How do you make a man fall in love with you? This is the age old question. How come some women just have to waft by and every man in the building stops, stares and comments on how he'd love to be going out with her. What if it could happen to you? Me and my friends have come up with some interesting ideas all of which have helped us make our men fall in love with us.
Because you're individual and special, we want you to live happily ever after. We thought it would be a good idea to share some ideas with you. I hope we can help you find a man to fall in live with you. You deserve a nice happy life with a man who loves you and who can share the dreams you have and make them become a reality.
When I try to put a posh voice on or when I laugh at something I don't find funny, I feel like I've lost strength in my personality. My personality is mine and mine alone. I've learnt that you can't act how you think other people want you to act because it's too much like hard work. If I feel like having a quiet few hours reading a book, Ill do that.
I won't join in conversations just to be the life and soul of the party. If you are not being yourself and your current boyfriend starts to fall for you, imagine how difficult it would be to keep up that pretense. The relationship would sooner or later come to an unhappy ending. Imagine how cheated you would feel if you acted out a role for the rest of your life.
You would be denying your existence and that would be a tragedy. My advice is to be yourself and let your man see the real you, warts and all! He will fall in love with you for being you and he will respect you for being the real deal.
You fell for your guy because he's funny, amusing and he loves football and the moment you met him you clicked because he seemed really nice and caring. My friend had a guy like that but she just couldn't go along with the flow. She told him off for making jokes about everything even though she'd found that attractive in him when they first met.
She stopped laughing at his jokes because she wanted him to take things more seriously, even though she'd cried laughing with him when they first met. She got fed up with him wanting to go and watch his beloved football, she wanted all of his attention all of the time. His really nice, caring nature was overlooked because she didn't listen to his thoughts and feelings.
Needless to say they split up;she says she's sorry now that she tried to change who he was. She says if she could have a second chance she would not change the way he was and she would appreciate him a whole lot more. My advice is if you like who he is don't try to change him. He will fall in love with you because you are letting him live his life and not trying to cage him.
We all need support, you need it, I need it, and your man needs it. We live in a society where the man is seen as the strong one and no doubt this is true in a lot of circumstances. I believe in equality, but I also know my own strengths and weaknesses. Most men would find it difficult to admit defeat on anything ranging from filling in a crossword puzzle, lifting a heavy load or struggling in their job.
When he asks you for help, you must be very supportive because usually when a man asks for help he really needs it! So your support in such times will be absolutely invaluable. Your man will fall in love with you because you were there to help and support him when he needed it most.
My friend has an interesting story to tell. She met her boyfriend in a nightclub, she loved music and dancing and he liked drinking and partying. But there was a catch, when push came to shove and they'd been going out for a few months he asked her to go fishing with him. He wanted less time drinking and partying and more time with her doing something he really enjoyed.
So off they went with their picnic basket and fishing rods. She'd never fished before and he taught her how to do it. They laughed together at her daft mistakes but guess what? She caught more fish than him; she was a natural at it. Because she tried to make him happy by going along with something she knew nothing about, it made him fall in love with her all the more. The happy ending to her story is that they are married now with three children and they all go fishing together.
I'm rubbish at telling jokes; I can't seem to deliver the punch line with the humor it deserves. I'm also rubbish at listening to jokes; I never get the punch line and I'm left standing there with a frown across my face, while everyone else is falling about laughing. For some reason though that seems to make my partner laugh even louder.
He always makes a quip like how come you don't get the joke and I'm like I don't know, I just don't get it. This creates a camaraderie between us which brings us closer together. We could be in a packed room with loads of people when somebody decides to tell a joke, he will look over at me secretly smiling because he knows that the chances of me finding it funny are zero...but this is what makes him laugh.
Your own antics and personality will shine through and your partner will fall in love with you when you find something about yourself that makes him laugh. It could be anything, it doesn't matter, you will share the laughter together.
One of my friends is a bit shy and even talking about sex makes her blush, so knowing how shy she was her boyfriend knew that she just needed a bit of confidence to show her sexy side. He complimented her on her figure and made her feel confident about her body. Because he was so thoughtful, she responded by being a bit more daring with her appearance; a push up bra, a bit more lipstick, an air of knowing she was attractive. This went a long way with her boyfriend because he knew she was making the effort to look sexy for him.
We all know the feeling when we've had a row with someone. We don't want to back down and admit were wrong or we don't want to believe the other person might have a point worth thinking about. Trust me when I say you can still let your feelings and view points be known and you can still argue the case for yourself.
