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How To Tell He Loves You By His Kiss (33 Kisses)

Are you wondering whether the special man in your life loves you?

Are you looking for physical tells as to whether this is the case? 

If so, you’re in the right place. 

There are several ways to tell whether a man loves you or not by the way he kisses you. 

In the following guide, I will reveal 33 surefire signs of love to look for when he’s kissing you. 

But before we get into that, I have a true story for you. 

Not too long ago, I was researching romantic psychology and discovered an interesting trigger that supposedly affected the way men perceive women.

It’s called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ - a line of thinking that most men will follow if a woman knows how to activate it.

This psychological pattern is incredibly predictable. I know it because I tried it for myself! 

Previously, I was the woman who was always wondering whether a man liked me. Now, he makes it abundantly clear. No guessing games needed. You can learn more about this by reading my personal story.

Instead of trying to figure whether he likes you, I’d recommend you take the steps I did to become irresistible to him.

This could be your reality within a few days, if you’re willing to learn how to activate his ‘Hero’s Instinct’.

Of course, it may be that he’s already completely smitten by you. My list of kissing clues below will help you discover if that’s true.

Friendship Kisses

Friends rarely kiss each other, but some friendships are different. Various cultures kiss each other, saying, “Hello” or “Take care!” If you are crushing on a man hard and he gives you one of these kisses, don’t assume he’s not interested. He may just want to take it slow. 

1. The Peck

This kiss is usually fast and abrupt. If you are in a relationship and get a peck, it doesn’t mean he’s moved on; he could just be in a hurry to get somewhere but wants to tell you that you still matter to him. 

2. A Cheek Kiss

If you are in a serious relationship and your man kisses you this way, it could be cause for concern. It’s also an endearing way of showing affection, especially if he did it in front of other people. Your man may just not like PDA but wants to show you some affection anyway.

3. The Gentleman’s Kiss

This kiss usually involves a man kissing the top of your hand. It’s a very sweet act, and if you just met him, he’s showing you that he respects and likes you. He may want to impress you with his politeness.

It can be a romantic gesture, too, but it’s kind of funny if your long-term man kisses you this way. Some guys jokingly kiss this way, saying something like, “Anything for you, my princess!”

Kisses That Show He Likes You

There are many kisses that show a man likes you but isn’t quite in love with you, yet. However, it depends on the man, too. Some men like to take it slow, so they’ll give you a kiss like this until it’s time to move forward to the next phase in your relationship.

4. A Lock Kiss

A Lock Kiss

During this kiss, a couple may face one another with their lips pressed together. It’s almost as if they cannot stop kissing! 

Sometimes, romantic kisses start this way, and then, the couple finds they cannot stop kissing, so it’s prolonged. If a man cannot stop kissing you, he’s really into you.

5. A Silly Kiss

This type of smooch can happen anywhere at any time. It’s a kiss that makes you laugh. He may kiss you this way just to make you happy and to see you laugh. Enjoy kisses like this! He’s crazy about you!

6. A Kiss on the Nose

This kiss definitely means he’s attracted to you. It’s a sweet and cute kiss that he’s giving you to make you smile. He cares about your wellbeing and wants to make you happy.

7. A Closed Mouth Kiss

Any kiss means he has some kind of feelings for you, but if you receive this kiss, he may be testing the waters to see if he can turn it into a french kiss or not. If he kisses you this way in private, he may not be that into you, especially if the relationship is serious.

8. A Butterfly Kiss

This sweet kiss is when you bat your eyelashes on someone else’s skin or eyelashes. If a man does this, he’s invested physically and emotionally with you. He also has a playful, cute side to him that you should enjoy!

9. The Shut Up Kiss

We’ve all had this show of affection. Well, is it affection if he’s just trying to get you to stop talking? Ha! I think often a man gives this kiss to keep things on an even playing field; he’s sick of arguing or talking and just wants to plant a kiss on you! It’s sweet!

10. A Blown Kiss

This is a flirty, fun kiss that you may give your man if you are at opposite ends of the room from each other. This means that he’s into you and wants to make sure you know it! Don’t forget to send him a kiss back!

Love Kisses

If you are wanting to know if he loves you, these kisses will help you discover what’s going on inside his head. If he gives you kisses like these, he’s got serious feelings for you and wants to keep you around. In fact, with these kisses, he’s trying to show you he loves you. 

11. A Kiss on the Eye

This sweet sign of affection shows he loves and appreciates you very much. If your man kisses you this way, he cares for you and wants you to know it. 

12. The Angel Kiss

Similar to the last kiss, the angel kiss is a special kiss on the eyelids. It means he truly cares about you. It also means you are safe with him. He has no intention of seeing any harm come to you. You can feel secure in your relationship with him. He wants you to be happy.

13. An Eskimo Kiss

This sweet token of affection happens when two people rub their noses together. It’s a cute way of showing love and playfulness. Enjoy kissing each other like this!

14. The One Lipped Kiss

If you only move one lip when kissing, you are illustrating this form of affection. It represents a tight bond with your man. He’s in love if he kisses you like this.

