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How to Know A Sagittarius Guy Is Serious About You (7 Telling Signs)

Last updated on June 14, 2022 by Sonya Schwartz

Are you wondering how your Sagittarius partner actually feels about your relationship?

Perhaps you’ve been dating this guy for a while and he’s showing no signs of it becoming serious?

Maybe now you’re wondering whether he’s hiding his feelings or wasting your time? 

If so, this article is just what you need. It reveals the 7 telling signs that a Sagittarius is falling in love. 

However, before we jump into these signs, it’s important that you read this story carefully. 

Throughout my twenties, I was stuck in relationships with men who wouldn’t show much affection towards me. 

It turned out this was because they weren’t that into me. 

For so long, I was seen as nothing more than a ‘bit of fun’ to the guys I was dating. 

Thankfully, I was able to turn this around - and it all started when I learned about a powerful aspect of male psychology. 

This primal way of thinking is called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ - and it appears to be held by most men. 

When it’s activated, this triggers incredible feelings of empowerment and purpose inside a man. Naturally, he tends to develop pretty intense feelings towards the woman who can make him feel this way.

By learning how to release these emotions in a man, my dating life became far more fulfilling (click to learn more about how this happened).     

It’s a shame that so few women are aware of this psychological trigger...

If you’re struggling to have men commit to you in a loving relationship, it’s well worth learning how the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ works.

Of course, it may be that your special Sagittarius is well on his way to falling in love with you. Below, you’ll learn the telltale signs that this is the case. 

How does a Sagittarius man act in love?

1) He’s starting to want you near him a lot more

A Sagittarius man is an ideal romantic partner in many ways and with a sign that symbolizes fire they are fearless, energetic, good money-makers and of course this passionate personality is part of how they are with the women in their relationships. But in comparison with Aries and Leo, a Sagittarius man is a bit different. Women tend to fall easily for him yet only a few can ‘break out’ of being just a casual fling into the real deal, especially when he is known for being quite flighty and hard to tame! He loves the thrill of the chase and is popular, giving him quite the choice and sometimes the ego to boot!

When he is starting to fall for you and be serious he will start to ramp up the compliments, maybe focusing on things away from your looks but your personality traits that he likes. He may compliment your funny nature, or how you do something, or even how you are around his friends and family.
This brings us to our first sign that he is really serious about the relationship and interested in being with you, that he is simply around a lot more. A Sagittarius man is used to having freedom in the relationships he chooses and generally speaking, he wants to get a woman but she must give him his space. This sign hates the daily routine and you simply cannot control a Sagittarius or tell him what to do. If he is starting to be around you, adjust and compromise, this a real sign he is serious about making this relationship work.

2 He feels more like a close friend

We all worry about being in the friend zone, but when it comes to Sagittarius men it’s key to know that this sign does value friendships. He would rather be your friend first before he becomes romantic with you, and even if you are together as a couple or seeing each other casually, he will still be feeling very ‘friendly’ to you. This is a good sign that everything is progressing as it should.

This man is keen to get to know you and will want to joke and laugh with you, ask you about the books and films you like and understand what you are all about. He might suggest going out for beers or a pizza instead of a fancy restaurant or seems comfy at home lounging around and learning more over a game of pool. You aren’t just one of his guys though - he wants to have a real bond with you beyond just looks.

A Sagittarius man will look for a sense of belonging with you and will also be trying to limit any worries or fears they have. That means your Sagittarius is likely to hang out with you, try and connect with you and want to become a friend so he knows the full picture. If he is making these moves it is a great sign he is serious about you.

3) He’s being honest.

This sign does value honesty as a trait and that comes to when he is falling in love. He values the truth and honesty but he reserves this for those closest to him. A Sagittarius is a special type of sign signified by the horse and the archer – which just like the image denotes is straightforward and ready to shoot from the hip!

If you have started to notice him opening up or being frank with you, this is a sign that he seriously considers you to be of value to his life, and likely a permanent fixture.
He will be keen to be honest and also to open and communicative about his past if he likes you and is serious about you, so look out for these conversations!

