. Keep him curious

Another key trait of this zodiac sign is that they like to slowly learn things about you. They enjoy a little mystery. It makes them feel like they are chasing you as they learn new things about you. Instead of telling him everything, there is to know right off the bat, tell him a little at a time. 

26. Bossy attitudes should be dealt with appropriately

Leo’s dominant attitude can lead to them being rather bossy. They will give people orders at work even if they are not in a position of authority. Leo will tell you what they think you should do around the house or in the relationship. 

However, there is some hope for dealing with a bossy Leo. Instead of fighting with him, simply focus on communication and compromise. Leo is capable of compromising and being nicer when he wants to. 

27. Don’t try to make him admit that he’s wrong

Leo has a lot of pride. This sign of the zodiac is dogmatic by nature, and they simply do not like to admit they are wrong. If you have evidence that they are wrong, and prove they are wrong, you can hurt their pride. A wounded Leo is not a fun Leo to deal with. 

Instead, try not to focus on who is wrong and who is right. Don’t have a lot of hope for changing this attitude either. It’s simply one of the traits of this zodiac sign. Instead, focus on working together to find a solution to a problem or compromise

28. Show your adventurous side

Don’t sit back and hope that he notices you. Instead, live your best life! Go skydiving. Learn about ziplining. Leos are full of fiery energy that makes them instantly drawn to adventure. As soon as he catches a glimpse of your adventurous side, he’ll be more curious about you. 

29. Don’t embarrass him

Avoid posting negative things about him online, such as if the two of you got into an argument. That should stay off of social media. Make sure that he likes pictures of himself before you post them. Don’t call him out on things that he’s not good at. Instead, make it a point to avoid embarrassing him. This is a huge turn-off for Leo. 

30. Make a Leo man miss you

make a leo man miss you

After a Leo man falls in love with you, you want to keep him chasing you. Fire zodiac signs are notorious for losing interest. Leo males tend to get bored quickly. That’s why you need to keep putting forth effort. 

Before you leave his house, spray a small spritz of your body spray on his pillow so he’ll smell you when he goes to sleep. Leave a scrunchie in his bathroom and claim that you forgot it. Send him a random selfie. Those little things will remind him how amazing you are and work towards making him miss you. 

Another great way to make a Leo man miss you is to be busy. Don’t tet him back right away. He won’t be happy about this, but that’s just one of the Leo man traits you’ll have to deal with. When you do text him a few hours later, simply let him know that you were busy. Making sure that you’re not always available is the perfect way to make a Leo man miss you. 

31. Know his traits

Zodiac signs all have their own personality traits, including a Leo man. Learning about zodiac signs is the key to gaining a Leo man’s love. You should know that he is self-centered, lazy, and occasionally has a serious attitude problem. 

However, he is also very chivalrous and enjoys paying for dates. A Leo man is fiercely protective over his girlfriend and his family. He’s funny, smart and always the life of the party. 

These guys always appreciate a good joke and love to see everyone having a good time. Sometimes, seeing that he made you happy or that you appreciate his extra effort will make him love being around you. 

FAQs

How do you make a Leo man obsessed with you?

To make a Leo man want a relationship with you or become obsessed, you have to not let on that you’re obsessed with him. Instead, take the relationship at his pace and make him chase you. Be adventurous and funny. Compliment him. Be yourself above all else. 

How do you make a Leo man miss you?

Being too available can be suffocating to Leo, resulting in him losing interest. Instead, wait a while to text him back every so often. However, make sure that you let him know why it took so long or he’ll think that you’re playing mind games. Women that play games are a huge turn-off for Leo. 

How do you make a Leo man fall in love with you over text?

To make Leo want a relationship or fall in love over text, it’s important to wait a little bit to text him back sometimes. Don’t make fun of him or embarrass him. Compliment him, and shower him with attention. Let him know that you think certain things he does are simply wonderful. Stroke his ego. 

Do Leo men play mind games?

Yes, a Leo man is known for playing mind games. However, this is usually because they are not interested and don’t always have the courage to tell you. When they know something will hurt someone’s feelings, they quickly go from a brave lion to a cowardly lion. If he’s playing games, it’s best to just move on. 

What is a Leo man's weakness?

A Leo man can be stubborn, lazy, and a bit self-centered. Their biggest weakness is a fear of trusting others. They are big-hearted and generous, so they get taken advantage of quite a bit. This can lead to them slowly becoming jaded. 

In Conclusion

Making a Leo man fall in love requires learning about them, and following these tips. Have you ever had a Leo man in love with you? What did you do to make him fall in love?

Want him to chase, love and worship you?
Well, you’ll need to have a much deeper understanding of his astrological love profile. My friend and relationship astrologer Anna Kovach prepared this Free Compatibility Quiz to help you discover the secrets of his zodiac sign.

Sonya Schwartz
A hopeless romantic that struggled for many years to find her Mr "Right" and made all the mistakes you could think of while dating. Known for always choosing the wrong guys or messing up relationships, Sonya was finally able to change her approach and mindset when it came to dating which helped her eventually find the man of her dreams and become happily married. You can read more about me here...

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