Have you met an amazing Sagittarius that you’re keen to date?
Is he being way too passive in his efforts to pursue you? Maybe he’s not trying at all?
Would you like to learn some methods to make him chase your affection?
That’s perfectly reasonable, as it’s men who should be doing the chasing.
Thankfully, there are plenty of actions you can take which can trigger the Sagittarius personality to desire you - and I’ve listed 7 particularly effective ideas below.
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This trigger within the male mind has been shown to be incredibly relevant in activating feelings of longing and desire towards women.
And, once you understand how it works, you can set it off within a few moments of meeting a man.
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This skill has proven to be effective in attracting all demographics of men. You’re about to attract an abundance of great guys into your life by following these tips.
But, if you’re only interested in inspiring Sagittarius men to chase you, scroll down for my 7 tips to appeal to this sign.
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Here are eight tactics you can take to get a Sagittarius man to chase you. You don’t have to use all of them all at once. In fact, it can be a good idea just to implement one or two methods first to see how successful they are. If they are not bringing about the changes you wish to see, in the time you wish to see them, it may be a good idea to then try another couple of tactics we mention here to get the results you want.
Playing hard to get is one of the oldest tricks in the book, but if you want to get a Sagittarius man’s attention, it can be incredibly effective. They have quite a big ego and so if they no longer have you in their life as a person who is obviously interested, that makes them crave your attention again. Without it, their ego takes a bruising which is something they do their hardest never to have to endure.
To play hard to get, make sure you are not as available to him as you once were. It can be difficult to do at first - especially if you are crushing hard on your Sagittarius guy and want to see him as much as possible. But remember that you need to play the long game here, which means not jumping every time he suggests doing something together.
As briefly mentioned above, a Sagittarius man has a huge ego. If you want to start up a relationship with him therefore you not only have to be aware of that ego but also be sure of how to use it to get what you want. In this instance, it is getting your Sagittarius man to chase you. To do so, massage that ego so that they start to see you as someone who understands them inside out.
They will start to crave your attention, much like with playing hard to get, and will want the feeling they get from you massaging their ego and making them feel great. What you have to do to massage that ego is up to you - what your particular Sagittarius wants will be up to you to decide to know him as well as you do. Some may like their work appreciated while others will want their looks gushed over.
A Sagittarius man can be quite a self-interested and self-sufficient being. They don’t always crave the need to be in a relationship and so as a result are very happy in their own company. This can make it difficult to make a Sagittarius man chase you as they often just won’t see the need.
Bearing that in mind, you have to make him want your company. A good way to do that is to have similar interests to him that he likes to share with you. The chances are, that if you have a crush on him, you already do have similar interests and likes, which is why you are attracted to him in the first place. However, if you don’t, why not take a look into how he spends his spare time or if he has any hobbies or interests that you may like too.
Once you have ascertained what he likes, and what similar interests you have, try to bring up this fact as often as you can with him. He and his ego will like to have someone to talk to about what those interests are.
Being an alpha male, a Sagittarius man is into women with similar confidence but also makes them look great too. Bearing that in mind, you need to stand out from the crowd if you want to make your Sagittarius man chase you. You can’t be a wallflower if you want to have a Sagittarius man in your life.
What you do specifically to make yourself stand out to him is up to you. You can use those similar interests perhaps, to emphasize how well suited you are to each other - particularly when compared to anyone else that may be sniffing around your Sagittarius. Or maybe you can use your looks to pique his interest at first. If you ensure that you are always looking your best around him, you’ll undoubtedly stand out from the crowd and soon become someone that he is attracted to.
It can be hard sometimes when you have a crush on someone to remember that the best relationships are often founded on friendship. This is particularly the case with a Sagittarius man who can so easily be happy in his own company.
A relationship has to be really important to him to want to go spend time with others therefore and if he feels supported and loved in it, that is one of the ways to bring him out of himself. Friendship is such a great way to make them realize that you will support them and be loyal to them no matter what.
Additionally, it can make the bond you both have when you do take things further that much stronger. So think about ways that you can simply be his friend before starting to make him chase you. He will soon come to his senses that you are amazing and that he wants you to be his partner if he is your friend first.
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A good way to stand out from the crowd and not be a wallflower is to show your emotions and be a passionate person with vocal opinions. While some may not agree that an Alpha male like a Sagittarius will enjoy seeing a potential partner assert their feelings, in reality, it will get a Sagittarius man’s attention and make him want to see more of that.
By being open and honest about your emotions and your thoughts on anything that crops up when you are in his company, you will stand out from the crowd and make him want to see you more. From that point on he will chase you so that he gets to see you as much as possible.
Additionally, when you do start a relationship with him, it starts you off on the right foot in terms of balance. If you are known for being a person who will voice their opinions, you will naturally do this when you are in a couple. It means that you stand a much better chance of having your needs met as you will make it known when you are not happy.
Perhaps one of the quickest, but hardest ways to get a Sagittarius man to chase you is to talk to him directly about how you want to take things further with him. In doing so, you will get the answers you need quickly and also know where you stand with him. Also, it may simply alert him to something that he didn’t realize - that you were interested in him for things other than just friendship.
Also, when you talk to him, it can set a great precedent for the rest of your relationship. The reason being is that you have opened up the lines of communication and therefore you have made it possible for you both to talk about anything and everything. By making yourself vulnerable to him by putting your feelings on the line, he will hopefully go on to do the same so that you always know where each other stands when it comes to your feelings.
It can be so easy to do, but it is important when you are trying to get a Sagittarius man’s attention so that he will chase you, that you have to flirt with him a little. This is what starts an attraction and sets about your friendship from a platonic one. Flirting starts up sexual chemistry and repartee that is necessary for fro relationships to begin.
Flirting is fun too and can stop the initial stages of a crush from becoming too serious. How you flirt with your chosen man has to be down to you, and what your personality is like and what his characteristics are. But flirting is needed in any relationship at any stage - particularly right at the beginning. It starts that spark which is what will get a Sagittarius man to chase you.
Getting a Sagittarius man to chase you can be tricky as they are such a confident and self-assured person that they don’t crave partnership. However, by playing hard to get you can materially improve your chances as well as ensuring that you look like a fun, positive person when you are around him.
If a Sagittarius man is into you or likely to fall in love with you, he will often show his interest by contacting you a lot and making his attraction known. He is a straightforward character who doesn’t shy away from showing his feelings.
A Sagittarius man is often very happy in his own company, but he can miss his other half at times. He needs someone who understands his complicated ways and offers support that doesn’t come across as overbearing or as a threat to his abilities.
To make a Sagittarius guy interested in you and your relationship again, it can be very beneficial to either play hard to get or to ask him directly why his attentions have wondered. Often, he won’t be aware that he appears less interested in the relationship as he was before.
Making a Sagittarius miss you can be difficult to do as they are often heavily invested in their own life. It can take a lot to grab their attention to make them think about you when you’re nit there. Bearing this in mind, one of the best things you can do is simply take away any contact you have with him.
The key to getting a Sagittarius man to pursue you is to pique his interest first to get his attention. This is crucial to get right but can be done easily - particularly if you follow our tactics above. Ideas like having similar interests, flirting with him, or making yourself stand out from the crowd, are all great tips for garnering that first spark of attention in the first instance. From there, all you have to do is watch your Sagittarius seek your company time and time again as his attraction for you grows and grows.
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