Are you falling in love with a ‘player’?
Are you wondering whether there’s a way to change his promiscuous ways - and have him all to yourself?
If so, read on.
The guide below suggests 8 steps you can take to make a player fall in love with you.
However, before we begin, I want you to read the next few sentences very carefully.
Recently, I discovered a little-known aspect of male psychology which has a huge impact on how men perceive the women in their life.
It’s called The ‘Hero’s Instinct’ - and it would appear to have a powerful impact on most men.
When this psychological trigger is activated, it releases intense feelings of power, purpose and self-love within a man. Naturally, he begins to feel more affectionate and devoted to a woman who can make him feel this way.
By learning how to activate this way of thinking inside men, I was able to improve the quality of my relationships. Instead of being seen as ‘a bit of fun’, men would often quickly begin to OBSESS over me (read my personal story to learn more).
The crazy thing is: so few people seem to know about this. This is your opportunity to make him feel like no other woman can.
I’d definitely rank this as my #1 seduction hack for players, but there are 8 more listed below.
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The problem with a player is that he lives for the buzz of finding a pretty girl, making her like him and eventually going all the way with her. Once he’s done that, the novelty of the relationship often goes and although he might still date you for a few months, he’s constantly looking for a new woman to chase down. Which is why players so often cheat on their girlfriends.
So, when it comes to how to make a player fall in love with you, you need to break him out of this habit and not succumb to his charms by building a friendship with him first. Specifically, you need to build a friendship based on his hobbies and interests.
This means you need to take an interest in asking about his life, his family and anything he’s interested in. For instance, if he’s really into sports, get into that sport too. You might just find that he starts inviting you to watch games with him and his friends – even better he might just invite you!
The same goes if he’s really into a certain band or something like cars. Learn about his interests and start sharing your knowledge in casual conversation. Your player will be incredibly impressed by everything you know and he’ll start thinking of you as a friend that he can chat with about everything and anything.
Just make sure that it’s not entirely ‘friend’ chat. You also want to flirt and make sure he knows you’re interested in him as a lover too. Your main goal here is to have him be your friend and be attracted to you at the same time. Love, after all, is the same idea – soon he’ll be wanting you in his life for good.
When it comes to how to make a guy fall in love with you, it’s essential that you’re different from any of the women your player has dated before. That’s because, your player is used to a certain pattern for dates. He’ll find a pretty girl, charm her, date her and then move on.
So, to make a player fall in love with you, you need to seduce him in a totally different way from what he’s used. As only then will he hold you different in his mind from the other women he’s been dating. Which means, you’re going to have to make him obsessed with you. So, get yourself dressed up, post lots of photos of yourself on social media looking good and show off your busy social life. The goal here is to have him interested and wanting to talk to you, but also showing that you’re happy to chat to other men. That way he’ll want to lock you down as his girlfriend.
Keep in mind, posting photos doesn’t mean that you need to take your clothes off or do you need to send him suggestive photographs. Rather, by not posting these and instead focusing on you looking good with friends, he’ll be more inclined to see you as girlfriend – even wife – material.
It’s the oldest rule in the “how to make someone fall in love with you” rulebook – if you want a player to fall in love, you need to play hard to get. That’s because, up until now, your player has been used to getting any women he wants at the drop of a hat. So, by making yourself inaccessible to him, he will become obsessed with changing your mind.
This means, you must not sleep with you too soon. Instead, you need to make sure he has feelings for you first. As, by letting his feelings grow – and possibly falling in love with you first – he is far more likely to want to have a relationship with you too.
So, make sure he notices you. Flirt with him at parties or when you see him, however, turn him down for dates for at least the first few times. Otherwise you won’t be playing hard to get hard enough. You’ll always want to post lots of photos of you out and having fun online. That way he’ll see you’re fun and amazing, making him want to try harder for you to agree to that date.
Most of all, never get tempted to drunk text him at 3 am and let him come over. If you do, your play will just think of you as a booty call and no more special to any of the other women he's met in the dating world.
The problem with knowing how to make a player want you is the fact we all know they have a list. That is, a list of women on their phone that they will send over text messages when they are looking for attention or some fun. So, if you want your player to fall head over heels in love with you, you’re going to want to make sure he only wants to message you and those other women are long forgotten.
Which begs the question, how to make someone to fall in love with you? Well, when it comes to players, the key to their love is making sure that you’re not too available. The likelihood is, if he thinks you’re attractive, then he’ll have on his ‘hot list’ and will send over the occasional text. If you answer it though, true he might flirt with you for a few hours or take you on a date, but ultimately you will be expendable.
Instead, if you choose to not message him back, he will start wondering why you’re not being available to him. Which will have him more interested in you and more likely to interact with you because he wants to, rather than him just being bored.
