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How to Know When an Aries Man is Done with You (7 Signs)

Last updated on June 18, 2022 by Sonya Schwartz

Are you worried that your Aries boyfriend is about to leave you?

Perhaps you’ve been fighting to save your relationship for a while and you’re wondering whether your partner has given up? 

If so, you’re in the right place. 

The guide below reveals the behavioural signs that an Aries will show when he’s had enough of you. 

However, before we explore these signs, I want to share this very important story with you. 

I wasted so much time in relationships with men who really weren’t that bothered about me. 

Indeed, throughout most of my twenties, I struggled to make an emotional impact on men. 

Thankfully, I was able to turn this around… and it all started when I discovered a powerful aspect of male psychology. 

This primal instinct has a huge impact on how men perceive the women in their life. 

If women can learn to activate this line of thinking in their man, it often releases intense feelings of empowerment, love and devotion inside them. 

This psychological trigger is called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ - and using it turned my love life upside-down. 

It was the difference between being seen as a ‘bit of fun’ and a woman worth truly investing in (read my personal story to learn more). 

It’s a simple skill to learn, and it would appear to work on most men.

Whether you’re hoping to add some fire to your existing relationship or attract a new man, I’d highly recommend learning how the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ works. 

Hopefully, it’s not too late for you and your Aries. The guide below will reveal whether that is the case.

Read on to see how an Aries man shows his love or how he shows he never wants to take your relationship seriously.

What are the signs an Aries man is in love with you?

An Aries man has a few ways of showing when he is in love and will make you feel like you are the only woman on the planet. For starters, an Aries man in love will only say that he loves you outright under much duress. They are not ones for laying their hearts on the line even if in all other aspects of life, they happily take risks and rarely sit still for very long.

His lack of ability to say that he loves you will come out in different ways and one of which is that he will want to protect you - almost to a fault. This comes down to his competitive and almost aggressive behavior at times, which Aries men are well known for.

Conversely, if you are in a relationship with an Aries man who is very much into you, he will be incredibly affectionate and loving towards you personally. He will demonstrably show his adoration of you by physically touching you at every possible opportunity - both in public and behind closed doors.

They are a very sexually charged sign of the Zodiac who will therefore want to spend a great deal of your relationship behind closed doors too. So get ready to spend a lot of time in bed with him. An Aries man sees passion and romance as the same thing.

If spending outside of the bedroom, an Aries man that actually wants to be in a relationship with you will show his affection by asking you to join him at social occasions and let others see that you are together. This means you may have to give way every so often on your own spare time to keep him happy, but he is so charming to be around that you won't really notice.

Signs an Aries man is done with you

Here's our list of signs to look out for to make sure when an Aries man is done with you:

1. He is looking at other women when you're out

Obviously this is not something that any person wants to see when out and about socializing with their other half. But if your Aries man is done with you, he will not even notice that he is looking at other people to check them out.

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It may be a kick in the teeth, but if you see the start of this behavior, it is probably best to start thinking about a break or at least spending a little bit of time apart to give each other some space. This way you can ensure that you are at least getting out before you get hurt if he is likely to cheat on you.

2. He stops returning your phone calls

Aries men who are looking to back out of a relationship can be a little cowardly at times, despite their usually masculine and strong personas. As a result, they don't always take the most chivalrous of routes in ending a relationship and instead they will simply stop returning your calls, your texts or any email you have sent him.

Bearing this in mind, take a moment to think about whether it is right to be treated in this manner. If he has stopped returning your phone calls, he is not showing you a very high level respect that you deserve!

3. He starts prioritizing his friends over you

So many men do this, but an Aries man is usually the guiltiest of all the star signs to prioritize his friends over a girlfriend - especially if he is no longer finding the relationship as exciting as it once was. An Aries is likely to find the most obtuse of reasons to spend time with their friends over spending time alone with you.

This may suit some women but to those that are interested in a relationship that is more evenly balanced, it is important to either call them up on it so they can change their behavior - or simply say enough is enough and get back to your own friends.

4. He doesn't stay over at yours

An Aries man has some character traits that can be equally alluring and frustrating at the same time. One of them is that he knows his mind and knows what he wants. When he wants you, he can shine a light on you and make you feel like the only woman in the room.

When he is unsure of what he wants from you, he will likely start being exceedingly aloof and one of the ways he shows that is by never staying over at yours. Instead, he will only be vaguely interested in seeing you if you go to his - given that this is a far easier option.

Staying at yours requires logistics and thinking outside the box of what he may need for the next day. If he's just not that into you, he won't be bothered about even trying to do so.

5. He always seems to have work stuff at the last minute

Work can so often be an excuse or a reason that a wedge is driven in the middle of a relationship. An Aries man may want to use it as a reason far too willingly when he is done with you. This can mean he will make plans with you but at the last minute, he will back out citing that work has got in the way.

Once in a while, this may well be true, but after a few times of it happening, it starts to wear thin and you will start to wonder whether he is telling the truth at all. Sadly, as opposed to breaking off a relationship with you, he would rather avoid an awkward conversation and use this paltry excuse until you call it off instead.