Just bear in mind that a solution to the problem or an out come to an argument can be dealt with so much easier when you are reasonable. Being reasonable isn't about who's right or wrong it's about getting to the crux of the matter in a civilized manner. I know it's easier said than done when you're not in full control of your emotions but your partner will fall in love with you because he knows you've given everything time to consider. Being reasonable is a very good trait to have.
How easy is it to just get up out of bed when we haven't got work and sit around in our pajamas. I'm ashamed to say I've done it loads but know your limitations. What man wants to come home from his job and find you lazing on the couch? I know it's nice to relax but you can still relax and look nice at the same time.
It's not so much that you being in your pajamas, it's that it's how's a lack of respect for your partner. If you can't be bothered making an effort for him then he's going to think you're not interested in him. It's all down to discipline. Be disciplined with yourself and take the extra time to smarten up. I don't mean go the full hog and put your full face and glad rags on, I just mean brush your hair, wash your face, and put a casual outfit on and hey presto your appearance is improved for the rest of the day.Your man will fall in love with the way you look after yourself.
Make telling him you love him a lifelong habit. It's too easy to fall out of the habit of saying I love you. Once you're out of the habit it becomes quite difficult to start saying it again. It may feel awkward at first but I ask you to persevere. You will reap the rewards of saying those three little words because he will reciprocate and start saying it back to you too.
You will enjoy giving each other that special moment of togetherness and you will both feel safe, secure and loved within the relationship. Go ahead and make the first move and he will fall in love with you forever.
You ask him what he wants and he tells you. But you go out of your way to try to make things go over the top. You're trying too hard, don't! He knows what he wants and he's asked for it. So when he asks for a simple sandwich for lunch, make it for him. Don't go full on and add all kinds of add-ons.
Simple and easy is the way forward. Also don't think that you've got to fill in every gap in a conversation, sometimes silence speaks louder than words. It's nice for him to know that you're comfortable with the silent moments. When he says let's go for a quiet pub lunch, don't turn up like you've been invited to a wedding. He's probably only turned up in a pair of jeans and a t-shirt,and will definitely feel out of place standing next to you dressed like a wedding guest.
What do people mean when they talk about being high maintenance? Let me give you a few instances. My friend Lisa is high maintenance, she knows it but always wants to be the one. We've all got a friend like this. She wants everybody to tell her how good her new dress looks and will ask everybody in the room what they think of it.
It wears you down. Her nails are the most perfect, her hair is the most perfect and she would rather be an hour late than turn up without her false tan on. Lisa is hard work, it's good for her to look nice but it's not nice when she always has to be the one. She wants you to put a coat down over a puddle so her new Jimmy Choos don't get wet.
But she doesn't worry about your shoes getting wet no, no ,no. Because you're not the one͛...she is! My advice is to do the opposite to Lisa, take a deep breath, relax and enjoy the merry-go-round. Enjoy life for what you can give it rather than what you can take from it. Your boyfriend will fall in love with the sensible, compassionate person you are.
In my experience my partners friends are a bit hit and miss. Some are nice others not so, but don't tell him this. Try to get along with them all and enjoy the company of the ones you do like. When it comes to the ones you're not so keen on, grin and bear it. Have a little moan to your own friends if necessary, after all you're only human, but don't pull them to pieces or rip them into shreds to your boyfriend...this would not be a good move.
He already knows which of his friends are a bit off the grid but he definitely won't want to hear it from you. His friends are important to him, they are a link to a part of his life you may not know much about. They belong to him, and the fact that he's even willing to share them with you is a good indication that he trusts you. Don't ruin that trust, make him fall in love with you and do that oh so rare thing and be nice to them.
In all mine and my friends experiences with the opposite sex, it is jealousy that causes the most heartache. There is a very fine balance between caring and being jealous. My partner actually didn't think I cared about him because I never told him what time he had to be in by. I explained that I was going out with him because I loved him and not because I wanted to jail him, and also because I wasn't his mother.
Jealousy is a like a double edged sword, it can be harming for both of you in a relationship when one of you is jealous. It's how you deal with the jealousy that really matters. If he tells you there's no need to worry, then try not to. If he tries to restrict you with suspicious thoughts, tell him straight that you love him and will not be second guessed on your actions. I think it's true that the people who are the most suspicious are the ones that are the guiltiest. Remember this and believe in your own virtues. He will fall in love with your positive attitude.
If you have ever been out having a good time you will know how easy it is for time to fly. You're having fun and you're not doing anything wrong. You will know as I do that when somebody rings you and asks you what time you are going to be out till, it can be a very difficult question to answer. Well it's the same for him! Let him have his night out, if you love him, you'll let him breathe.
