Are you hoping to catch the eye of an Aries man?
Maybe you have already bagged yourself an Aries boyfriend and want to make an amazing impression on him?
Perhaps you’re wondering if there are certain behaviors which this sign finds particularly attractive?
If so, you’re in the right place. This guide reveals the 9 traits that an Aries man desires in a woman.
However, before these are revealed, I want to explain something really important.
Recently, I discovered a powerful aspect of male psychology, which is important for all women to know.
It’s called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ - and it has a huge impact on the way men feel about the women in their life.
When a woman activates this primal instinct, it cultivates intense feelings of power, purpose and meaning inside him. Naturally, he becomes more affectionate and devoted to a woman who can make him feel this way.
Before learning about this psychological trigger, I was only ever seen as a ‘bit of fun’ to men. Now, it’s common they OBSESS over me (you can learn how to do this by reading my personal story)
This line of thinking seems to be held by most men, yet so few people seem to know about it.
If you’re hoping to make a lasting impression on a special guy, I’d recommend you learn more about how I discovered the ‘Hero’s Instinct’.
In the meantime, read on for our Aries-specific advice.
How To Attract An Aries Man
There are a few ways to make sure that you can attract an Aries man, especially when you start thinking about exactly what does an Aries man look for in a woman. Here, we look at what Aries men like and how to use that as a way to catch your man!
While most people, of either sex, like to laugh - an Aries man wants their women to be humorous but only in a certain way. They enjoy seeing a woman who loves to create fission with them by partaking in humor often based around innuendo. So by all means, be the girl that takes the mickey out of him with an old fashioned play on words - the more sexual the better.
Aries men like to be the ones that feels like they are doing the chasing. This means that they want a woman to play a little hard to get. This is because an Aries man loves a conquest and if he finds the subject of his affections too easy to start a partnership with, he won't stay interested for long. They are attracted to women who seem a little out of their reach - so help them along by not giving into them too quickly.
As an alpha male, an Aries man will want to feel like he is leading the proceedings. If he ever feels like he is being emasculated by a woman he will be turned off immediately. Instead, he enjoys women who are happy to be protected and who are not too independent. He needs to feel needed and one of the ways he shows that is by his need to be the one who makes the decisions in his relationships.
An Aries dating a woman will always enjoy a date who wants to flirt with him. One of the main reasons for this is that dating an Aries is very much a match where you will need to get good at massaging his ego. Flirting with him is one of the ways that Aries men find that they keep interested in women and therefore find outright flirting exceedingly attractive from the object of their affection.
It's all very well attracting your chosen Aries man, but how do you get him to become obsessed with you so that you know above everything that he will always want to come home to you. Again this is down to understanding exactly what does an Aries man look for in a woman and leveraging that to your best advantage. If you really want this sign of the Zodiac, here are a few ways to keep him interested.
While an Aries man wants to be in charge of a relationship, that does not mean he wants a total pushover either. He needs to be challenged on an intellectual level as this helps keep him on his toes and more than piques his interest. Find a means be smart without bruising that ego - which is hard when they are so insecure but it is not impossible.
For this sign of the Zodiac to be kept interested in a woman, he needs to have a decent playmate. This means, for him, that he needs a girlfriend who can happily join him on his typically high energy hobbies - and be good at that too. His competitive nature will mean you will find that he wants to come back for more if you are a fierce competitor to him.
An Aries man likes to do well in all aspects of his life. He sees success as an attractive trait in a woman so it is a good idea to show him how ambitious you are when it comes to your career. If the woman he is dating is simply happy staying put in her current role or job, he will find it a hugely putting off. Instead, go for that promotion and be the woman he knows you can be in the boardroom.
One of the oddest signs an Aries man shoes his love is actually by steering clear of the L word completely. He will never ever be the first to say that he loves his girlfriend and you will be waiting a long time for him to say it. To make life easier for him, make sure that you are ok with other comments that show that he is love with you or other displays of affection. This is another sign of what an Aries man does when he is love with a woman - he is quick to touch you or kiss you at any given opportunity.
At the top end of the affection spectrum, an Aries male is an incredibly sexual person, so a massive sign that he is in love with you is that he will want to spend a great deal of time in the bedroom and keep you there for as long as possible. He is an extremely high energy and active mate that is far more physical in his love than verbal.
Finally, a massive indicator that an Aries is in love with a woman is that he will make time for you in his busy social calendar. Plus, as mentioned in other recent posts, he will actively encourage you to meet his friends for their final approval to make sure that this a partnership that will stand the test of time.
An Aries man shows his love in a number of ways when he is in a relationship with a woman that he totally adores. In time, his chosen woman will start to realize that the Aries man is a sign that shows his love as opposed to saying it.
For example, they will show their love by opening a door for the woman of their affection and make certain that they are a true gentleman. While not every woman will like the fact that their Aries has such difficult saying the L word, they will at least know what to expect in terms of physical affection. Aries like to use their physicality in all areas of their lives.
You’ll find that your Aries will like to put his arm around you when you are out and about whilst he will also make it clear in other ways that you are “his” woman to the outside world. This may not be for every woman as it can sometimes feel a bit old fashioned, but his intentions are pure. He will want to look after the woman he is with at all times.
Knowing what does an Aries man look for in a woman can be so helpful to cementing a partnership with Aries men or getting an Aries man to return your affections. Knowing their personality traits, what turns them off and what turns them on is key to ensuring that you get what you want out of your intended Aries man.
At the same time, it’s good to know what this sign of the zodiac does when he has finally found what he wants in a woman and how he therefore displays his love. It can be massively comforting to know that he is into you by his displays of affection, especially as this man’s man finds it so hard to say I love you.
If you have your heart set on an Aries man and getting him interested in you isn't going so well, why not comment below to let us know why. We also have many recent posts about this sign of the zodiac and so you can learn all about their traits in an in-depth manner that will help better any partnership you have with your current Aries of choice.
Want him to chase, love and worship you?
Well, you’ll need to have a much deeper understanding of his astrological love profile. My friend and relationship astrologer Anna Kovach prepared this Free Compatibility Quiz to help you discover the secrets of his zodiac sign.