So, when he does message, take your time replying and take that time to post photographs of yourself out enjoying yourself. Similarly, if he asks you out on a date, tell him you’re too busy. He’ll start to become desperate to get you out on a date, which in turn will make him more likely to want to date you long-term. It doesn’t matter if you really are busy or not – he just has to think that.
Just remember, though, this is a tough game to play. As, yes you need to be unavailable but if you play it too hard to get, he will lose interest altogether.
Even if you don’t feel confident in yourself, if you want your player to fall in love with you, you’re going to have to fake it until you feel like you are. As, if there is one weakness amongst players, it is the fact that they adore women who are confident and sure of themselves. To fake your confidence, start by showing off on your social accounts. Here you can post lots of photographs of you looking amazing, which will give the impression that you are confident with your body and how you look.
Which means you’ll soon have lots of comments and likes from other men – showing your player that you’re a confident woman who is in high demand. Which will make him very interested in you! You see, the big issue with players is that they’re used to women who fall at their feet. Then, when your player is getting bored and starting to look elsewhere, these women will become very clingy and upset. Which will show them looking less than confident to that player.
By showing yourself to be confident, you are becoming the exact opposite of the women he’s used to dating. Which will make you that much more attractive to him. Then, if you start to date, keep your confidence high even if he’s acting up. Maybe he says he’s not looking for something serious and he’s open to dating other women – if this is this is the case, tell him good, as you’re looking to date elsewhere too. This confidence will drive him wild and he’ll soon be asking for exclusivity.
Players just aren’t used to strong women who will put them in their place and show them who’s boss. So, by being this confident woman, you will instantly be put well above any other girl he’s dated. Which means, he will start treating you differently and will respect you that much more – something which is just the first step to falling in love with you.
If you want to know how to make someone fall in love you, the worst thing you can do is try to force him with a lot of commitment. As when it comes to players, we already know that these men have issues with commitment and can become scared easily – which means they’ll just run away to other women.
You see, when you finally get your player interested in and starting to date you, many women can make the mistake of thinking they have their man bagged. Which can lead to these girls pressuring their players into saying that they love you, which can be a lot of pressure and will more likely drive your man away again.
Instead, you need to keep it cool and just enjoy your relationship for what it is at the moment. So, have fun, date and really get to know each other. After all, it’s your personality and your confidence that is going to keep him interested in you. Then, after a little time, he will be ready to tell you that he loves you.
Even better, let him tell you first! That way he’ll be showing you that he really feels it and wants you to know he’s in it for the long run.
When it comes to a player, he’s going to be unsettled by feelings. Indeed, most men will run straight to the hills if he thinks that you’re being overbearing and too into him. Which is why you should hide your true feelings about him until he’s on the same page as you.
Now, this will probably feel pretty dishonest for people, however, you need to think of it as a game where a slow and steady approach will win the race. Yes, you might already be in love with your player, but there’s no need to tell him that yet.
For a lot of men, a woman who declares her love for you is a terrifying prospect. As you instantly conjure up images of that woman wanting to live together, get married and have kids straight away. Which is often enough to freak that player out, meaning he’ll run away from you and your relationship.
Instead, just keep acting as normal, being confident and having fun in each other’s company. Before you know it, your man will be feeling exactly the same as you and will be happy to share these feelings with you. Then, when you tell him you feel the same, he will feel ecstatic about your feelings rather than scared.
While you might want to avoid having sex with your player when you’re working out how to get someone to like you – especially when if you have sex with him, he might decide to move onto someone new. Which is why you should wait and get him really interested in you first.
However, once you’ve bagged your player and you’re both in a relationship, you’re both going to want to have sex. Which is where you can really seal the deal with making your player fall in love with you, as if you rock his world in bed – he’ll never want to be with anyone else again.
So, when it comes to your bedroom antics, be adventurous and try out new things. Also consider dressing up and make yourself look as good as possible for date nights. Not only will this be appreciated but he will likely return the favor, making for a romantic night in.
Plus, make sure you’re having fun too, a player might be experienced in bed, but that doesn’t mean he’s good at pleasuring women. By telling him what you like and what you want, he will see you as a strong, confident woman who he wants to make sure has the best time.
By being honest with each other’s likes, you will also find that it brings you both closer as you know each other that much more. Which makes it that much more likely that you will both stay together in the long run.
Dating a player might not be the ideal romance for a woman. The problem is, though, so many of us are attracted to the kind of men who have the potential to break our hearts. despite the fact we know they are aren't good for us. However, if we play the dating game correctly, there is a good chance that you can turn your man from a player into a potential husband who will love you dearly and want to spend the rest of his life with you.
Making a player love you is far from easy, though. So, even if you follow every tip on this guide, there's still a chance it won't work. However, it is a risk worth taking, especially when there's that chance it could work. So, good luck and invite us to the wedding!