You'll let him live a normal life, a life where he can be himself. We all need some me time. This is a great opportunity for you both to share and trust in each other. He will respect the independent you, who doesn't need him to hold your hand every minute of the day. He will look forward to seeing you and telling you about his night out. He will love you for letting him have some freedom.
When you walk into a room hold your head up high. You're a nice person and you try your best to get along with people. You're a good hard working citizen and you deserve to be thought of highly, but as we all know, sometimes confidence eludes us. We all have to take a deep breath in these moments and trust in our personalities to get us through.
You know that it doesn't look good when you walk into a room and your head is bent forward and you are looking at the floor. You may not feel confident but please try your best to overcome the feeling. An understanding man will know how you are feeling and will fall in love with the strength you show to walk into that room at that moment with him beside you.
How can you smell delicious? Answer: lots of ways. Perfume immediately comes to mind, you know you've got the perfect perfume when he comments about the scent and asks what it is called. I know this sounds crazy but if you've just cooked him a nice meal such as spaghetti bolognese, your apron and skin might still be carrying the aroma of the meal.
When he cuddles up to you during or after the meal he will be reminded of the delicious meal you've just cooked for him. It's a lovely moment to savor together. It might be that you've walked to his house through the countryside to visit him at his home, he opens the front door and the the earthy smell of the outdoors hits him immediately.
What a lovely moment to create. Maybe you've just got out of the shower smelling of coconut shower gel, he hands you the towel and bingo he's hooked. Smell delicious and let your man fall in love with you completely.
I like the thought that body language is a secret language between lovers. One look can tell a story better than any fairy tale romance you've ever read. You walk together through the park and sway together in unison, you're a lovely couple and you know it. It feels good to be in this universe together and you know it feels right to be with each other.
Try giving him the look he knows that means you want him. It's a look he knows well and it will give you both a thrill that this is between just you and him. Nobody else matters in these moments and love will come as naturally as day and night. Each of your body language subtleties will be exaggerated on a grand scale that only the two of you will ever understand. This understanding is the power you will have for him to fall in love with you that will give you both the fairy tale life you both deserve.
My friend met her boyfriend on a flight abroad. It was freezing and the snow was falling rapidly. She couldn't wait to land and get into her cozy hotel room. She'd read it had a real fire and the entertainment was a small band singing traditional ballads. What fun and relaxation she thought she was going to have.
But what really happened was nothing of the sort. The man she met on the plane was also staying at the hotel. He was good looking and had a lovely personality, but not for him was sitting up close to the fire, no, he liked rambling. Rambling in the great outdoors was his hobby. He admired the beauty of the open countryside and couldn't wait to don his winter gear and set off.
They'd hit it off so well during the evenings performance at the hotel that he asked her to go with him on one of his rambles along the lake. Although she'd never been rambling before she thought she'd try out this new hobby so that she could get to know him a little bit better. They had a great day out and surprised each other with their willingness to try new things. He fell in love with her adventurous nature and they are still together today rambling around the countryside.
Have you heard the saying the way to a mans heart is through his stomach. All my friends know this is a true statement. You could cook him breakfast, lunch and dinner and he'll always come back for more. Food gives us a feeling of well being and home cooked food is particularly fulfilling. Knowing that you've spent time in the kitchen preparing fresh ingredients for the dinner table, will give him the satisfaction of being truly cared for in the most enjoyable way he's ever known. Cooking for him means you want him to be happy. What an attractive quality this will be for him to fall in love with.
Buying a gift doesn't have to be expensive, if the gift has been picked with thought and care this will go a long way toward showing your partner that you know his hearts desire and are willing to give him what he craves. He might not know what gift he'd would want for himself, but just one comment about an incident in his life will give you the insight into what it is that that would please him most.
A thoughtful gift is a very intimate way of saying you care. You've listened to him and you want him to be happy. He likes the fact that you've gone the extra mile and knows that you must think a lot of him. He will fall in love with you because you have an insight into his personality that not everybody understands.
There are a lot of ways that couples can show each other they are trustworthy. Between lovers it might be a trust that they know they are faithful to each other. Being trustworthy is a must, you cannot build a relationship based on lies.
Without trust a couple will have nothing to build their future on. Sometimes you will have to earn your partners trust. Maybe they've been hurt in the past and don't want to be hurt in the same way again.You will have to be patient while building this trust because it is a trust that will last a lifetime. You both need to be honest about what it is that you want and what it is that you both need to give you the feeling of well being and security.
