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How To Marry A Rich Man (9 Easy Steps)

by Sonya Schwartz

We all dream of being rich and being able to afford a luxurious lifestyle. Unfortunately, most of us lead pretty ordinary lives. It doesn’t matter how hard we work, we’re never going to be rich. But there is one thing you can do, and that’s to marry a rich man.

You might think to yourself how am I going to ever find someone with lots of money, let alone get one to marry me? I mean, I don’t meet people who are millionaires every day.

Well, I have to tell you, it will take some effort. You are going to have to put in the hard work and research. But see this as your real job for the next few months and years.

Finding a wealthy man to marry you can appear overwhelming at first. I mean, where do you even start? The thing is to break it down into a plan. If you are serious about making this an attainable goal then this is what you will be investing your time and effort in.

Before you start preparing your plan it is important to keep a few key factors in mind.

What Are Wealthy Men Looking For?

Rich men are looking for several things in women they are going to marry.

1. They want the best

They want the very best women – these guys want the most beautiful, the sexiest, the most intelligent, funny, and family-orientated women.

2. They want heirs

They want someone to provide heirs to their fortune – they may want a sexy woman but they also want a morally sound woman to give them children.

3. They want the full package

They want the full package - organized homebodies to look after the children and the house but women that can still dazzle on a night out.

9 Steps To Marrying A Rich Man 

1. Work on yourself

Work on yourself

If you want to marry a rich person you have to fit into their world. Rich people are used to the finest wines, designer clothes, the best cars, and the biggest houses.

You might not have any of those things, but, you do have yourself. You can make the most of what you’ve got.

Now, you might think ‘hang on, I’m not changing the way I look for any bloke’. Or, you might think ‘hand me the phone so I can call my cosmetic surgeon’. I’m not saying, either way, is right.

I want you to put yourselves in a rich person’s shoes for a few minutes.

You meet someone for the first time. Their hair is greasy, their teeth are yellow, they are grossly overweight, their clothes are dirty, every other word is a cuss word and they have no social graces.

Ok, that’s a bit of an exaggeration. What I’m saying is people like those who make an effort. So, get your teeth fixed if they need it. A good haircut and color go a long way. Clean, classic clothes really do make a difference.

Being polite and socially aware stands out these days. A toned body shows you are serious about your health and wellbeing. Wear natural makeup that accentuates your good features.

2. Do your research

Once you have prepared yourself and honed your body language skills it’s time to get down to research. Think about where you want to end up living in the world. It’s no good traveling to remote areas to find the ‘one’ and then expecting to come back to your hometown to settle down.

So decide if you want to stay in your native country or go abroad. You might want to think about holiday destinations. Where do rich men tend to vacation? You don’t need to book a room in an expensive hotel. You can show up at the bar.

If you are really dedicated you can get a job at a fancy restaurant or hotel where rich guys frequent.

You can look at wealthy cities such as Hong Kong, New York, Paris, or Singapore. Or examine industries like tech or oil and find out who the players are.

Don’t forget there are also events around the world that attract the rich and famous. Think about fashion shows, sporting events, big tech giants revealing new products, brand launches, restaurant openings, etc.

3. Choose your target

When you are choosing your target keep in mind how he made his money. This is because you are going to be involved in that world from now on. So, if you hate motor-racing, don't go after Lewis Hamilton. If golf isn’t your thing then forget Tiger Woods.

Obviously, I am aiming high for you with these names but you get the idea. If you bag a rich guy the least you can do is support him in his work. So think carefully about where you are going to find him.

Hang around the celebrity hotspots that you enjoy. Visit prestigious events that you are passionate about. Get jobs in high-paid industries that you are interested in.

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4. Join a match-making site for rich people

If you want to marry someone with money then one of the easiest ways of getting introduced to a rich man is to join an exclusive dating agency. You’ll need to look for ones that cater to wealthy clients or sites that only accept certain types of people.

For example, some dating sites give you clues from their names. They will include the words millionaire, elite, or sugar daddy on their website. You can also research from the internet the best way to present your dating profile. 

Learn what kind of profile picture gets the most views. What sort of language to use when describing yourself. Research what kind of hobbies attracts rich men and what turns them off. 

5. Practice good manners and show gratitude

Of course, it’s not just about how you look. Looks do matter, and there are rich guys that are just looking for arm candy to show off. But many wealthy guys want a partner with something going on behind the boobs and lip gloss.

