227 Sexually Intimate Questions For Couples

Sexual intimacy is so important in a relationship, and it’s vital if the relationship is going to be successful. A lot of the time people think that sexual intimacy can only be achieved in the bedroom by actually having sex or performing sexual acts on their partner. 

Although this is true, a lot of people are missing out on one of the most important ways to become sexually intimate in a relationship and that’s through conversation.

If you’re not sure how to start an intimate conversation, we’ve got you covered. In this article, we’re going to be giving you 227 questions to ask your partner that will spice up and benefit your sex life. So, let’s dive right in.

Sexually Intimate Questions For Couples

• What’s your favorite position?
• Do you like dirty talk?
• What’s your favorite lingerie set of mine?
• Would you want me to welcome you home naked?
• Do you want to try mutual masturbation?
• What’s a position you’d like to try?
• Have you ever used sex toys?
• Have you ever had a sex dream about me?
• Would you ever make a sex tape?
• Do you watch porn?
• What’s your favorite type of porn?
• What’s your ultimate sexual fantasy?
• Have you ever wanted to have group sex?
• Do you want to have a threesome?
• Would you want to watch me touch myself?
• Shall we buy a sex toy?
• Do you want to choose my next lingerie set?
• Have you ever had sex outside?
• Would you want to experience oral while you drive?
• Where do you like to be kissed?
• Have you ever tried BDSM?
• Do you like quickies or long sessions?
• What’s the naughtiest sexual thing you’ve ever done?
• How often do you want sex?
• Would you ever try being sexual with another couple?
• Tell me something you’ve always wanted to do with me.
• Do you like 69?
• What way do you prefer - giving or receiving oral?
• Do you like foreplay?
• What’s the highest number of times you’ve had sex in one day?
• How many people have you slept with?
• Do you have sex dreams often?
• Have you ever been to a strip bar?
• Would you like to be blindfolded?
• Do you like boobs or bum?
• What’s my best asset?
• What’s your favorite body part?
• What’s the longest time you’ve ever lasted?
• When was the last time you masturbated?
• Do you have any fetishes?
• Have you ever been spanked?
• Have you ever slept with someone for money?
• Have you ever paid to have sex with someone?
• Have you sent nudes before?
• Would you ever send nudes?
• What way do you like it - rough or gentle?
• Do you like pulling hair?
• What’s your favorite thing to do to me?
• Would you want me to ride your face?
• Have you ever had sex in the shower?
• Do you want to have a bath together?
• How long do you think you could go without sex?
• What’s something that drives you crazy?
• Do you like neck kisses?

• What outfit do you like me in best?
• Do you want to have sex in the kitchen?
• Have you ever had sex at work?
• What’s the riskiest place you’ve ever done it?
• What do you enjoy most about sex?
• Would you like to spank me?
• Have you ever done role play?
• Do you want to role play with me?
• When was your first sexual experience?
• When did you lose your virginity?
• When was the first time you masturbated?
• Do you always watch porn when you masturbate?
• Do you want to have sex on the floor?
• Have you ever had sex underwater?
• What do you hate during sex?
• What turns you on straight away?
• What turns you off?
• Have you ever fantasized about making out with a girl?
• When was your last sex dream?
• How do you like to kiss?
• What way do you like having sex - with the lights on or off?
• Have you ever had sex with clothes still on?
• Do you like dry humping?
• Do you like the taste of me?
• Do you prefer shaved or sculpted?
• Would you like to listen to music whilst we have sex?
• What’s your favorite thing I do to you?
• Do you like your nipples to be touched?
• Do you want to be handcuffed?
• Do you like to be dominant or submissive?
• Do you want to watch porn together?
• Have you ever read an erotic book?
• Have you ever been dominated?
• What’s your most memorable sexual experience?
• What’s the worst sex you’ve ever had?
• Do you like lovebites?
• How big is your penis?
• Have you ever been woken up with sex?
• Have you ever had sex on a plane?
• Would you like to touch me in public?
• Have you ever had sex in the toilet of somewhere?
• Do you want to get naughty in public?
• What way do you like me - naked or in lingerie?
• Do you like being on top or bottom?
• Do you want to try all the positions?
• Would you want to play a sex game?
• Do you like strip poker?
• Have you ever read the kama sutra?
• Have you ever tried anal?
• Would you want to try anal?
• Do you like anal play yourself?
• Is there a celebrity you fantasize about?
• Is there a particular scene in a film you want to recreate?
• Have you ever felt turned on in public?
• Do you like dirty talking over text?

