If you want to make a Capricorn man obsessed with you – and we mean head over heels, willing to do almost anything for you – then read on!
This intellectual man is hard to catch the eye of and you need to be up for the challenge because he doesn’t like weakness and emotion and trust doesn’t come quickly to this sign, so flattery and being coy won’t work here.
Aggressive in business, these men can become very soft when they enter a relationship and if he likes you back you can expect him to become shy. If you can coax him out of his own world, this can be a man that really
How to attract a Capricorn
If you want to get into the heart of a Capricorn, there are a few set tactics to follow.
You have chosen a man who is very complex and may want one thing one day, only to mot want it the next day! Capricious, these men are challenging because they can blow hot and cold but protective, hardworking and deeply loving when they find the person they believe to be worthy, there are some steps you can take to ensure he is obsessed with you.
1. Be transparent when you talk to him
The first step when you want to get into the heart of a Capricorn man is to try and get to his inner heart and soul and to do this you need to put yourself in his line of vision and get beyond this aloof character’s defense mechanisms and direct yourself to his brain!
Although they are often known for their skills in the bedroom department, this is one sign where you need something up top to keep him engaged.
If you work with this Capricorn man or study with him you may find that he is very in depth and not easily distracted away from his work. That’s a disadvantage for you if you want to make a Capricorn man obsessed with you. Unlike another sign where you could be someone quite passive and perhaps physically well turned out, when you need to get a Capricorn’s attention you need to be someone who is very clear and direct – a bit like a typical male trait.
So, how do you do that? As you may know, a Capricorn man is someone who wouldn’t like an attention seeking woman who comes across as needy or weak as that simply isn’t a turn on for them. They don’t like desperation in anyone and any whiff of it will send him running. He wants to get you close to you at first purely because this sign really wants to see who you are and what you represent.
First impressions really count here so what you need to do to attract him and try and build that obsession is to keep a positive but also real energy around you and ensure that you are strategically around him as much as possible. This doesn’t mean bumping into him in the coffee ship and just giving a girly wave – but instead, getting into his brain.
Try and get on his intellectual level and engage him in conversations that will really appeal to him. They aren’t into small talk and they love transparency, so it could be something relevant with a point of value to him or just an out and out suggestion that you go for a drink together. If that seems too much Perhaps you can discuss a project, something coming up or his thoughts on something that’s just happened. Don’t start with chats about your weekend plans as it’s not going to work here!
A relationship with a Capricorn is a little like breaking down walls with him slowly whilst he does the same to you so start by being really clear on what you are all about and let him reveal more about himself in turn.
2. Don’t flatter him too much
A Capricorn is usually averse to anything frilly or fake when it comes to relationships and love, so if you want him to be obsessed with you, you have to be clear about your feelings but you have to state them clearly and be direct. Just like the above point of being transparent, a Capricorn is smart and will want to have someone quite blunt and open in their lives and flattery, especially if it feels a bit weak will be seen as something he can just dismiss. Unlike a Leo who would want to be adored and for you to admire his prowess, the Capricorn will just shrug off complements. Similarly, just like a Scorpio man, the Capricorn will want to see and know the real you as much as possible. They think logically and want to know that you are right for them.
As everyone does, they would like someone loving, loyal and attentive – but their most important factors when they are looking for a woman in their lives is to find someone who is independent and, in some ways, subservient. The Capricorn man looks for give and take and a mutually beneficial agreement, as it were. He looks for someone who won’t say words that have little meaning. If you say you love him, or like him, he will be looking for someone who backs this up with action. If you don’t , to him this is a weakness in you.
3. Don’t play games with him
Whilst Capricorns can play mind games in relationships, it can be a risky move. They are very comfortable having the power in a relationship and are keen to power play with if they have been given the tools and reason to. They can pull the rug from beneath you, so try not to ‘have something over him’. You can be beautiful and charming, but if you try and make him jealous it can backfire! These men work very hard and have a big schedule, so whilst they literally do not have time for games and tricks, when it comes to his love life he really does want to meet a woman who is very alike to him and how he thinks and this will be a huge turn on. This is not only great for you (after all, that headspace is wasted on silly games) but it also makes for a better long-term relationship because you are both able to see each other for what you are. Sometimes you might fall for the idea of the Capricorn man but find that the realities with him (work coming first, for example!) might be something you aren’t too sure about
4. Be independent and show you have something to offer.
A sense of self is a huge turn on for a Capricorn man and he is looking for someone who stands out from the crowd. He might have already noticed you because you are someone who dresses differently, maybe you speak out against things you feel strongly about or you always have something smart to say.
On this point, thinking intelligently is something that really appeals, and being seen as strong both emotionally and mentally is something else he is looking for. If you can demonstrate that you are fine on your own and that he is just able to add extra to your life, that’s what he really wants.
If you can show that you are stable and able to offer security in a relationship – ideally by having your life together, this will be very appealing. Capricorns love stability because they often feel that they need to protect themselves. You might see him start to test you in areas of trust, again, he is just looking to see how you react and what you might be like in a relationship. Capricorns as a whole hate to make the wrong choices in any area and are keen to find if you are worth his precious time.
5. How’s it going with your Capricorn man?
Are you having issues with the Capricorn man in your own life? What challenges have you met with so far? We know that this can be a hard sign to break down. Not only is he misunderstood and often seen as someone who puts himself first, this man wont leap into a relationship or even allow himself to be obsessed with you if he doesn’t feel that you will be stable or reliable with enough brain power and strength to make the relationship go the course!
However, if you are able to keep your head and to act in the right way around the Capricorn man we can be sure that you will start to see the signs of his obsessions with you. Perhaps he will start acting a little jealous, leaving work early to see you – there are plenty of other signs!
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