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9 Little-Known Places Guys Like To Be Touched While Kissing

Are you looking to add some extra spice to your first kisses?

Perhaps you’re after some tips to freshen up your foreplay with a long-term partner? 

Or maybe you’re nervous about kissing in general? 

Either way, this guide is here to help you. It explains all the spots where men love to be touched while kissing.

However, before you digest these tips, it’s important for you to carefully read the following sentences. 

Foreplay tips, sex moves and physical touch can help a man retain his interest in you, but it’s  even more effective to stimulate his emotions.

This is the best way to make him obsess over you. 

That’s why I wanted to share my discovery of a powerful psychological trigger that cuts deep into a man’s emotions. 

It’s called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’.

When you activate this trigger, it does so much to make him feel closer to you emotionally.  

This can be the difference between being seen as ‘just another woman’ or a potential life partner (read my personal story to see how I learned this). 

Few people seem to know about this aspect of male psychology, but it appears to affect most straight men. 

If you’re looking to add more passion and emotion into your relationships, it’s well worth learning how to trigger a man’s ‘Hero’s Instinct’.

That’s not to say that adding to your repertoire of foreplay moves isn’t an awesome thing to do! A great physical connection is also crucial to a lasting relationship.  

So, let’s dive into our list of places to touch a man while kissing…

Touch His Neck

The neck is one of the best erogenous zones because it is full of nerve endings. It is a good place to start touching your man while you kiss him, especially because the neck isn't far from the lips - so if you aren't too confident to have your hands roaming around the rest of his body just yet. There are several ways you can stimulate this area by touch. You can gently put your hands on his neck as you kiss, and you can bring him closer into your kiss by gently pulling. This will deepen the kiss. Depending on how confident you feel around your man, you might even want to try and grasp your hands and slightly choke him - start by doing this gently, to see if he likes it. Some men like to be dominated, but you should always test the waters gently, at first.

In addition to putting your hands on his neck, you can also kiss him there too. You can slowly move your lips down from his, and shower his neck with kisses. You can even gently nibble him, and see if he likes it. After you have spent some time focusing on this area, you can move the kisses further down his body...

Touch His Ears

Touch His Ears

Although the ears might seem like a strange place to touch, they are one of the important erogenous zones and can turn romantic make-out sessions into full-blown hot and heavy lovemaking. Whilst you kiss your partner, you can simply move your hands to their ears and rub them gently with your thumb, with a massaging technique. Behind the ear, where the ear merges with the neck, is an important area. You can also touch him gently here with your fingertips. I'm reusing the word gently so much because ears are fragile, and need to be approached with care - don't go slamming your hands around his ears, because it won't go down well.

As well as touching him here with your hands, you can move your lips down to the ears and kiss the area where his ear merges with his neck, lick your tongue around the area and kiss all round here. Unless you know that your man likes it, it's not a good idea to put your tongue into his ear - although this can be extremely sexy, it takes a bit of getting used to. Although I'm aware that whispering isn't touching, a great tip to spice things up when it comes to the ears is to quietly whisper dirty things to him.

Touch His Hair

While you kiss your partner, you should run your hands through their hair to make them feel super sensual. Although this is something men usually do to women, it still has the same feeling when a woman does it to a guy. Whilst you're kissing him, you can gently run your hands over his head. If he has long hair, you can even pull your fingers slowly through his hair. You can also rub your fingertips on his scalp and give him a head massage, adding another layer of stimulation to the make-out experience for him. Surprisingly, it will also feel great for you.

Even if he doesn't have any hair, you can still run your hands overhead and give him a massage - it will have the same desired effect.

Touch His Face

There's nothing sexier than when a man touches your face while kissing you, and it's also extremely romantic. Guys also want to feel turned on, wanted and loved, so touch your partner's face when you're kissing them. The way you touch your man's face will obviously depend on the kind of kissing happening - if you are heavily making out with each other then you can be a little firmer and touch his cheeks with a heavier hand. If the way you're kissing is slower and more romantic, then gently brush his forehead and cheeks with your fingertips. All guys will just love the fact that you want them so badly you can't stop touching them.