15. An Upside Down Kiss

An Upside Down Kiss

This is also known as a Spider-Man kiss. It’s when a person is lying down and looks up, and the other person sneaks a smooch. It’s hard to explain, but it means he’s crazy about you. It’s a creative illustration of love. You know your man adores you if he does this!

16. A Kiss on the Stomach

Many women are sensitive about the way their stomach looks. Your man just wants you to know that he thinks you’re perfect just the way you are. It can also mean he’s looking forward to putting a baby in there someday.   

17. A Kiss on the Lips

This is at the top of the list of best kisses! Everyone loves being kissed on the lips! I bet you are especially interested in getting or receiving a kiss like this now that you know all the health benefits that come with kissing!

18. A Shoulder Kiss

If your man gives you a shoulder kiss, he feels a strong bond with you. Kissing you in this place shows love and security. You can count on him to be there for you. He feels physically and emotionally connected to you. 

19. A Forehead Kiss

This is a supportive, sweet kiss. It means he is connected to your soul. He will love and protect you no matter what the cost is. He is your knight in shining armor. 

20. A Slow Kiss

This is another top kiss. Who doesn’t like a slow, romantic kiss? Sometimes, the more you kiss like this, the hotter things get between the two of you. He may want to do more than kissing if he kisses you like this. It definitely can be an illustration of foreplay.

21. A Virgin’s Kiss

This happens when a virgin kisser plants a kiss on you. He doesn’t know what he’s doing, so it may not be that great, but if you really like him, consider teaching him how to do it right. He just needs a little practice.

22. A Kiss on the Head

This shows love, affection, and illustrates safety. You can know that your guy will be there for you when you need him because he cares a lot about you. It shows the two of you don’t need to do elaborate kissing because you already have a close bond.

Lustful Kisses

These hot kisses and signs of affection mean that the guy wants more than just kissing. He’s looking to go all the way, or at least his mind may be wandering in that direction if he kisses you this way. 

23. A French Kiss

This is when tongues are involved, of course. This can definitely be used as foreplay for sex. It may get you all hot and bothered. It can also be a sign that your souls are connected to each other in a hot way!

24. Making Out

Making Out

This involves more than kissing. Typically, your bodies are involved with this move. You may be touching each other all over. Many couples do this before they are ready for sex, so it’s not always foreplay. But, it sure is hot and heavy! 

25. A Hickey

Sometimes, guys leave hickeys to mark their territory. They may suck on your neck somewhere, forcing you to show it off and tell everyone about your new flame or wear a turtleneck.

26. A Whole Body Kiss

This rock and roll move is when a guy gives you kisses all over your body. It can often lead to sex as it frequently happens during foreplay. Just sit back and enjoy it!

27. A Suction Kiss

Similar to a hickey, this usually involves a person sucking on your skin - anywhere! It’s also known as an octopus kiss. It’s a means of arousal and shows lust. He wants you...bad!

28. A Kiss on the Neck

This is an erogenous kiss that illuminates lust, passion, and excitement. This can be a huge turn-on. It can really get you riled up and ready for the next stage in the erotic kissing

29. A Porn Kiss

Usually, a guy just sucks on your face during this kiss. He just can’t get enough of you or your mouth and is ready to take things to the next level. Do you feel the same?

30. A Kiss on Your Breasts

He definitely has more on his mind than just kissing if he kisses you in this place. He wants to move things along, perhaps slowly, into the bedroom.

31. A Wrist Kiss

The wrist is another erogenous zone for women. If your guy loves kissing you here, he wants to be intimate. 

32. An Earlobe Kiss

If a guy kisses you here, he is ready to hit the bedroom. He’s trying to turn you on by showing you an intimate show of affection. 

33. Lower Lip Biting

This is a naughty show of affection. It’s a passionate act that’s usually part of foreplay. It’s a lustful act that shows he wants to do more than just kiss you.


Do guys fall in love after kissing?

It depends on the kind of kiss and how much magnetism shines through the kiss. I think it’s very possible for a man to fall in love with you after a magnificent kiss! A lot of it depends on the chemistry the two of you have established ahead of time.

Where do men like to be kissed?

Some of the erogenous zones where men love to be kissed include the neck, chest, and stomach, but take care when kissing a man in those spots unless you want to have sex. Kissing can definitely mean you want to do more in the bedroom.

How can you tell if a man really loves you?

There’s more than one way to tell if a guy loves you. Deep, passionate kissing can be one sign that he is head over heels. Another way guys show love is how they care for you. You’ll know when he loves you by the signs!

What does a passionate kiss mean?

A passionate kiss is full of chemistry and hotness. You feel absolutely sexy during a passionate kiss. It’s hard to keep your hands to yourself if a man gives you a passionate kiss. Passion is one of those things that happens when you’re least expecting it.

How do guys feel after kissing a girl?

When you get a guy kiss, what do you feel? It takes more than one person to spark chemistry in a kiss. One way you can tell how he feels after a kiss is to see his reaction afterward. If he’s blessed you with a french kiss, he’s into you!

On A Final Note...

We’ve gone over many different kissing styles in this article. What is your favorite kind of kiss? How often do you get a french kiss? What about forehead kisses? Is your guy head over heels in love with you? Share your experience in the comments! We’d love to hear it!


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