Are you thinking about giving an Aries man the cold shoulder?
Are you wondering how he may react?
If so, read on. The guide below explains what you can expect to happen.
However, before we dive into this guide, it’s important that you read this story very carefully.
In my twenties, I was always the woman who had to fight to make men care about me.
I’d try to play all these little tricks and mind games in an effort to keep their interest, but it would rarely work in the long-term.
The truth is: I had no idea how to make a lasting emotional impact on them.
That was until I learned about a little-known aspect of male psychology called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’.
This psychological trigger appears to be held by most men - and can have a tremendous impact on how they feel about their romantic partners.
If you can activate this way of thinking, it can be the difference between men seeing you as a ‘bit of fun’ or as a woman worth investing in. You can learn how this turned my love life around by reading my personal story.
It’s a simple skill to learn, once you know how.
If you’re looking for stronger more fulfilling relationships with men, I’d urge you to learn how I discovered the power of the ‘Hero’s Instinct’.
With that said, let’s explore what’ll happen if you choose to ignore your Aries man.
Aries men are typically confident, highly sexual and choosy about their partners. They don’t settle for second best and are happy to play the field for as long as it takes to get the right woman.
They quickly lose interest in people who don’t excite them, both in and out of bed. They know exactly what they need, in fact, they’ll pursue someone with stubborn-headed charm.
Aries men can be quite selfish when it comes to give and take in relationships until they meet the right person. Then it all changes. Once they meet 'the one' they are all in.
Aries have big egos, they won’t tolerate this for long. They have to be the centre of attention of people. So if you are not paying attention to your one you should have a good reason because they won’t put up with this behavior for long.
So what happens when you ignore an Aries man? like I said, it all depends on what he feels about you.
If he truly adores you then you’ll confuse him if you ignore him. Aries have to be in charge. They are the first sign of the Zodiac. They’re first out of the pack. Therefore they’re used to leading. They need to be in charge.
If someone upsets this natural flow Aries doesn’t know how to cope. He’ll keep butting heads with you, that’s the ram in him, until he gets the right answer. He wants to know what’s going wrong. Mind you, he won’t ever think he has done anything wrong, he’s Aries after all.
His ego won’t allow him to go there. But he will want answers. That’s because he can’t stand wasting time. They are blunt, they are straight-forward. They don’t play mind games. They’re not passive-aggressive, they’re just aggressive.
He's got too much going on to mess around sorting out affairs of the heart. Either tell him what’s bothering you or expect explosions.
Then snubbing him won’t make the slightest bit of difference I’m afraid. He probably won’t even know you are ignoring him.
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Aries get on with their lives, but more to the point, they expect their partners to do the same. He is out front, leading the partnership. If he adores you, he’ll look back once or twice to check how you’re doing. If he doesn’t, he won’t.
So if he doesn’t appear to have noticed that you’ve stopped paying him attention then you know for a fact he doesn’t care about you. However, having said that, before you think about ending a relationship with him because he's not paying you enough attention, be sure that’s what's going on.
Aries men show their affection in different ways to, say Cancer or Capricorn. Cancer will make sure he gets on with your family. Whereas Capricorn will keep going, they stay loyal and faithful throughout the hardest of times.
For Aries men, it’s all about doing things. They’re not great with telling you how they feel. Yes, they can be incredibly blunt when it comes to other areas of their lives. But in matters of the heart, they don't get it. They're are woefully inadequate.
They won’t open up about how they feel. You won’t ever get poetry from the heart or notes on the pillow from Aries. But if they care deeply then they’ll want to fix things for you.
They are very physical types. They are virile, they are macho. They’re the heroes, the white knights, riding to the damsel’s rescue. They’ll skip the speech about everlasting love because they need to go straight on to slay the dragon.
He’ll happily change a tyre for you in the pouring rain. Or go fix that dripping tap in the bathroom. Aries is a doer, not a talker. In fact, one of the worst things you can say to Aries is ‘We need to talk.’