4) He will be supportive

A Sagittarius will be supportive especially when you are going through a hard time. He will be wanting to be there for you, help you and rather than just lending an ear like a Cancerian might, he will be working to guide you through whatever is happening on a practical level. He might not have said he is serious about you, but if he is trying to help in your daily life, then you don’t need to worry.

When it comes to the bigger decisions in life, he will be there looking for ways to help perhaps with money, emotional support or something practical. This could be if you are studying, working or struggling with home life. He will be the kind of person that is the first one you call when things go right or wrong, an ideal match for any woman. Look out for the signs that he is keen to be by your side and that he is showing support in your life right now.

Is it like pulling teeth getting him to spend time with you?
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5) He’s in your life despite setbacks

You might think you’ve scared him off saying or doing something, but the Sagittarius man has a great trait in that they continue to be in your life even if there are challenges. He won't move forward and be seriously involved in anyway unless there is the right type of love in place. If he is still in your life, he no doubts already thinks of you as seriously special, in short – he’s shot that arrow!

Because he is committed in his sign you will start to see that there seems to be nothing you can do to turn this man away! He will be loyal and will overlook some of the day to day dramas as just ‘part of the relationship’. Whereas other signs might see something as real line in the sand, this sign is able to adapt and take you for who you are without strings attached.

Sagittarius men love to have a great relationship and want to invest in that. He will be doing everything in his power to make things just right so you are happy. Even if you aren’t in a relationship just yet, you can be sure that he is already preparing to ask that big question.

A Sagittarius will make you a real priority in their life, so there could be gifts, cards, or simply helpful, practical support.

6) He's going on adventures with you

Sagittarius men just love adventure in their lives, and just like Cupid dashing around and the horse behind the sign, Sagittarius men are keen to get around the World too. Don’t forget that this sign is ruled by Jupiter after all!

You may already know that this sign is often on the look out for expansion of their mind and their world. With a big personality, they want to learn and experience as much as possible. That means they have short attention spans, and sadly this includes romantic relationships. If he can combine his passions of a lady in his life with his own need for adventure, he will be very happy indeed.

Whether it’s on the move in the car or on a long-distance trip, this is his comfort zone, so look out for adventures and road trips he’s talking about taking you on.

It is never the same old places in mind with this sign, and he may be introducing adventure by being keen to introduce new people to you as well. This is a really big signifier he is very serious about you!

At this point, you are no doubt feeling like you are together, so check to see if there are ways he is showing he wants to share his passion with you, whatever that may be. He will also be open to wanting to try things that you like and to try an experience any activities that you like, and doing these things together is a sure sign that you are working towards a very serious relationship together. Take the chance to invite him to something important in your life so you can start to build your own memories together. If you are a fellow free spirit he will really enjoy this and see it as a sign of your own love for him.

7) He will tell you he loves you

If a Sagittarius is in love they are cautious, but they move in straight lines towards the ultimate goal – having you say I love you back! This straight-shooting is great in a relationship because it leaves you in no doubt-. If he tells you he loves you, he means it. If he can say the words, he has already traveled mentally down a serious path with you and he is serious. He will also want to be exclusive with you. Just like the archer and the horse behind the sign, he doesn’t want to be tied down and he loves to be free so if you are hearing those 3 all-important words, you’ll know that this is a serious commitment from the Sagittarius man.

If he hasn’t said them yet, don’t fear but simply holdfast. A Sagittarius takes their time but using all the signs mentioned above – the adventures, being in your life, feeling like. Close or best friend will be indicators that this moment won't be a lifetime away for you.

If you do reach the serious stage with your Sagittarius, you are in for a real treat. Sagittarius is a sign indicating the truth, honesty, and sincerity and when he falls, you can be sure it's for the real you and not a façade or a show. True acceptance!

Can you tie down your Sagittarius?