6. He never wants to make plans with you in the future

This is perhaps one of the most annoying traits that any boyfriend can have. Making plans in the future is something that two people do in a healthy relationship. In a relationship with an Aries man who is starting to look elsewhere, he will simple stop making plans with you in the future, yet try to keep you interested for his own selfish purposes - mostly to bolster his huge ego.

If this sounds similar to your Aries man, then you might want to think about being with someone new that wants to spend time with you and put dates in your diary.

7. He never wants to introduce you to his friends

When the first sign of the Zodiac is done with you, he will never ever want to take you to a boys' night. It can be hurtful when this happens, but when he is done with trying to stay in a relationship, he won't want to waste his or his friends' time meeting you. Instead, when he goes out with his guys, he will simply want to soak up the male testosterone time. .

How to know if an Aries man is rejecting you - The Bottom Line

It can be really hurtful to go through any of the above if your boyfriend is done with the relationship - especially as it can seem so cold. This will be so different than any of the behavior he managed to win you over with, which can make being ignored so much harder. Be sure, therefore, to let him go quickly if you ever see these traits.

What To Do Next

Get back to your old life and give yourself time to get over him as best as you can. Yes, he may have been wonderful and charismatic as so many of the Ram signs are, but he also may not have been as kind to you as he could have been when he wanted to back out of being a couple.

This may well hurt, but give yourself a break. It is hard to turn down someone who may well be one of the most bewitching characters you have ever met - which is so often the case with this sign of the Zodiac.

Hopefully this list of signs has been really useful - please feel free to share to those you think will need this information too!

Do you feel like all you think about is him, but he only thinks about himself?
This doesn't mean he doesn't like you. You have to understand how he is wired. Once you do, you'll find there is a subtle thing you can say that to him that will drastically change how he shows his emotions towards you.

Take this quick quiz that looks at whether he actually likes you or not!

Sonya Schwartz
A hopeless romantic that struggled for many years to find her Mr "Right" and made all the mistakes you could think of while dating. Known for always choosing the wrong guys or messing up relationships, Sonya was finally able to change her approach and mindset when it came to dating which helped her eventually find the man of her dreams and become happily married. You can read more about me here...

6 comments on “How to Know When an Aries Man is Done with You (7 Signs)”

  1. hai i've been dated an aries man for 7 months and i decided to break up with him cause i cant take it anymore.... he liked to watch another girls especially on social media and didnt really text me that often like before and now he had crush on more than one girl which makes me so jealous and overthinking so i wrote a very long paragraph saying why i wanted a breakup but he didnt reply to any of my text and seen me instead... can i know why he didnt reply cause i was expectinng him to roast me back but no

    1. he don't give a f*ck about u... coz he is no more interested in u now.. he got want he wanted.. so he just don't care that u exist or not... leave him.. and move on...

  2. Simply put, you hurt his ego when you wrote him that you wanted to break up. Both of my brothers and my BF are Aries (I know, how do I survive, I'm a Cancer). If he hasn't answered you it could be 2 things, either he doesn't care (most likely) or he is sad/depressed about it but will never let you or anyone know. One thing that I can say about an Aries is that they go for what they want so if he isn't looking for you, let him go as fast as your emotions will allow you.

  3. I just start dating an aries man I am also an aries we have been friends for the past 24yrs but never taken him up on his relationship offer until 2weeks ago he's a businessman and only uses his phone for business and he uses an analogy phone he seems withdrawn and shy I don't know what and when to say what when ever I tried to open a conversation and it's not going his way he said he can't be bothered with arguments now but in the same breath he takes me everywhere he goes apart from work and he shows concern and take care of me but I'm confused I don't know what he wants and when I asked he said he is watching to see who I am.what should I do?

    1. Your probably giving him mixed signals. Aries are prideful beings, we hate feeling hurt or rejected and can sometimes grow cold. However we can also jump into things fast and if you seem like we are doing to much or showing some sort of disinterest in us, we will slowly back away. We are just overprotective of our hearts so don’t toy with us. Either your in or your not. If we are in love we will compromise, sometimes more than often but if we sense that the person is not considering our feelings we will back away. Know the right times to tame our beast. Nurture and love our beautiful souls. We love easily but don’t keep ramming us, it looks selfish and uncaring. You never want to see a hurt Aries. So listen to him and compromise somethings but give and feed. We get bored easily too so be spontaneous and adventurous and listen to him. We also like surprises. So let him play cat and mouse, but do the same for him. Sometimes we like to feel wanted even if we come off hard.

  4. Feb 17 2021 I'm a leo woman married to a leo man in love with a Aries man
    Long story short after two routine years he stop everything as a leo it blow my top he spoiled me he was s passionate and ect I know I hurt his feeling but he hurt mines to yesterday was his birthday 16 I brought him two gift one for Valentine's and one for his b day just attention seeking and he contact me I have to say I said some very below the belt things but this was after he blocked me and then change his number and I never knew why I felt crushed like he planned it I still love him think about the passion the kissing for hours as time just floats by I miss us I have said explain my reasons he won't bugdge never disrespectful or always a gentleman as kind he is beautiful with a penis the size of a mushroom but that didn't matter I have no advice I'm still not with him

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