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How To Attract A Sagittarius Man (13 Surefire Ways)

by Sonya Schwartz

According to Time magazine, astrology is not a science, but it does seem to help guide us in life, allowing us a chance to find new positive attributes about ourselves. A National Science Foundation poll found that over half of all Millennials believe astrology is a science. 

Astronomer Sten Odenwald explained that we’re drawn to astrology because it gives us hope and/or a belief in something we hope is already true in our lives.

So, how true are horoscopes? I don’t have that answer; I wish I did. I think it comes down to your faith in the unknown. Can you believe in something that might be right, and that could affect the rest of your life? 

Can you believe in something you can’t see? You believe in the wind, right? Well, you can’t see it, but you can feel it. That’s similarly how some people feel about astrology. If you trust and are open to something you cannot see, you may find guidance in your life that you didn’t know was even there!

In this article, we will explore who a Sagittarius man is, and we are going to look at how to attract a Sagittarius man. 

Who Is A Sagittarius Man?

A Sagittarius was born between November 22 and December 21. As a fire element, this man craves making things hot! He loves adventure and excitement. He jumps from one challenge to another one until he finds the one thing that can make him feel complete satisfaction. He loves being active, open, and carefree. He’s like a modern-day Indiana Jones!

When I think of who a Sagittarius man truly is, I’m reminded of Captain Awesome from the show Chuck, which you can watch on Amazon Prime. He was ambitious as a young doctor and was a great outdoorsman. He fell in love with Chuck’s sister, Ellie, who was also a doctor. He loved rock climbing, kayaking, snow skiing, and modeling (The actor was Ryan McPartlin)!

It seemed like he was always on his way out to another outdoor adventure with his buds or was just coming in after a strenuous workout designed to strengthen his core. A Sagittarius man is always on the go and has a million things on his mind. This man looks for irresistible challenges - anything that can challenge his mind and heart - simultaneously!

What Is The Love Of A Sagittarius Man Like?

When it comes to Sagittarius men in love, you can expect things to be interesting. He hates being bored, so to keep a Sagittarius man in love, you need to keep him stimulated - not just physically either; he needs mental and intellectual stimulation. He’s a difficult creature to reel-in from the many stray cattle, but he sure is a fun one if you can snag him!

Often, because of his need for adventure, a Sagittarius man may be unable to commit, craving freedom instead. Freedom may allow him to jump from one woman to the next, but that often isn’t what he wants either. He wants you to let him have the freedom he needs to go out with his friends and have a good time without any restrictions put in place by the “ball and chain.”

As his partner, you need to show him your playful and carefree side. Let him be continuously fascinated by the different charms in your arsenal belt. Surprise him over and over again by the different sides to your personality. Keep your Sagittarius man intrigued by you and let him have the full reins to run around with his friends all he wants - unless you think you can keep up!

How To Attract A Sagittarius Man

1. Pay him a compliment

Your Sagittarius man may be lost in his own world of one adventure to the next. So that this guy knows you really like him, pay him a compliment. Tell him you dig his surfboard, or whatever sport he just got done playing or is about to start doing. He may have noticed you around but didn’t think you really noticed him. 

By showing him you noticed (whatever compliment you gave him), you are showing him that you’re able to give positive statements to others without fear of rejection and that you actually think he’s a pretty cool guy. He’ll now realize he has a chance with you and may take that opportunity to ask you out or get to know you better. 

2. Plant a kiss on him

Again, men fear rejection, so even if they are into women, often they don’t do anything about it, because of this fear. To take over the heart of your Sagittarius male, just walk up and plant a good kiss on his lips! He’ll be shocked but will love your moxie! This will be a jolt to his system!

This is another chance for you to show you are a woman of action while waiting on your man of action. Any Sagittarius man will be stunned by this move, but he’ll give you points for courage! That’s an excellent way to attract a man; it boosts the self-esteem of men and shows you can be playful and fun, too.