Do you agree with all the characteristics of Sagittarius men here? What about your Sagittarius man are you making progress in your efforts to help him see how amazing you are? After all, any man can be by your side through the best of times, but this man is likely to be there through the good and the bad, and this sign is one of the most likely to offer this commitment to you when he is ready to.

As you can imagine, when he moves the relationship on you will be in for a real treat as you become someone special and valued in his life, but getting there with a Sagittarius is well worth the efforts!

Why not see if your sign matches your Sagittarius man and even see how your relationship could look in the future?
Share this article with someone you know who would love to know how to snare a Sagittarius man in their life, we’d love to hear the success stories!


How Do You Know If A Sagittarius Man Is Into You?

One of the sure signs that a Sagittarius man is into you is if he is really honest with you. If he likes you a Sagittarius guy will tell you exactly how he feels and really be completely himself around you. If he truly likes you and is falling for you a Sagittarius guy will not hold anything back from you. These are the signs a Sagittarius man is into you. 

How Do You Make A Sagittarius Man Miss You?

If you want to make a Sagittarius man miss you then make sure to show him your enthusiastic and confident side. Show him how much you love adventures and he will start to miss going on amazing adventures with you. If you show him these sides of your personality a Sagittarius man will realise that you are his soul mate and won’t be able to get you out of his head. 

What Does It Mean When A Sagittarius Man Ignores You?

If a Sagittarius man is ignoring you it likely means that he isn’t really interested in you and he doesn’t see himself forming a serious relationship with you. A Sagittarius man will always be honest about how he is feeling and he won’t lead you on or give you any false hope if he isn’t really into you. If he ignores you he just isn’t really interested. 

How Do You Get A Sagittarius Man To Chase You?

If you want to get a Sagittarius man to chase you then you need to show him how confident and adventure loving you are. A Sagittarius guy will only chase a woman if he sees her as his soul mate. If you show him your enthusiastic and passionate side he will likely see that you are the one for him and start to chase you. 

Do Sagittarius Fall In Love Quickly?

Sagittarius guys are not to fall in love quickly but not easily. A Sagittarius man will only fall in love with a woman that he sees as his true soul mate. They can tend to be scared of showing their vulnerability meaning that they don’t let everyone in. A Sagittarius will only fall in love quickly with someone that is really special and perfect for him. 

Do you feel like all you think about is him, but he only thinks about himself?
This doesn't mean he doesn't like you. You have to understand how he is wired. Once you do, you'll find there is a subtle thing you can say that to him that will drastically change how he shows his emotions towards you.

Take this quick quiz that looks at whether he actually likes you or not!

Sonya Schwartz
A hopeless romantic that struggled for many years to find her Mr "Right" and made all the mistakes you could think of while dating. Known for always choosing the wrong guys or messing up relationships, Sonya was finally able to change her approach and mindset when it came to dating which helped her eventually find the man of her dreams and become happily married. You can read more about me here...

2 comments on “How to Know A Sagittarius Guy Is Serious About You (7 Telling Signs)”

  1. Hello, I was just wanting to know if the Sagittarius man I'm with will ever want to marry me? He calls me all the time and tells me he loves me, but never tells me how he feels about me. I ask him how he feels and he says if he didn't love me he wouldn't be with me. His name is Steven and he's 47yrs old. I'm a aries.

    1. Hi Brandi,

      I hope this message reaches you well.

