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5 Undeniable Signs of a Virgo Man In Love With You

by Sonya Schwartz

Are you wondering whether your Virgo partner loves you?

Perhaps you’re becoming impatient with his inability to show his feelings? 

Maybe you’ve heard of the infamous perfectionist nature of a Virgo and are wondering if he’ll express his love for you!?

If so, read on because this article will reveal the telltale signs that a Virgo man has strong feelings for a woman. 

But first, I want to tell you an important story.  

I spent the majority of my twenties in relationships with men who wouldn’t show their affection to me. 

Most of my time in these relationships, I spent fearing that they’d leave me for someone better - and they usually did. 

It felt like I’d always be no more than a ‘bit of fun’, rather than being seen as a woman worth building a long-term relationship with.   

However, everything turned around when I discovered a little-known aspect of male psychology called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’. 

This psychological trigger has a huge impact on the way men feel about the women in their life. 

Once I learned how to trigger this, my relationships became a lot more loving and affectionate. 

I put it entirely down to this psychological principle, which is so easy to learn, yet so few people seem to know about. 

If you want to learn more about how I discovered the power of the ‘Hero’s Instinct’, click to read my personal story.       

Of course, it may well be that the Virgo of your dreams is already on the cusp of declaring his love for you. 

Read on to discover the five undeniable signs that this is the case.

What's a Virgo man like?

A Virgo is someone who will adore you when they are ready to. They might take things slow whilst they assess you, but when they decide you are the one for them, you can look forward to a lifetime of someone who is very invested in you and enraptured by the smallest things you do. He will want to immerse himself in knowing your likes, dislikes, hobbies and quirks. He will be keen to be the only man in your life and will be committed to making it work once he has decided you are the one for him and to get him to this point, knowing you inside out is the ultimate goal of a relationship. Here are some other signs he is in love with you, or falling in love as we speak!

1)  He lets you see his faults

As you know its key for you to see some faults  in any person for a relationship to really blossom but getting to this stage with a Virgo man can be hard. They are very reserved and very guarded and as a perfectionist, he doesn't want to be seen as anything less than perfection himself! He's his own biggest critic.

 For this sign, it's hard to open up and make somebody see them for who they really are and typically they need to really be in love or falling in love to let them show their shortcomings and vulnerabilities. if he is opening up in this way, it is very clear that he sees you as a person that won't hurt him.  Because Virgos are very critical people who criticize I general, you might think that they believe in perfection and also seek perfection.

However, for. Virgo there's no greater critic than themselves.

If he is loving you he will be letting you into his personal space which can consist of things like showing you his finances, things he's working on,  his ideas, anything that is very personal to him.

This sign does hold a lot of stuff in and that means they tend to want a woman who can offer enough space and they just can't trust everybody. This means that if he is allowing you into his personal space in any manner, it should mean a lot because these very spiritual beings have taken that time to allow you in!

2) You've met his family

Another way to tell that the Virgo may have gone head over heels in love with you is another really big one, but maybe the most important one of all - and that is if he invites you to meet his mother, or another family member, but particularly his mother!

Even the biggest and grown up Virgo men are very close to their mothers, or the mother figure in their life, it can be a grandmother, a big sister or something like that, whoever is the highest-ranking woman in his life, so to speak.

If the Virgo in your life takes you to meet her then he's definitely falling in love with you. Think of the Virgo family a bit like royalty - this is very sacred. He's a natural worrier and meeting the family will probably make him anxious. He won't do this for just any lady in his life!

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A Virgo man don't want to disrespect their mothers so when they bring a woman home to their mothers it's important at this stage that they already know her, that the see her as someone that could be a wife and also a friend, and someone who can slot into that family unit, whatever it looks like.

So, if you have an invite, grab your most demure dress and your best gifts to take and accept the offer!

3) He's making romantic and grand gestures

A Virgo man likes to make gestures that will appeal to you. Because of all his research into your character you can be sure that he will start to show his love with anything he can think of that with resonate with you. Whether it's that trip you wanted or a watch, a Virgo will have considered how to make you smile.  Look out for perfection in the places he takes you too as well, for him, a 5-star restaurant in the best place in town is a greater symbol of his love for you than the home cooked meal that another sign would have made you.

