Before starting a relationship with anyone, it can be a little scary at times knowing whether we will have a shot at a successful partnership in the long term. However, we can use star signs as a way to gauge whether a relationship will work.
Here, in this article, we investigate the compatibility of Virgo and Scorpio signs and whether it is a recipe for love. Additionally, we look at traits of both Scorpio and Virgo signs to see if they bring out the best in the other sign. More specifically, we look at the traits seen in a Virgo man and a Scorpio woman to ascertain whether this dynamic will result in love and a highly compatible relationship.
There are both advantages and disadvantages to a Virgo man and Scorpio woman dynamic that can make them a good match at times - particularly if in that specific partnership the beneficial traits outweigh the negative points. In some Virgo man and Scorpio woman couples, the bad points will sadly be stronger than the benefits - this is down to what characteristics are stronger in one Scorpio woman or one Virgo man to the next.
Without doubt one of the best characteristics that help a Virgo man and a Scorpio woman get on and sometimes fall in love, is the fact that a Virgo man is very kind. This helps a Scorpio woman find him attractive as it makes him chivalrous and supportive. Plus, a Scorpio woman will start to feel like she is high on her partner’s list of priorities thanks to a Virgo man’s kindness.
Another trait in a Virgo guy, which is so often overlooked for more exciting characteristics, is the fact that he is reliable. While reliability is never first seen as something that sparks fireworks in a fledgling relationship, reliability can most definitely maintain a relationship and help solidify a couple’s bond. In terms of Scorpio women and Virgo men, a Scorpio woman will always appreciate a Virgo man’s reliability.
Scorpio women can be quite fiery characters at times. However, as a Virgo man is patient - as well as kind - it can help in their long term compatibility as a Virgo man will be able to cope with a Scorpio woman’s passionate outbursts when they occur. While other signs may be scared off by such a temper, a Virgo man is able to cope with it due to his never-ending patience.
A Scorpio woman’s personality is often seen as a feisty one, which can often overshadow some of her softer traits. One that helps a Virgo man and Scorpio woman dynamic to turn into love is that a Scorpio woman is a very loyal being. This means that she too, like Virgo, can be a very supportive partner who respects her partner’s wishes at all times. A Virgo man can not help but appreciate this.
So often, honesty is touted as something that everyone wants in a relationship, but struggle to uphold. This is not the case with Scorpio women, who are incredibly honest and will always stick to the truth. To Virgo men, this is a fantastic characteristic to have as it means they always know where they stand with their Scorpio girlfriend.
Sadly, a Virgo man can be a very stubborn person on occasion which can rub a Scorpio woman up the wrong way. This is down to their feisty personality which means that they don’t appreciate obstinance, especially when they are so honest. However, if a Virgo guy can keep this in check, there is no reason why they still can’t make one another happy. Hopefully, with a Scorpio’s honest nature, she will call out her Virgo boyfriend at times that he is being stubborn so that his stubborn nature doesn’t become a bigger issue for them.
Another trait that a Scorpio woman can struggle with, despite her honesty, is the fact that a Virgo guy is very critical from time to time. After a time, a Scorpio female will find this quite grating and may wear her down - particularly if the Virgo male is a very negative or pessimistic person because this critical trait outweighs many of his good points. Again, because a Scorpio woman is honest - almost to a fault sometimes - she may be able to get over her Virgo boyfriend’s critical nature by telling him that his critical ways are upsetting her.
Jealousy is a trait that may injure any relationship. However, a Scorpio female’s jealousy can manifest itself in a way that is particularly troublesome for her relationship with a Virgo male. This is because she is very feisty and so will let her partner know when his actions are causing her to be jealous. However, because she is so easily jealous, this can be aggravating for a Virgo due to his naturally reliable ways. His character is not one known for being unfaithful and he can be easily hurt that his girlfriend jumps to her jealous conclusions.
One trait that a Virgo guy can often struggle to contend with to maintain a happy relationship with his Scorpio girlfriend is her resentful ways. While these may not always be directed at him, he can find her bitter comments, and her inability simply to be happy for others are difficult to cope with. However, this can often be overcome given that he is also very patient. As is often the case, patience is a virtue - but one that is much needed when a person can be resentful of others good fortunes much of the time.
It is a difficult personality trait to overcome for any boyfriend, but one issue that a Virgo guy will have to cope with if he is serious about a relationship with a Scorpio female is the fact she can be so controlling. This is often down to her jealous ways and controlling her boyfriend is one of the ways she manages to keep her jealousy in check at times. However, that doesn’t make it any easier to deal with. As ever, a Virgo’s patient ways will help cope with this, as will his kindness, but it is definitely something to be aware of before embarking into a relationship with this dynamic.
A Virgo man and a Scorpio woman can be a good match if the benefits that we mention above outweigh the bad points. This will depend on what the particular Virgo man and the particular Scorpio woman have as their strengths of character.
Virgo men are attracted to Scorpio women because not only are they one of the sexiest signs of the Zodiac, they also tend to be very loyal and honest women. This is a fantastic basis for a relationship, coupled with that strong physical desire brought on by their looks.
In terms of Scorpio and Virgo compatibility, there is every chance that this dynamic can result in a walk down the aisle and a very successful marriage. Whilst they will need to work at things to ensure that matters like jealousy and stubbornness don't cause long term problems, they can have a very long-lasting and loving relationship.
Virgos see Scorpios as a highly attractive sign who has a magnetic personality. The chemistry between them can be high and often the Virgo will often have a crush on a Scorpio first thanks to a Scorpio’s more ‘look at me’ personality’.
Many astrologers often advocate Scorpios marrying a Pisces as they are a fellow water sign. The other water sign is a Cancer and they can make a good match. However, a Scorpio and a Virgo can get along very well sometimes, so much so that it can result in love and a relationship.
This dynamic can work in terms of compatibility and these two signs can most definitely fall in love. Their relationship can go the distance and be a very happy one. The success of this dynamic will rely on both partners being able to communicate openly with one another. While the Scorpio will tend to speak her mind a little more, she will need to learn to do so in a way that is tactful. She will also need to remember not to jump to jealous conclusions all the time. The same can be said of a Virgo’s critical ways - he will need to remember that his girlfriend will only ever have his best interests at heart.
If both signs manage to do this, there is absolutely no issue getting in the way of these two falling and staying in love for life.
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Well, you’ll need to have a much deeper understanding of his astrological love profile. My friend and relationship astrologer Anna Kovach prepared this Free Compatibility Quiz to help you discover the secrets of his zodiac sign.