So when it comes to Aries and attention, make sure that’s what’s going on. After all, you might be asking too much from your Aries guy. For instance, you wouldn’t expect a mechanic to write essays on quantum physics. Don’t expect your Aries fella to articulate how he feels when he can only show you in actions.
It’s not a good tactic to ignore Aries men, so what’s a better way to make an Aries guy miss you?
As I mentioned earlier, these men like to fix problems. They show their love by helping and doing stuff. If you want him to miss you, then have someone else fix your problems and make sure he finds out about it. It’ll kill him that he missed an opportunity to show his macho strength and prowess.
Or ask him for help with these problems. The more masculine the better. Aries sees himself as the great provider, the one person that will get the damsel out of distress. Stopping to change that tyre in the road? It’s a massive turn-on for them.
Aries like straight-forward talking. If you feel that he isn’t showing you enough attention then simply tell him. They’ll appreciate your honesty.
Aries can be pretty blind to anyone else but themselves. As a result, they don’t tend to notice what their partners or lovers do for them. If he's taking you for granted, stop doing all those little, or big tasks that help ease his life. He’ll soon notice.
However, I would say that if you’re planning to go down this road is to know that these guys are not known for their attention to subtlety. So spell out everything you do for them. Don’t leave it for them to suss out or guess on their own. Because if you do you’ll be waiting a long time.
Remember, he's all about his own ego. He’s not concerned about yours.
One way to ensure he'll miss you is to show him that there’s something to miss. You can do this by stopping doing all the stuff you normally do for him, as I’ve previously mentioned. Or you can make yourself irresistible, to him or others.
Aries are highly sexed males. Therefore, to attract his attention, appeal to his lust and his sexual appetite.
Also, dress in sensual clothes. Aries like texture and are incredibly tactile creatures. Wear good quality silk, furs, lace and choose bold colours, red obviously.
Remember, don’t be subtle with the ram. Imagine that ram crashing headfirst out of the Zodiac. Little love poems or bleats of true love aren’t going to attract his attention. But a bright red dress that clings to all your curves just might.
Aries men are jealous and possessive of their partners and lovers. If he sees other men coveting you, flirting with you or doing jobs for you, for his woman, this will certainly get his attention.
Again, this all depends on the relationship you have. These guys see the world very differently from other signs in the Zodiac. For this sign, life is one long sequence of battles he has to win. As such, it’s very easy for him to concentrate on these battles and forget he has a partner at home.
One way to ensure he'll miss you is to establish yourself as his second-in-command and join him on his quests.
Support him through his battles. Then it’s you and him against the world. Once he feels his woman is standing beside him, that she is loyal to him, he’ll want to protect her. And from this sense of protection comes a profound and deep love.
If he sees you as his equal in battle, he’ll feel an intense sense of loss if you’re not there. Of course, to stand beside him you have to show strength and courage yourself. Although these guys do love saving damsels and all that, when he has made you his queen in battle, he’ll expect you to match his skills as a warrior.
Not only that but these men, more than any other sign in the Zodiac, find feminine strength and competence incredibly sexy. Your success, sexiness and capability reflect well on him and his ego don’t forget.
Unfortunately, not all women can muster the qualities needed by Aries to stand by his side. So when he’s done with you he’ll not mess about. Aries will dump you quickly and for him, not painlessly. But for you, it will appear like a bolt from the blue.
Aries men don’t mess around remember? They’ve got those life battles to fight, the maidens to rescue and lots of leading to do. If the relationship is failing he won’t hang about. At least with him, you’ll know he’s not bluffing. He’ll be direct and honest with you.
He’ll tell you in no uncertain terms that it is over and he’s moving on. And remember, he’s a leader so he won’t be looking back. He’ll probably even have a new partner or lover. That’s his mentality. Live for the future, not the past.
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