      I came across your comment while learning more and researching about my Sagittarius Man who is 44 years old and I am a 38 year old Aries lady like yourself (March 27). So, whew join the club! Lol...I can give a little insight but it's no clear right or wrong answer dealing with the charming and boyish charm of a Sagg Male! I'm sure the initial attraction was like a moth to a flame, we told each other within 2 weeks that we "loved each other" His since of Humor was very different for me as a Mars ruled Aries Sun, I like jokes but not very playful like the Sagg man. So, initially it was refreshing to have someone to snap me out of my Mars Fiery aggressive tense mature! My Sagg guy is 44 and looks to be in his early 30's boyish charm, nice thin frame awesome thighs with an excitable peep in his step! So, this is my first Sagg man and boy within 6 months he took me for a ride I wasn't ready for! After about 3 months he started showing his ASS! Disappearing acts, saying he was at his Mama's or hanging with the Guys! Ignoring my phone calls when he had my Vehicle! Staying out until wee hours of the morning and coming back in like he am not did shit?? Huh! Finding condoms is his jacket. And if your Aries nature kicks in like mines, I got totally aggressive, jealous and extra Needy! And I am not a needy woman on the surface! I noticed that this Sagg Man took my possessiveness to another level! And Challenged my inner core that we Aries hide’s not so well at the Surface! Those deep rooted insecurities! Well I would plead with him, to be considerate, unselfish and to think about me, who is pouring into you! It went in one ear and out the other and the more I pushed the more my Sagg Man rebelled!

      So, after about 5 months of is lack of care and consideration, I placed his things on his mama's porch since that where you love to be, and showed his ass that other side of the Aries lady who is not to be played with! See with Aries woman, for myself, we are very aggressive (especially the March Aries), driven, action oriented, fair, consistent, and generous to a fault! And I know for myself, when I get into a relationship I commit fully and give a lot and take a lot, and Sagg men, people in general see that and think we are naive, and idiots, until...the Aries has had enough and pull that rug from under your ass! Aries are very resourceful and just as fiery as the Sagg Man but in different ways! Sagg man wants all the benefits but sometimes doesn't want the responsibility that comes with the Aries lady!

      So, I hope you are following me here...So, after putting him out...I got control of my life back and started to deal with my Sagg man on MY Terms, still giving a little but requiring more from him! He pulled one more weekend stunt on me after us having the best week...and poof he pulls a fast one on me! Lol Sagg men will charm your ass and socks off and then before you know it...the other show is dropping and you are connecting the whole plan together, as they have charmed you again, only to fit their benefit!

      So, after his last stunt...I blocked him from social media, blocked his texts and ignored his constant calls for about 2 weeks and boy did this affect the Sagg Man! Declarations or love and nice gestures etc.

      Well, after closing him out from access to me, my heart and just our chemistry and resources...I took time to get myself back and started to read up on the Sagg man, and his characteristics. It helped me understand him, us more. Then I allowed little access and my Sagg man started opening up to me, and I could tell the difference in his personality and making attempts to be more considerate, as it doesn't come so natural with the Sagg man! My Sagg Man's mind is from one thing to the other! If he pissed you off 5 minutes ago, and you say something let's say an hour later or reference it, he will say I'm over that, what you mad at?? They just don't hold on to small stuff! Yes, my Sagg man is very popular and well liked in spite of his ass whole ways!

      So, I guess the takeaways can be...to keep him guessing, don't get stuck into routine, keep your own life and if he tells you he loves you he does! Show him how you want to be treated! Sagg men are spoiled and Aries lady will spoil them but we do ask for utter devotion in return...Sagg man can get side tracked with this, as he will try to make it about him! But remind him that it's not and where his bread is buttered! It's a work in progress if your Sagg Man is worth it!

      I allow myself to chill more! And relax! And my Sagg man doesn't like anyone to tell him nothing but I still do and this is where we clash! When he is critical of me, I last out and let him know that he is not perfect! He thinks I am crazy. I think he is an unemotional lover boy! But it's something about our friendship that keeps us connected and so comfortable around each other! It's all about balance with the Sagg man!

      And we are working on his selfishness in the bedroom! Lol but the passion is there but the Aries lady needs lots of attention in this area, and the Sagg man is soo Fickle and set in his ways! Yes, he tells me he wants to marry me...But for me I am in no rush because I want both of us to be on the same page with that because we both still have work...

      But know if the Sagg man is saying that he may be honest because he wants it but only when HE is ready NOT you! He is truly a man's man! He just wants his Aries lady to allow that which we have a hard time with, I know I do!

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