3. Be adventurous

Be adventurous

That’s right! If you are looking to be the partner of a Sagittarius, you’d better love wearing your hiking boots and bug spray! These men love the outdoors! The men that fit this bill put their sign first in life, meaning adventures come first! Don’t worry, though. If you can’t make it to every trip, he’ll gladly fill you in with the details when he gets home. 

If you don’t like doing adventures and being able to stimulate him with physical activity, besides sex, you better be able to stimulate him intellectually. Have plenty of good adventures to show him on the television or to tell him from your head. If you are the creative type, you may be a match made in heaven. What’s your sign?

4. Volunteer your time

These active men don’t just want to do the fun stuff; they actually want to make a difference in the world. They love positivity and all that comes with it. If you radiate positivity and optimism, you may have just found the perfect sign for you. Sagittarius signs like helping other people, those less fortunate than them. 

They have a big heart and typically see the best in people. They want to work toward a purpose. If that means helping out with a soup kitchen or picking up trash on the side of the road on the weekends to help the environment, they are game! Consider volunteering your time to a worthy cause, and you may just meet the right guy!

5. Increase your energy level

As mentioned before, a Sagittarius man loves adventures. If they can’t be somewhere cool, doing a sport, or just finding anything they find stimulating, they search for everyday adventures. They are creative beings and typically attract people who are like them in life - people who radiate positivity.

A Sagittarius man will want to find a stimulating activity if he must. Since he hates being bored, he will make an opportunity or adventure happen. For example, he may play 20 questions with a person he gets stuck in an elevator with or take the opportunity to tell his most exciting stories of adventures he’s gone through in the course of his life.

6. Be a positive person

Don’t be a Debbie Downer when you are around your Sagittarius man. Instead, show that you find the positive in life by talking about things that are going well in the world or in your life. If everyone is talking negatively on a topic, switch the subject, or take a positive spin on the topic, you will attract the socks off this guy!

Not only that, but keep a smile on your pretty face. He’ll be drawn to you as you talk about the positive aspects of life. This guy will be all over you in no time!

7. Plan an adventure

What better way to snag a Sagittarius than to invite him on an adventure? There really isn’t any better gift to give him! If you don’t have the funds to treat him to Safari adventure in Africa, you can do a smaller activity. 

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Let your creative juices flow and make a scavenger hunt for him around the town the two of you live in or near. You would not only impress him by doing a homemade scavenger hunt, but you would also interest his intellectual side by challenging his mind as he deciphers the clues. 

8. Take a class with him

If you have the opportunity to take the same class that he’s in, go for it! What better way to get to know your Sagittarius man than to be in a class with him, learning something new? He loves to have his brain stimulated, so let him see that side of you as well. Open yourself up to new possibilities and/or take up a new hobby based on the class!

9. Invite him to a party

Remember, a Sagittarius is a social butterfly. He loves being around a variety of people. If you know of a great party or school dance that’s coming up, ask if he planned on attending; then, twist his arm a little bit until he agrees to go (It shouldn’t take much convincing on your part)! This man needs to know the deets so that he can attend!

Another thing you need to remember is he loves his freedom. He likes to go around, meeting new people on his own, so don’t hang on him and act clingy. That is the opposite way to attract a Sagittarius - holding him back. Instead, give him his space to do as he wishes; if he’s really into you, he'll circle back around to talk to you later.

10. Join a co-ed sport

Join a co-ed sport

If you have the opportunity to play on a co-ed softball team that he’s on, don’t miss out! You can easily attract a Sagittarius man by showing your athletic abilities and social tendencies by playing a sport with him! He may be the coach or leader of the team, too, since he enjoys encouraging and lifting people up, so pay attention in huddles!

12. Introduce him to your friends.

To attract this man, you need to show him you’re a social butterfly, too. He loves engaging with a variety of people, so he will be happy to meet your friends! He’s drawn to meeting new people. 