He might still bring out those Virgo traits - he can be. Bit of a nag - but that doesn't mean he has gone off you. It's just what he does. With a Virgo you might need to look at the things he is doing over what he is saying to tell that he really is in love with you.

Watch out for him when he is spoiling you as well. You may see him looking at you when you aren't aware, taking photos for later and saving little mementos of the date. These are all part of the Virgo's charms for you and signs he is really head over heels!

4) He's marking his territory!

When you think of a classic dominant Alpha male, you are probably picturing a Virgo in love! He will be keen to keep you close, to check in on you and when other men are round to pull you near, kiss you in the middle of the bar or to take photos together to post online! A Virgo man that's in love nearly always demonstrates these tactics as a way of fending off rival males and also to show you that you are loved and honored by him.

Watch out for signs that he is marking you as part of his territory with some of these physical methods! He might also be allowing you into his territory - giving you a key to his place or letting you drive his car, anything that will allow him to really cement your relationship together.

5) He's more intimate with you more often

A Virgo has the reputation of being a bit 'slow' in the physical department, but that's because of the romantic and logical side of this sign. He is also usually at work or busy, as you can imagine, this perfectionist has trouble leaving things behind. That doesn't mean he has gone off you - and if he is in the right mood and things are going well, you can expect him to be great fun in this area! He is very sexual and sensual when he is ready, but Virgos need that bond to be there first. If he is changing in this area, then there is a high chance he already feels that he can trust you and that you are someone that he can really relate to, just don't worry if it doesn't always run like clockwork!

Is your Virgo man in love with you?

We hope that these signs have given you hope that the Virgo man you are spending time with is really on the right track to saying 'I love you!' We are sure if you have met his family, are never away from his side and are starting to know his secrets and dreams then it can't be far away at. All.

Please leave a comment below about the particular Virgo man in your life and let us know what signs you have seeing so far so that we can help you see if it's a love sign! There are plenty more things to look out for around this man we can help you identify and we would love to troubleshoot any emotional issues you may be having.

Plus, why not share this with a friend who has been struggling to know if their Virgo man is in love with them and see if it can help them identify some of these classic traits!

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Sonya Schwartz
A hopeless romantic that struggled for many years to find her Mr "Right" and made all the mistakes you could think of while dating. Known for always choosing the wrong guys or messing up relationships, Sonya was finally able to change her approach and mindset when it came to dating which helped her eventually find the man of her dreams and become happily married. You can read more about me here...

16 comments on “5 Undeniable Signs of a Virgo Man In Love With You”

  1. started dating Virgo x1 month ago. He is very attentive to my needs. I love how he remembers everything I say to him. I'm a Taurus by the way

  2. I'm a taurus girl dating a virgo guy for 6 months and I think he is the best.he gives you all of his love and feels secure at the same time. he always finds a way to save the relationship even when you are fighting with him. he remmembers every thing about you and wants you to visit his family. he is always there to help you he never plays a role he is so honest. you are the #1 person on his mind even when he is busy.and he is less talkative he loves nature he hates heavy make ups he is party animal he does everthing to make you happy and he is a family man

  3. I met s. Virgo man 21 months ago. He has cut my grass 8 times, fixed my car 3 or 4 times, helped me move, is so very sweet to me and my dog. Is he in love wiith me?

  4. Almost 2 years with my Virgo man and it’s been the best! Always attentive, extremely attractive and very intelligent. Met his family, he helps me financially and looks for ways to make me smile. I love him!

  5. My Virgo man we have not had sex for 4 months now but we talk everyday and see each other ,we have been dating for 8 years now , he still care for my needs, does he love me ?

  6. So I’ve been with my Virgo man almost two years; he’s done all of this but recently he’s been pulling away and being distant. We got in a huge fight because the affection Kinda disappeared and said another girl was hot but not me. He use to but recently hasn’t. We’ve been on and off for the first of the year because we get in stupid little fights and he can’t handle it. He keeps saying he wants to make it work and finally said he loved me but that was also the same day I moved out. It’s sooo confusing!

