Anyone dating a Sagittarius man already knows this is no easy relationship. Sagittarius men in love are brutally honest with their partners. When there’s a problem they’ll be blunt and yet they find it difficult to express their emotions.
They are so focused on their goals and ambitions they sometimes forget they even have a partner. So it’s to be expected that you might be feeling unloved or taken for granted.
In fact, you may be wondering how to make a Sagittarius man jealous so that he realizes what he could be losing. But Sagittarius is not like any other Zodiac sign. They are not prone to jealousy. In fact, they rarely show their feelings, even if they are angry or upset.
Of all the Zodiac signs, Sagittarius is focused on their own life, answering the big questions. Sagittarius is the philosopher, the learned man, forever on the path of spiritual enlightenment. Does this sound like someone who is likely to even get jealous?
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If you live with or are in a relationship with a Sagittarius man the chances are you know him pretty well. But I always say knowledge is power and you can never know too much.
If you are really going to make a Sagittarius man jealous you should understand him inside and out.
People born under this Zodiac sign have the archer and centaur as their symbol. Sagittarius is a fire sign. I would like you to just consider the symbol for one moment.
The archer, forever alert, concentrating, always aiming for perfection. Then you have the centaur; half man half horse. With the centaur, you have the speed and versatility of the horse combined with the brains of a man.
Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter. Now, in Roman mythology, Jupiter rules the Gods. In astrological terms Jupiter is wise, cultured, spiritual, the educator, the truth-seeker, forever searching for knowledge.
Add to the mix the fire element. Fire can provide either a sense of passion and warmth when controlled or rage and destruction when out of control.
So, there you have Sagittarius man. A passionate truth-seeker forever on his quest for knowledge. His arrows fire at the highest targets. His wandering feet take him to many places and occupations.
He is multi-talented, interested in many different things. This guy is a natural leader. After all, you don’t get many archers looking behind them. When it comes to the truth this guy is a straight shooter. You either like his blunt nature or it upsets you. But you won’t ever change it.
With all Sagittarians there is a sense of duality about them. This is not surprising when you consider the delicate balancing act of the centaur. Managing to hold a bow and fire an arrow whilst walking on four skittish legs with a man’s head is no mean feat.
Many Sagittarians have two sides to them, kind of like an on and off switch. One moment they are carefree and joking, the next they are raging and crushing you with cruel words, fired directly into your heart.
So you can see this is no ordinary male star sign. Consider the rage of the ram of Aries, or the sting in the tail of Scorpio. Sagittarius barely notices other guys in your life.
As such, if you want to know how to make a Sagittarius man jealous you’re going to have to take a different route. Remember, this guy is already embarking on his life’s quest to discover truth and awareness. He doesn’t have the time to be jealous.
There are only a few occasions where it is possible to make your Sagittarius man jealous. However, before you consider trying them you should know that this guy never plays mind games. He prefers you to be honest at all times.
Don’t forget, this guy is seeking the truth about the world’s most pressing questions. He has bigger fish to fry. Jealousy? Being jealous is a waste of time and energy to him. So think very carefully if you want to go down this route.
But, if you feel that making him jealous is your only option then you can try the following:
Sagittarius males settle down once they’ve found the right person and to be honest don’t give the relationship much more thought. They assume everything is ok with their partner. Besides, they’ve got the world’s most intriguing questions to solve.
So it’s perfectly natural for their partners to feel a little taken for granted at times. In fact, it’s at times like these you may feel like you want to shake up that solid foundation you’ve helped to build with your man.
You want to let him know that he shouldn’t treat you as part of the furniture. Sometimes Sagittarius men could do with an arrow fired straight at them. Their attention is always focused elsewhere, not on their loved one.
So start shaking up your routine from now on. If he expects you to be home at a certain time go out for drinks with the girls or the guys from the office. If you usually call him at lunchtime then ‘forget’ a few times.
If you always spend Saturday night together on the couch why not go out with friends to a club? Eventually, he’ll notice. He will remember why he fell in love with you. He’ll value you again and want to remind you that you are loved.
Nothing gets a Sagittarius man’s attention more than someone living their best life. This guy gets a serious case of FOMO whenever someone he knows goes off travelling. Or when someone starts a new personal project.
He is also drawn to positive energy so it doesn’t matter how you are feeling about your situation, you must always be upbeat. Plan a weekend trip away for you and your friends. Show him that you are completely independent.
Once he sees that your life is exciting he’ll want to be a part of it. He will become jealous that you are going off and having all these adventures and he’s not with you.
Sometimes you have to take drastic action. If your Sagittarius guy still isn’t getting the message then you will have to straight out ignore him. Of course, this is easier said than done, especially if you are living together.
But if you are dating a Sagittarius guy it is easier. I’ve said before that these guys get jealous when they think they are missing out on something. But you will also hurt their feelings if you don’t respond to their calls or texts.
Your typical Sagittarius man in love wants you to be his travelling partner. He wants you to accompany him on his latest adventure. He sees you as his equal, his partner-in-crime so to speak. Now, all of a sudden he can’t get hold of you.
He’s going to start to wonder what is going on. Then he’ll start to worry, and finally, he will get jealous.
Sagittarius guys are not usually prone to jealousy, nor are they possessive types of guys until they reach a critical stage in their relationship. Once they realise that they have found the love of their life they start to worry. They panic a little. What happens if they lose this person? How will they ever cope without them?
Of all the Zodiac signs, Sagittarians struggle to convey their feelings even when things are going wrong. Yes, this sign is extremely blunt and honest. However, when it comes to emotions their fear of rejection is so great they clam up.
One way to pique their jealousy is to be flirty with other guys. Of course, I’m not suggesting you give free lap dances to all your man’s mates. But there’s nothing wrong with some innocent flirting in front of him.
The aim is to show your man that you are attractive to other men. You are going to have to prod this archer with one of his own arrows. In fact, this is one fire sign that needs a spark in order to get going. Remember, jealousy is not in their nature.
It’s not that he doesn’t love you, it’s simply that he’s forgotten how important you are to him. To make this guy jealous you’ve almost got to run around naked in a bar in front of him blowing a whistle and waving red flags. Otherwise, he won’t notice.
Generally speaking, Sagittarius men don’t get that jealous. But one thing you can be sure about is that they don’t hide their feelings. They don’t do passive-aggressive behaviour. Believe me, if he’s jealous he’ll tell you. Initially, he may brush it aside but eventually, his anger will erupt.
Be mysterious and vague about your plans. Sagittarius are inquisitive creatures. They need to know what’s going on. So don’t respond to texts immediately. Always be the first to end conversations. Always leave him wanting more. This will heighten their sense of jealousy.
It’s really quite difficult to make a Sagittarius man jealous. They are usually so focused on their next endeavour they won’t notice what you’re up to. The one thing he can’t stand is not being part of something exciting so flaunt your next adventure and he’ll bite.
This is a one-star sign that places a huge value on freedom and hates to be tied down. It could be that he has developed strong feelings for you and doesn’t know how to handle them. Instead, he processes them as jealousy. Be honest about how you feel to calm him down.
Sagittarius men will want you to be part of their lives. They will want you to join them on their adventures. Remember, these guys are brutally honest so it’s more than likely that he’ll tell you he misses you. They don’t play mind games.
I hope you enjoyed my take on how to make a Sagittarius man jealous. If you have any tips to add I‘d love to hear about them. And don’t forget to share this article if you enjoyed reading it.