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How To Know If An Aries Man Is Rejecting You (15 Signs)

Last updated on October 4, 2022 by Sonya Schwartz

Do you want to learn more about how to attract an Aries?

Perhaps there’s a specific Aries out there who is giving you mixed signals and you’d like to understand more about what they mean? 

If so, you’re in the right place. 

The guide below reveals the signs that an Aries is attracted to you, and what he’ll usually do if he’s not. 

However, before we jump into this guide, I want you to read this story carefully. 

I spent the majority of my twenties pining after guys who just weren’t that into me.

I jumped from relationship to relationship without ever really finding a man who loved me for me.

It felt like this would never change. 

But it did... shortly after I learned about a powerful aspect of male psychology which few people seem to know about. 

This primal psychological urge is called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ and it has a huge impact on how men feel about the women in their lives. 

By triggering this instinct, a woman can release incredible feelings of empowerment and purpose in a man’s mind. Naturally, he becomes more emotionally drawn to women who make him feel this way. 

Once I learned how to trigger the ‘Hero’s Instinct’, it became so much easier for me to find loving fulfilling relationships (you can learn to do this by reading my personal story). 

This is such a simple concept to understand, yet it’s so life-changingly powerful.

If you’re tired of fighting for men’s attention, I’d highly recommend learning how I utilized the power of the ‘Hero’s Instinct’. 

In the meantime, you can read on for our Aries-specific advice.  

Before we look at what turns Aries guys off, I want to find out more about this enigmatic sign and how to make an Aries man miss you.

So, first, what turns him on?

How To Know If An Aries Man Is Rejecting You

Does it feel like your relationship with your Aries guy has been a bit off lately? 

It’s as though you can’t put your finger on what is going on. These men are known for being more self-absorbed than some other signs, so it can be hard to know whether he’s simply sucked into his own hobbies or whether he’s rejecting you. 

This article will help you finally make sense of his behavior. 

Although an Aries man will be great at communicating, they aren’t always going to tell you the second that they begin to lose interest. 

Instead, they’ll want to take their time to make sure that they are no longer interested before bringing up the topic. There are certain things that they will do that can let you know that your man is beginning to stray. 

1. He’s not paying attention to you

An Aries man will always be a bit into himself, but that’s not to say that he won’t pay close attention to his partner or current crush. In fact, Aries are very attentive to their partners! They view their partners as someone that they can show off. 

Once this sign has lost interest in anything, including a hobby, he’ll start to drift away as he focuses on something else. He may leave you feeling lost and wondering what is going on. If your Aries man ignores you, it’s a sign that he’s ready to leave. 

Is it like pulling teeth getting him to spend time with you?
The key to solving is understanding men on a much deeper emotional level. The number #1 factor that causes men to behave this way is actually relatively easy to change with a few subtle things you can say to him.

Take this quick quiz to see if he actually likes you!

2. You’re not his partner in crime anymore

An Aries man in love is an Aries man obsessed with his partner. He will want to do things with you and hang out with you. These guys love being social and doing things, it’s only natural that they’ll want to do them with you. 

If your Aries guy suddenly doesn’t want to hang out with you, it’s because he’s losing interest in you. It’s normal to want to do things by ourselves or with other people, but an Aries man will do this excessively if he is rejecting you. You’ll know it’s more than the fact that he spends time with other people.

3. Things are cooler in the bedroom

If there’s one thing that an Aries guy is known for, it’s the passion that they have in the bedroom. They can’t seem to keep their hands off of you. Things can get so intense with that Aries man that it can be overwhelming. 

When an Aries man starts to lose interest, however, things can cool off rather quickly. He may not have the desire to get nasty as often. When you are intimate, he just doesn’t seem into it anymore. It’s an obvious sign that he is slowly rejecting you. 

4. Mixed signals

Aries man loves talking to a person that he’s interested in. He wants to show her attention. That’s why he spends so much time with her!

One of the first signs an Aries man is rejecting you is that you will receive mixed signals. He will not text back or answer the phone as frequently. In fact, you’ll start feeling ignored and instantly wonder what’s going on. 

5. Talking to other girls

Aries men love moving from one thing to the next, and that includes women they are casually dating once they don’t want a future with her. If you’ve noticed him dating other girls or he mentions wanting a relationship with someone else, it’s one of the clear signs that he’s losing interest. 

6. He says that he’s lost interest

he says that hes lost interest

An Aries man is a hopeless romantic. He doesn’t want to waste time stringing along a girl that he doesn’t want to be with. That’s why Aries is so obvious when they are rejecting you. 

If you’re wondering where you stand, all you have to do is ask Aries. However, beware that this zodiac sign is known for being brutally honest. Make sure that you want to know if an Aries man is rejecting you and are ready for a very honest answer before bringing up the subject. 

7. Closed body language

Body language is often the first sign that any man, including Aries, is rejecting you. He’ll have closed-off language that consists of crossed arms and legs instead of open legs and his arms at his sides. Avoiding eye contact is another thing to watch out for. These are very clear signs that the Aries guy is not interested anymore. 

8. You’re not hanging out together in public

If you want to learn how to know if an Aries man is rejecting you, this is one of the main things that you need to know. An Aries man loves to show off who he is with. He will want the entire world to know how wonderful you are, and that you are all his. 