  7. I met this guy 2yrs ago . When we started talking we both decided to be FWB I wouldn’t thought that we gonna last this long for 2yrs. I didn’t expect that I fall for him. I was surprised one day he became open to me about his life about his goals. He’s been open to me lately than before he is very private person he just doesn’t let anyone in . In his life. He’s a very busy men always working What I like is he tried to find time as much as he can to see me or spend time with me . I just hope one day I can call him my boyfriend. I just hope one day it will be official.

  8. I’m an Aries girl. I dated a Virgo guy for almost 2 years then we ended and started to reconnect. We love each other and can feel a deep connection however we both have hurt each other through our past actions. We are still young and talk about the future( I however get carried away with over thinking about it- which ive been trying not to do) I feel as though he’s more distant than when we dated and may be unsure about us despite the fact that he says he wants a future with us. He still says he does not want us to jump back into a relationship as he fears me hurting him as I once did. We are still loyal to each other’s love and haven’t been busy with other people since we started to reconnect-as far as I know. Do you think I’m wasting my time ?

  9. Though my virgo guy has taken me to his family, and enjoys me being around him more than any other thing, he doesn't call me often and doesn't shower me with gifts; it's getting me worried

  10. I’m a Taurus,and my Virgo bf is 9 years younger than me. We’ve been together for 4 yrs going five,but I was in an abusive relationship which I was living with the person. (I’ve moved out now)However,I worked so we hardly gotten time to meet up when we just met. But I liked him from the first time I saw him. He ended up getting a son out of our relationship and that still lingers on my mind that he hurted me. We are still together,I’ve met his family,he comes to my house and he acts silly around me,tells me his problems and business plans. But I can’t get the grip of his love just yet. He says I’m too insecure. I love him and would love for him to be my husband. He’s now abroad ,and face time me every single day just to talk,most times we don’t even have nothing to say.

  11. My virgo and i (i am a saggitarius)we have been friends and spending time together for 6mths. As of July 4th we've been inseparable. He told me he loves me...i have not told him i love him because i want to be 100% sure. He does everything noted in this article. I have met his daughter and some of his family but not his mom as yet.i am afraid that he fell in love quickly and so may fall out of love quickly - what do you think?

  12. Am a Gemini dating a Virgo guy. He play all the role listed here. Time spent with him is so special and he is the jealous type. He surprise me everyday with the way he become open each time and he also expect the same with me. We really love each other a lot. But he's more happy to see me being happy. He is very sensitive and intelligent, a hardworking guy. He make sure the house is in order. There is never a day without him calling and he likes texting too. He used to tell me that am the only girl he have introduce to his mother, he sometimes like to hear his faults. Am really in love with him and I love him without a reason.

  13. I'm an aquarius women in love with a Virgo man. is he in live with me ? idk. he has said many things to me that says yes. he has tried to come meet me many times but I always run away from his efforts. now he has been distant but tells me things like "i care even if it doesn't seem like i do" or says "he will always be here for me when I'm ready" but when I reach out to him texting and etc. he ignores me. idk and again we haven't met in person but we know of each other and know the same people and etc. maybe I am just crazy lol reading about his zodiac sign online and etc. anyways .. it was a fun read

  14. I’m in a long distance relationship with a Virgo. It’s been 4 months, we have had our ups and down, and some bad ones, I’m an Aries, some reason we can let go of each other, we both have said fo ahead block me, we don’t. He thinks I’m to inquisitive he doesn’t like it. He said that tonight. He thought I was to needy, I told him I don’t need a man in my life, I’ve taken care of myself for 40 yrs. I want a man to love me as I do him.
    We made progress tonight. He is the first man I’ve been in love with. I’m 71. I’ll be so happy when he comes home. We have not seen each other ever and we don’t video chat, we text & talk on the phone.

  15. I knew this Virgo by working with him at a place of employment we never talked till about a month ago on messenger...he has been badly hurt and tells me he just wants friendship no relationship especially when he hasn’t been drinking but if he has a couple of beers he gets more relaxed and says things like I have made him the happiest in short time together than he had in past of 17 years .. confused... he has worked on vehicle he has let me drive his vehicle and I’ve meet his kids and one sister... so is he starting to fall in love with me?

  16. Omg this is Absolutely correct I'm a TAURUS with this incredible Virgo man he is so attentive and sensible and sensual we get along great I Believe he is in love

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