• Do you like being loud during sex?
• Is there anything you really like about our sex in comparison to other people you’ve been with before?
• Have you ever had a happy ending massage?
• Do you like being sensually massaged?
• Would you like me to massage you?
• Do you want to watch me masturbate?
• Can I watch you masturbate?
• How do you feel when you orgasm?
• What position is your least favorite?
• What’s something we need to work on in bed?
• How often do you want to have sex?
• Do you want to go away on a sex vacation?
• How do I feel when you’re inside me?
• Do you want to take dirty photos together?
• Have you ever had sex in front of a mirror?
• Shall we do it in front of a mirror?
• Do you like sex in the day or at night time?
• What’s your favorite place to have sex?
• Do you like being scratched?
• Do you want to rip my underwear off?
• Do you imagine what people look like naked?
• Have you ever had sex against a wall?
• Would you want me to striptease you?
• Do you like dirty talking to me?
• Do you enjoy being whispered to?
• Do you prefer moaning or screaming?
• Shall we make a playlist for sex?
• Have you ever use food during sex?
• Do you want to lick whipped cream off my body?
• Do you want to experiment with chocolate?
• Have you ever used ice cubes to increase sensitivity?
• Do you like lube?
• Should we buy a sex pleasure parcel?
• Do you want to play sexy games?
• Shall we try to copy a porn scene?
• Have you ever done it with someone much older?
• Do you want to create a sex-to-do list with me?
• Have you ever been to a sex shop?
• Shall we go to a sex shop?
• Have you ever researched new positions?
• Do you prefer looking at me or taking me from behind?
• Would you want to stay in bed all day and have sex?
• Shall we schedule sex?
• How do you feel about me not wearing underwear out?
• Have you ever done foot play?
• Have you ever called a phone sex provider?
• Do you want to try phone sex?
• Would you like me to be your naked maid for the day?
• Would you want to do a sexy treasure hunt?
• How do you feel about hiring costumes and getting down and dirty?
• What do you think your sex alter ego is like?
• Do you want to take nude photographs of me?
• Would you want to have sex in the car?
• Have you ever tried body paint?
• Do you want to paint me nude?
• Have you ever measured your penis?
• What do you think you’re best at in the bedroom?
• Shall we read erotica together?

• Have you ever listened to erotica audio?
• Do you want to listen to an erotic audiobook together?
• Do you like being sexted at work?
• Shall we have lunch break sex?
• What do you like about my body?
• Do you want me to act like a slave for one day for you?
• Do you want to create sex wishlists?
• What’s on your sex bucket list?
• Shall we try sexy truth or dare?
• Do you like morning sex?
• Do you want to try eating food from my body?
• Have you ever used a sex toy alone?
• Shall we try to keep it silent the next time we do it?
• Shall we have sex somewhere risky and public?
• What do you think I like in bed?
• Do you like being teased?
• Shall we try and kiss but not touch each other for 30 mins?
• How would you feel if I sent you nudes while you’re at work?
• Do you have any kinks?
• What’s the craziest kind you’ve ever heard about?
• Do you want to have a sex competition - who can pleasure each other the best?
• Do you want to tie me up?
• What’s a fantasy you feel embarrassed to share?
• Do you want to research sex tips together?
• Do you want a bedroom nickname?
• Have you ever had your balls played with?
• Have you ever had someone do butt stuff to you?
• Do you like being bitten?
• Shall we try to do it standing up?
• How do you make me so wet?
• Shall we try a tingling lube?
• Do you want to try out edible lingerie?
• Do you want to be my naked butler for a day?
• How do you think we can keep our sex life saucy?
• Do you like colorful or black lingerie?
• Shall we dedicate a whole month to trying new things every day?
• What’s something you love that I do in the bedroom?
• What’s something you wish I’d do more to you?
• Would you like me to wear nothing but your tie?
• What’s the strangest household item you’ve used during sex?
• Do you want to go grab some candles and essential oils for tonight?
• How many times do you think you can orgasm?
• How many times do you think you can make me orgasm?
• Shall we try and invent our own sex position?
• Do you want me to show you how I like to be touched?
• Why am I a good sexual partner?
• Why do you think you’re a good sexual partner?
• Have you ever done anything with the same gender?
• Have you ever had a friend with benefits?
• How can I please you more than I do currently?
• Do you want me to walk around naked more?
• Do you feel confident pleasuring me?
• Do you think we’d benefit from sex therapy?
• When do you find me most sexy?
• How do you feel when you orgasm?
• What’s the most experimental you’ve ever been?
• Do you like being ridden slow or fast?
• Do you prefer surprise sex or to set the mood?
• Shall we pay sexual couple questions trivia?
• Do you have any sex questions to ask me?

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In Conclusion

Hopefully, with the prompts of these questions, you will be able to open up a deeper sexual relationship with your partner. Just make sure you are paying as much attention to your sex life in a relationship as you are to other aspects of it.

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