Touch His Hands

Your partner's hands probably wouldn't be one of the places you would think of touching to make them feel aroused, but it works. As you kiss your partner, you can place your hands together and massage their palms sensually with your fingertips. Keep the massage strokes slow because it adds a feeling of sensuality. You can also use your partner's hands to tease them. You can take your partner's hand and whilst you're massaging it, run it down your body so that your man can feel all your curves.

In particular, the fingertips are sensitive, and therefore they make for an ideal place to tease and touch. You can bring a partner's finger to your lips and kiss it, or you can go a step further and put their finger into your mouth - lick and suck it. They will start to imagine you sucking something else, and it'll immediately turn the temperature up between you.

Touch His Chest


When you're kissing your partner, you should make sure that you are touching their chest. Even if your man has a shirt on, you should rub your hands over his chest - it's certain that the shirt will come off quickly after you start to do this. Run your hands over his chest slowly and sensually - you want to touch him in so that he knows you want him. Guys also love it when you run your fingertips down their chest because your nails gently scratch their skin.

'You can also start at the top of the chest, and slowly run your hands down his torso, then when you reach his groin area you can move your hands back to the top of his chest. This will tease him so much, and have him begging you to start touching him where he really wants you too. You can also do this with your lips or tongue, and it will spice up the feeling for him even more.

Men' nipples are really sensitive areas that shouldn't be forgotten about when trying to arouse them. You can take advantage of the sensitivity of his nipples and slowly trace one of your fingers around his nipple. If your man shows that he's enjoying this and getting turned on by it, then you can also start to kiss or trace your tongue around his nipple.

Touch His Inner Thighs

Whilst you are kissing your man, you should make sure that you touch his inner thighs. Guys like to be touched on their inner thighs just as much as women do - it teases them and turns them on tenfold. You can incorporate a lot of areas that have already been mentioned before getting to his inner thighs - work your way down his body. Start your hands near his ears, neck, chest and then inner thighs. Guys like to be teased, and working your way slowly down their body is a great way to do this. Place your hands on his inner thighs, and try to be as close to his penis as possible but do not touch it just yet. You need to make him feel incredibly aroused, and he should be begging you to let him be touched. You can massage this area slowly, or use your fingertips to move closer and closer to his penis.

The inner thighs are one of the most arousing places for a man to be touched because you are so close to their penis. Their nerve endings in this area will be going crazy, and when you feel like he is ready for it, you can brush over the area where his penis is. Guys like it when you're in control, and when you make sure they work for it - it's sexy.

Touch His Bum

Touch His Bum

It's not just a woman thing - guys like to have their bums touched too! While you are kissing your guy, there's nothing hotter than pulling him towards you by grabbing his bum. Men like to feel like they're wanted, so place your hands on his bum and pull him into you. After you've done this, while you are kissing him, he'll like it if you keep touching his bum. So, keep your hands where they are and squeeze his buttocks while you kiss him.

Some men like to be touched on their bum a little more than others, and some are even partial to having oral sex performed on them in this area, others don't like it at all. See how your man feels about being touched on the bum. If he wants more or wants less, you will be able to tell by the way he responds.

Touch His Groin Area

This is one of the most obvious places you will probably touch your guy while you're kissing him, and it's the most erotic if done correctly. Do not go and touch his groin area as soon as you have started kissing - guys like to be teased. Also, if you put your hands straight to this area, your man will probably expect you to do this every time you kiss - kissing shouldn't always lead to having sex, sometimes it is nice to be just romantic.

You should touch his groin last, and you can move through touching the body parts mentioned above first. When you do choose to touch the groin area, you can run your hands slowly over the area - he will most likely be hard and you'll be able to feel it. You can stroke his penis over his clothes - you might even be able to bring him to climax like that!

After you have touched your guy in some or all of the places mentioned above, he will definitely feel ready to rip your clothes off!


Guys love being kissed, of course. But turning your man on by kissing him isn't only about your kissing technique or what tongue action you should go for - it's also about understanding how guys want to be touched while you're kissing them, and where exactly to touch them. Hopefully, this article has helped you to get to know some of the erogenous zones a little better and helped you to understand how guys get turned on by being felt in these areas.

Now you're all clued up, it's time to go and give it a go! You could even look at it as a kissing game - how many areas can you touch in one make-out session and which areas does your man like best? It could even be hot if you share your game idea with him!

Did this article help at all? If it did, let us know in the comments!

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