I think it's great when your partner thinks he knows everything about you, but you then tell him a few stories about yourself that he never knew anything about before. I like the fact that he doesn't know every little bit about you. I like the fact that he can be surprised by a single sentence regarding one aspect of the mysterious you behold.
Take a leaf out of my book and make your man fall in love with you by not revealing everything about yourself too soon. You probably don't even think he will be interested in things that have happened to you in the past but he will be captured by the mysteriousness of it all. You don't need to be secretive you just need to come out with the odd sentence that will get him thinking that there is even more to you than he's already seen.
He will be interested to see you as often as possible because your dates are never dull. He is intrigued with you and that is a great asset to have because intriguing puzzles need solving. The interest will be there forever.
I know it doesn't sound brilliant to make your man work for your attention but ultimately we all know, when we've achieved something we've worked for it seems that much more precious. He might want you to go to a concert with him but you've got other commitments. He needs to fully embrace the demands you are under where friends and relatives are concerned.
He will fall in love with you because you are not an easy pushover, and to get a date with you he has to be well organised and book everything required so that you will find it impossible to say no to him. Because of all the trouble he has gone to, your presence with him during the date will be that bit more precious because he has had to do all of the arranging himself.
My friend Susan is very independent; she drives her own car, she runs her own small business and she meets her friends regularly for a catch up. She could never understand why women need to be dependent on a man. She believes her boyfriend should live his own life while she lives hers. She is protective of her boyfriend because their time spent together is truly special because it's what they both want, not because it's what is supposed to happen.
Their relationship works well for them and he's always telling her he loves her and he's proud of her achievements. She appreciates his lovely comments and they listen to each other's lives when they are not together with great interest. Their conversation is never boring because they always have something to talk about. Let your man fall in love with you by being independent, yet showing him you truly are interested in his life too.
Sympathy can quell negative thinking dramatically. When your boyfriend has problems don't be tempted to ignore him because you are watching your favorite soap opera. Listen to his problems and offer advice and support. When he has a problem that you haven't got a solution for, offer him sympathy, he will appreciate the fact that he has an ally in you.
He will fall in love with you because you understand when he needs your attention, your sympathy and understanding will see him through some of his tougher moments in life. This is what true love really is, it's when you can stick together and overcome all obstacles together.
Questions, questions, and even more questions. Countless hours are spent discussing what film you should watch or which restaurant you should go out to at the weekend. By being decisive you will make your partner fall in love with you because all of the pressure of choosing won't fall onto his shoulders.
So when he asks what film you should both watch, pick one and he will immediately be happy because a decision has been made and hours spent discussing the various films are now hours spent relaxing with you without a care in the world. When he asks you which restaurant you should both visit, pick one that you've heard about from a friend who tells you it was really nice. He's happy you've made a decision because now he knows you won't be disappointed and you can both enjoy the ambiance of each other's company at the dining table.
My advice would be not to show off. Everybody hates a show off. Try being humble. You live in a very large house in the country, a friend of his asks where you live but you don't tell them about the large house in the country, you tell him the name of the town you live in and then tell him you like the neighborhood he's from and how you find everybody to be friendly. Your man will fall in love with you because you are not a pushy show off.
If my partner asks me do I want to go for a cable car ride up a mountain , I'll say yes because when you are being adventurous you are not being restrictive. If you want to make your man fall in love with you be open to all that life has to offer and jump at the adventures he suggests. You only get one life so enjoy yours and live life to the full with your partner by your side.
When I met my husbands mother she said I looked like a young Elizabeth Taylor. I was flattered and we hit it off immediately. On a more unusual note she said that if we decided to get married she would be kind to me because she didn't want me to put her in a nursing home! I remember my husbands jaw hitting the ground.
We still laugh about that first meeting with his mother to this day. I've kept in her good books too because I haven't put her in a home. These are the memories we share and these are life's golden moments that will make your man fall in love with you.
Every comedian in every comedy club always portrays the girlfriend or wife as a moaning martyr. Don't let their perception of a partner become true. Don't moan about his tired old jumper or that he's always late, or that he drinks milk straight from the milk bottle instead of pouring it into a glass. Make your man fall in love with you by being a fun loving, caring person who thinks the world about him.
We all love a compliment. Compliments make us feel special and immediately lift our day. Lift your boyfriends day by giving him a compliment. Maybe he's been outside cleaning the car, tell him you think it looks spotless and shiny just like new. Say how great you think he is when he makes you an unexpected cup of cocoa with marshmallows in. Make your man fall in love with you by being complimentary to him.