Plus, showing him your social side is a huge turn on for him. He’ll be happy you were willing to share your social circle with him!

13. Throw a party

Don’t have any social functions coming up that you can invite your man to? Consider throwing a bash of your own! Gather a group of friends, hire a DJ, and tell your friends to invite their friends or announce your party on Facebook. Make it a night to remember! And don’t forget to look your hottest!

14. Be his damsel in distress

Don’t be completely helpless; that’s a turn-off. However, you can be a little needy. He’s a problem solver. This man would love to be your Knight in Shining Armor! He shines in the spotlight and eats this superhero stuff up! Just give him a chance to “save you!”


How do you know if a Sagittarius man likes you?

Since he’s always excited about the next adventure, you can expect him to be busy a lot. If he decides to spend his spare time with you, you know you’ve won his heart. Just make sure you can keep up with his active lifestyle.

How does a Sagittarius man flirt?

A Sagittarius male typically will want to include you in his busy life if he’s interested in you. He’ll find excuses to be around you. He’s very creative, so you may find that he wants your first date to be doing crazy things like bungee jumping or skydiving.  

How do you make a Sagittarius man obsessed with you?

Be busy and adventurous like he is! He’ll take notice quickly if you do that, but in case he’s just too wrapped up in his own world to notice, walk straight up to him and kiss him on the lips (if you’re sure he’s single!). That’ll give him a hint!

How do you seduce a Sagittarius?

Take him on a big adventure. For example, plan a big elaborate Safari weekend to blow his mind! He’ll be startled at how adventurous you are and will be truly impressed. This is a surefire way to win his heart over in the long term (if that’s your goal).

Do Sagittarius fall in love quickly?

A Sagittarius man is not quick to fall in love because he wants to get to know you as a friend before confessing his love. When he does fall in love with you, you’ll see the first sign in what he does. One sign is taking you on his adventures.

To Sum Things Up…

Do you have a Sagittarius man you are trying to win over? What have you tried so far? Do you have any tips for other women?

Do you believe your zodiac sign accurately portrays who you are? I’d love to hear your story! Please comment and share this article. 

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Sonya Schwartz
A hopeless romantic that struggled for many years to find her Mr "Right" and made all the mistakes you could think of while dating. Known for always choosing the wrong guys or messing up relationships, Sonya was finally able to change her approach and mindset when it came to dating which helped her eventually find the man of her dreams and become happily married. You can read more about me here...

One comment on “How To Attract A Sagittarius Man (13 Surefire Ways)”

  1. Hey Sonya I hope you’re doing well. I wanted to tell you about my little problem with a Sagittarius man. Well the first time I saw him we kept staring at each other a lot. Then he seemed to really like me. Like obviously, his friends started pushing him on me and he kept following everywhere with his eyes ext... We studied in the same school but now he moved cause there wasn’t an available class there. So I don’t usually take the bus but there’s this time where I took it and he was there and I noticed him jumping out of his seat like he was so happy to see me somehow.. so all of these things happened.. summer came and we didn’t see each other then I saw him last year for the first time after not seeing him for a while.. and when I got into the bus his friend pushed and I heard him whispering in his ear (hey she’s here) and he suddenly smiled and he kept looking at me and smiling so much but here where I made the biggest mistake of my life ( I was too insecure so instead of looking at him in the eyes I looked at his shoes like down) I saw a great disappointment in his eyes he was sad clearly.. but he’s so sweet he gave me another chance he came to my school and I noticed that he wanted to say something but he couldn’t.. then he realized that I was pointless and whatever he does is useless he stopped looking at me and all.. so I couldn’t take no more I sent him a friend request on facebook but he didn’t respond like I have it 14 hours ( like some sort of chance) but no he ignored but I noticed a view on my story on facebook (cause it was public)
    So yeah this is it.. what should I do and does he still like me ?
    I’m an Aries btw

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