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Should I Text My Ex To Tell Him I Miss Him? (The Honest Truth)

Does this sound familiar?

It's the the middle of the night and you're at home all by your lonesome self...

Like every night, you have the sudden urge to talk to your ex and are asking yourself: "Should I text my ex?"

It's only normal to have these thoughts and feelings.

After all you used to have such a strong connection with him and shared so many incredibly experiences while you were together.

Now that all that is gone you suddenly feel so empty and lonely inside and he doesn't even seem to care.

How are you suddenly supposed to act like nothing ever happened and just get on with your life?

Well, keep reading as I may have the answer for you below...

Before you text your ex, you want to rule out that he's currently seeing someone else.

Even if it looks like he isn't, he's likely covering it up so it's extremely important that you investigate this a little further to make sure that he isn't.

The best way to rule this out completely is by using a tool like this (click to check it out).

Simply enter his details into the form and this tool will do a deep search and collect a bunch of information on your ex (such as where he's been recently, who he's communicating with, any dating sites that he may be on).

This will give you a pretty good idea as to whether he's currently seeing someone else.

Some women even discovered that their ex who they had dated had actually already been married for many years.

How crazy is that?

Once you've ruled out that he's seeing someone else using this tool, we can have a look at what to do next…

Should I Contact My Ex Boyfriend To Tell Him I Miss Him?

Do you still have feelings for your ex but are unsure whether to tell him? Are you worried in case you get rejected or embarrassed? It is very understandable and normal to feel scared in this instance.

In this article, I will give you some suggestions of what to do and what not to do while texting. If you feel like you need more help make sure you read all the way to the end of this article where I discuss a step-by-step system that helps you text your ex, and in many cases win him back!

One of my friends broke up with her ex and after a short while, she genuinely missed him and the break just reinforced just how much she loved him. I remember the night she came around to and after a bottle of wine, spilled that she wanted to let him know that she missed him. I always advise never to do anything out of impulse or out of drink so I told her to sleep on it and also talked through all possibilities with her.

This kind of grounded her and made her realize that if she was going to do it then she must know whether he was feeling the same. I will do that same for you as I done for her and give you guidance as to whether you should tell him or not whether you miss him.

Don’t Put Him On The Spot

Don’t Put Him On The Spot

I suggested instead being a bit more subtle to scope whether he missed her too. She did this by sending a simple text saying that she had just spotted something that reminded her of him and asked how he was doing. The tone of the text was very friendly and light so as not to scare him and to make him think she was happy in life.

She got a response from him after doing this and they carried on the conversation until she eventually told him that she missed him. This worked so much better than sending that impulsive text she wanted to send after a couple of glasses of wine.

​Ask Yourself What You Want

Ask Yourself What You Want

​You believe that you truly miss your ex and really feel that you want to tell him so but before you do so, it is important to ask yourself a few questions. This is what helped keep my friend grounded and stopped her from sending an impulsive and emotional text message.

​Think about what you expect to happen after you tell him that you miss him. Do you want a long lasting relationship with? Can you see yourself growing old with him? The more important questions what you need to ask yourself is how you feel if you get no reply or he rejects you.

Use this tool to check whether he actually is who he says he is
Whether you're married or have just started seeing someone, infidelity rates are on the rise and have increased over 40% in the last 20 years, so you have all the right to be worried.

Perhaps you want to know if he's texting other women behind your back? Or whether he has active Tinder or dating profile? Or worse yet, whether he has a criminal record or is cheating on you?

This tool will do just that and pull up any hidden social media and dating profiles, photos, criminal records, and much more to hopefully help put your doubts to rest.

​It is important to fully consider every possibility before you tell your ex how you feel. If you still decide that you would like to tell him after thinking about all of these things then take it slowly. Do not send a text out of the blue and put him on the spot. If you aren’t already talking then try sending a friendly and happy text to initially start a conversation.

​Don’t Try The "Wrong Person" Text

Don’t Try The Wrong Person Text

​I have heard of plenty of women who have sent a hey, how are you text to their ex and then sent "oops wrong person" after a minute or so. They do this deliberately to try and start a conversation with their ex that they miss.

​This isn’t the best thing to do as your ex will see straight through it and it’ll make you look a bit immature. If you really feel the need to text your ex then make it light and ask how he is or that you heard about his promotion and wanted to congratulate him. Other than this, I would probably avoid texting your ex even if you’re missing him.

​Sometimes the best thing you can do is not break all contact with your ex. If he misses you too then he will come knocking. If he doesn’t miss you then he won’t make any effort to make contact. This is a sure fire way to find out of your ex misses you too. It is also less embarrassing than telling him and being ignored or rejected.

​Sometimes It Just Takes Time

Sometime It Just Takes Time

You have to remember that it can take many months to get over someone maybe even a year or two depending how long the relationship lasted. If you have only broke up with your ex recently then it is natural to miss them but it doesn’t mean that you want to get back with him. You need to give yourself time to get over him properly.

​There are loads of things you can do to take your mind off of him and at the same time improve your lifestyle. You could focus your attention on getting super fit and healthy, you could spend more time enjoying time with the girls or you could start a new hobby that you have always wanted to try. You could venture into that new career you have always wanted to do or focus on getting that all important promotion.

​Focusing your attention on something positive is the best remedy for a breakup. While you probably don’t feel like doing it now, you will feel absolutely liberated after you have achieved a new goal. Showing how happy you are and confident you might also grab the attention of your ex in case you want to win it back.


How Do You Tell Your Ex You Miss Him Over Text?

If you are planning on telling your ex that you miss them over text it is important to consider what you really want. Make sure that you don’t text him when you are drunk or send him a really emotional message. If you are going to text him that you miss him over text then make sure you keep the text simple and to the point. 

Should You Tell Him You Miss Him?

It is important to consider whether this is really what you want. If you are thinking about telling your ex that you miss him then it is important to think carefully about it before you make any quick decisions. Make sure that you don’t text him when you are drunk on a night out, don’t text him to tell him that you miss him just because you are lonely. 

Is It OK To Tell Someone You Miss Them?

It is okay to tell your ex that you miss them but only if you know that it is really what you want to do. Make sure that you think long and carefully before you make any rushed decisions that you may later regret. Try and focus on your life and try and get over him before you rush back into anything. 

How Can I Make Him Regret Breaking Up With Me?

There is no way that you can make your ex regret breaking up with you. You cannot force someone to feel in this way. The only thing that you can do is give him time and perhaps he will come back to you in the future. But don’t put any pressure on him or appear too needy or he will likely never come back to you. 

How Can I Make Him Want Me Again?

There is no way that you can force someone to love you. Don’t appear needy or desperate as he will likely never come back to you. You cannot force someone to feel the same way that you do. All you can do is give him time and space and he may come back to you in the future, however there is nothing that you can do to force it. 

Utilize this tool to verify if he's truly who he claims to be
Whether you're married or just started dating someone, infidelity rates have risen by over 40% in the past 20 years, so your concerns are justified.

Do you want to find out if he's texting other women behind your back? Or if he has an active Tinder or dating profile? Or even worse, if he has a criminal record or is cheating on you?

This tool can help by uncovering hidden social media and dating profiles, photos, criminal records, and much more, potentially putting your doubts to rest.


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