They are looking to marry someone that stands out from all the plastic Barbie Dolls out there. This is where you can make a rich man notice you.

First of all, don’t make yourself too available. I’m not saying to be rude and standoffish or refuse a drink from him. But don’t initiate phone calls and definitely don’t sleep with a guy on the first date.

Good manners and being grateful are huge turn-ons for wealthy people. Don’t forget, a lot of these guys have made their money the hard way. They have worked their way up and have come from working-class backgrounds. 

Showing appreciation by saying thank you to the waiter or remembering to tip the driver will cement their feelings for you. 

6. Learn body language techniques

Learn body language techniques

There are a few really good body language techniques that can put you ahead of the game when it comes to your competition.

For example, did you know that waitresses that touched their customers briefly on the arm received much higher tips than those that didn’t? Well, it might interest you to know that Matt Damon’s future wife was working as a waitress when she met him.

Mirroring is another body language technique. It simply means copying the other person’s actions. When we mirror another person they feel a connection to us. They start to warm to us.

It can also be incredibly revealing if you see someone mirroring your actions. It shows you that they like you. It gives you an added advantage and the signal to step up your attention on this person.

Slow, deliberate moves show a level of comfort and confidence. Licking your lips and leaning forward are seductive signs. Standing with one hand on your hips tilts your pelvis upwards and indicates sexual interest.

Touching your hair or neck is a preening sign, drawing attention to yourself. And don’t forget to ‘accidentally’ touch them on the arm, knee, or shoulder, after all, it worked for Mrs. Matt Damon!

7. Hang out where rich guys are

Normal people find love in the workplace or while they are out socializing. You might find this difficult to believe but it is the same with rich people too. Familiarity is key to forming any kind of relationship so the first thing you need to do is be where rich guys are. 

I’ve already talked about Matt Damon but it is simpler than that. Surgeons marry operating staff. Pilots date cabin crew. Managers go out with clerks. We date people we get to know every day. We rarely walk up to strangers and ask them out. 

8. Don’t be all about your looks

Okay, you may think this is a contradiction. One minute I am telling you to sort your teeth out and get your hair done, the next I am saying don’t be obsessed about your looks. What I mean is, don’t be conceited or high maintenance about how you look. 

Of course, your rich man is going to want to show you off, however, he won’t want you demanding the most expensive furs or a pair of Manolo Blahnik’s before you’ll even step into the limo. 

A woman with a laidback natural beauty is much more appealing and sexy

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9. Have your own life

There are subtle signs we all give off that tell others we are well-balanced human beings. One of them is that we have our own interests and passions. Another one is that we have a strong circle of friends. We should also have close bonds with our family.

A good work ethic combined with a steady job is another one of those signs. These are all clues that we are responsible and good dating material. 

FAQs

How do you get a rich man to fall in love with you?

You have to remember that rich men have the pick of the crop so women have to make themselves into exactly what they are looking for. Rich guys want the best, someone who looks good and will be a good mother. An organized person who will support them and look after the home and children.

How do I attract a rich husband?

You can attract a rich husband by being the best version of yourself. You can also present yourself as something they want and need. Rich people want to be supported. They are also concerned about leaving behind a legacy in the form of children so they are looking for a suitable mother.

How can I marry a millionaire man?

There are dating sites that cater to millionaires but some of them restrict membership to those earning over a certain amount. Looks are important but rich men are knowledgeable and will be attracted to like-minded women.

How do I date a rich man?

Dating a rich guy is not as easy as you’d think. Women have to be pretty submissive as they have all the wealth and power. You might be labeled a gold digger. You will find there are a lot of hangers-on and you may get jealous. You don’t get to make many decisions and the guy can be very needy.

What age are men most attractive?

Men’s attractiveness peaks at around age 50. Just think of actors like George Clooney, Brad Pitt, and Tom Cruise. It is said that men are like fine wines, the older they get the better they are. Women, on the other hand, peak at just 18. 

To Sum Up

Have you ever dated or married a rich man? How did it work out? Do let me know, I’d love to hear your story. If you found this article helpful please do share it.  

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Sonya Schwartz
A hopeless romantic that struggled for many years to find her Mr "Right" and made all the mistakes you could think of while dating. Known for always choosing the wrong guys or messing up relationships, Sonya was finally able to change her approach and mindset when it came to dating which helped her eventually find the man of her dreams and become happily married. You can read more about me here...

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