When an Aries man quits showing you off, it’s a sign that he doesn’t see a future with you. An Aries man that quits hanging out with you in public is likely keeping his options open with other girls, or simply doesn’t want people to think the two of you are still together. If you notice that he’s made a habit of this, it’s time to sit down for an honest conversation. 

9. He ignores your flirting

We all tend to flirt with people that we like. We have certain body movements. People smile more at a guy that they like. When you do this to an Aries man, he notices every single time. One of the deepest Aries man's secrets is how observant he truly is. 

So, if you’re sending him constant signals that you like him, and he’s not reciprocating, it’s because he’s rejecting you. This is not one of the zodiac signs that will play hard to get like a Scorpio woman. In fact, it’s well known that an Aries man will always let you know how they are feeling. If he’s not showing you that he likes you back, it’s because he doesn’t. 

10. The conversations are dull

An Aries man can conversate about one subject after another. He’s someone that you could talk to for hours without getting bored. However, once Aries men are not interested in you, the conversations will get rather boring. Aries men simply don’t put forth the same effort anymore, and that includes them finding fun things to talk about or cool memes to show you. 

11. He flat out says he’s not interested in a relationship with you

Aries men are not ones to beat around the bush with anyone. If he doesn’t want to take things further with you, he’ll often simply tell you. 

It’s important to consider the nature of the relationship, though. If you’re merely flirting with him, he’ll act distant so that you get the hint. While Aries is known for being blunt, they don’t like to be harsh or hurtful. 

If the two of you are dating, you’ll notice the signs that an Aries man is rejecting you before he breaks up with you. This is because the Aries man will put some emotional distance between the two of you before the Aries man rejects you. 

When in a relationship, Aries will take their time to decide whether they want to call it quits. Because of this, you might notice the signs that this man is rejecting you long before he ends the relationship. 

Read this article about how to get an Aries man back to make sure that he doesn’t go anywhere. 

12. Your gut feeling tells you he’s done

your gut feeling tells you hes done

Sometimes, you don’t need a strong sign from your man that he’s ready to leave the relationship. Instead, look into yourself. Your gut feeling is telling you that something is wrong, so that means that something is not right in the relationship. If there’s one thing that you should always trust, it’s yourself. 

13. He’s always busy

Sometimes, Aries doesn’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. Because of that, they might avoid the conversation that involves telling you that they don’t like you so that they can avoid the hurt that it will cause. 

One way that Aries will do this is by pretending they are busy. When you want sex, they are preoccupied. If you mention a date night, they have other plans. You can never seem to make plans with them anymore. 

14. He’s not jealous

If you’re talking to other men, he doesn’t care. In fact, he will no longer pay attention to anything that you do because he’s ignoring you. When you post pictures with other guys, he doesn’t get mad. He’s not the least bit possessive if you start flirting with someone. 

This is the most un-Aries-like behavior you can find. When these guys like someone, they are possessive. They will not ignore you being interested in someone else. 

15. He has new emotions for everything

Everything that used to bother him, doesn’t. Things that would normally start a fight between you guys now lead to him ignoring you or simply not caring. It’s because he’s no longer going to put energy into that situation. 

However, you’ll also find yourself on the receiving end of the famous Aries temper once the love is lost. Little things that you do wrong will send him on a rant. He’ll be angry for what seems to be no reason. You’ll want to leave before you even find out what his problem is.

FAQs

Why does an Aries man ignore you?

He’s no longer interested in having a conversation with you but he doesn’t want to hurt you. He might be sucked into one of his hobbies or a new project. If he’s angry, Aries might give you the silent treatment. He views this as better than exploding because he knows how bad his temper is. 

How do you know if an Aries misses you?

When an Aries man misses you, his pride usually won’t let him say that he misses you. Instead, he’ll want you by his side and will show this by inviting you to do things. If he thinks that you’re talking to other guys, he’ll instantly get jealous. Aries men often show that they miss you with their possessive behavior. 

How do you know if Aries man is serious about you?

When Aries men are serious about a girl, they will let her know. He’ll pay you plenty of attention, and put you on a pedestal. You’ll meet his friends and frequently be invited out places with him so that he can show you off to the world. He will have long, deep conversations with you. 

What does it mean when an Aries man is silent?

Silence from an Aries man means that he is preoccupied with his thoughts or busy. If he’s not texting back right away, you can assume that he’s in the middle of something and hasn’t seen your message. In person, it means that he doesn’t want to talk to you because he is angry or rejecting you. 

How do Aries communicate?

Aries men are exceptional at communicating. When they are not using their words to communicate, it is often for a reason. The main reason is that they are angry and would like to calm down before speaking about something as Aries doesn’t like to fight with their partners. 

In Conclusion

When an Aries man is rejecting you, you’ll often notice the signs if you pay attention. They are exceptional at communicating, so asking them how they feel is a good idea. How else can you tell what’s going on with an Aries man?

Do you feel like all you think about is him, but he only thinks about himself?
This doesn't mean he doesn't like you. You have to understand how he is wired. Once you do, you'll find there is a subtle thing you can say that to him that will drastically change how he shows his emotions towards you.

Take this quick quiz that looks at whether he actually likes you or not!

Sonya Schwartz
A hopeless romantic that struggled for many years to find her Mr "Right" and made all the mistakes you could think of while dating. Known for always choosing the wrong guys or messing up relationships, Sonya was finally able to change her approach and mindset when it came to dating which helped her eventually find the man of her dreams and become happily married. You can read more about me here...

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