Geminis have a lot of positive attributes. They can be charming, clever, enthusiastic, communicative, flirtatious, funny, and friendly. In other words, you can expect to have a good time with a Gemini! This is great news if you’re looking to enter a relationship with one!
However, there are drawbacks to Geminis. They can be moody, high maintenance, too playful, and not expressive enough when it comes to their feelings. Mainly, they do not play games when it comes to the heart. They aren’t into mind games, and they won’t intentionally hurt you.
So, what happens when you ignore a Gemini man? Geminis do not like it when you play hard to get, so ignoring a Gemini man is not an effective way to win him over.
Of course, keep in mind that each person is different. You may come across a Gemini man who does play games and wants to chase after you. In other words, there may be a Gemini man out there who wants you to play hard to get; every person is unique, but the typical Gemini won’t stand for games in a relationship.
If you have a Gemini who ignores you, there may be several reasons for his behavior. The hardest reality to accept is that he just is not that interested in you. If you find him playing hard to get, I don’t recommend chasing after him. He’s probably not worth it; if he was, he would be chasing you, and you wouldn’t have to wonder how he feels.
Another possible reason for a Gemini’s absent heart is that he’s just distracted. He may be busy with work or the lively parties that he loves to go to. The other possible explanation that may make you a little uncomfortable is he’s seeing someone new. Geminis crave excitement and variety; they can easily get distracted by a new person. I know. It hurts, but it’s better to know.
A final possible reason for his sudden absence in your life is the overwhelming feelings of either him or you. Have you recently revealed the deep feelings you have for the relationship? Maybe he is reflecting and is overwhelmed by his own feelings for you. It may be a shock to his system! If so, just give him time; ease up and don’t pressure him to talk about his feelings.
Geminis are ruled by their brains; they think and analyze everything. They thrive on learning new things and trying to figure everything out. If your Gemini suspects you are playing games with him, he won’t be impressed. Rather, he will be annoyed and probably won’t put up with it. He’s just not into playing games when it comes to matters of the heart.
He may make assumptions about why you are playing hard to get, which isn’t a good thing because Geminis have wild imaginations. He may think you aren’t that into him or that you are too distracted for the relationship. In those cases, he’ll probably move on with his life. Even worse, he may think you are with someone else and will definitely want to end it with you.
Another possible assumption he may come to if you aren’t giving him enough attention is that you just don’t have the time or energy for a relationship with him. Geminis are pretty high maintenance, and they know what they want in a relationship. If they think you aren’t able to deliver, they will just move on with their life, thinking that you aren’t a good match.
So, it’s clear that a Gemini man doesn’t want to be ignored or put up with you playing hard to get. They require ample attention and are a tad high maintenance (wink)! Because of this, you shouldn’t ignore a Gemini or give them less attention even if you feel like it is one of the best ways to win a man over.
I am a strong believer in the “hard to get” game, and it’s effectiveness on men, but when it comes to a Gemini, you shouldn’t push the envelope with this tactic. Just because it works with most guys doesn’t mean it will work with a Gemini man.
So, you are probably wondering if there is anything you can do to get the attention of a Gemini. Well, there are plenty of other ways to make your Gemini “the one.” In this section, we will look at some other tactics you can try to win over your man and to make him the love of your life! Try one of these ideas rather than playing hard to get!
Surprise him with unique dates for the two of you to go on. Go wild with ideas! Surprise him with a coffee at work or take him skinny dipping! Do something spur of the moment.
Be a good listener; this means paying attention to what your Gemini has to say and responding accordingly. Ask open-ended questions to get to know him better.
Unsure of what to talk about? Tell stories, talk about your life, current events, or the future. Tell the stories you have heard from other people. Geminis just love learning!
Your Gemini guy is probably a social butterfly himself! Hit the clubs or go to parties. Be one of those people that others flock to. Make new friends and be social!
Don’t sit around waiting on your Gemini to pick you up and take you out. Instead, have a life! If he isn’t around, make plans and go out. It’s important that you don’t rely on him for your social life.
Geminis love laughing! They are very positive people. Tell jokes or take him to a funny movie! Stay upbeat and easy-going!
Geminis don’t compete. They won’t even consider staying with you if they suspect you are seeing someone else. Instead, stay true to him!
Geminis can sense lies. They really don’t take kindly to lies, so, be honest. It’s best to be yourself and not hide with this guy!
Try something new! Take your boyfriend ziplining or fly fishing. Hit the most unusual restaurant or hotel in your city!
Be one of a kind, a sexy beauty! You want to look your best for your Gemini boyfriend, right? Change it up occasionally, too! Try new hairstyles or different makeup. A little variety will do your courtship good.
Keep it interesting! Remember, Geminis love excitement. Plan adventurous dates or tell new stories. Just keep him guessing and wondering what you have in store for the two of you next!
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There are two things you can do if you find you are being ignored by a Gemini man; first, you can just move on; if he is ignoring you, he is probably not that interested in you; second, you can get his attention by being social and friendly!
Gemini men go weak for spontaneity and exotic things. Show him you are unique by talking about interesting things; this will also get his attention. Tell stories of the adventures you have had in your life, and he will love it! Captivate and intrigue him with your tales of wonder!
Geminis love talking, so if you have caught a Gemini guy being quiet, he may be upset. I would recommend talking to him openly and honestly; try to get him to open up to see what’s going on. What might be bothering him? Ask him open-ended personal questions.
The most obvious sign a Gemini man is not interested in you is him ignoring you. If he has chosen to not make time to spend with you anymore or has quit calling to ask you out, he has probably moved on to someone he finds to be more stimulating.
Geminis are not typically into playing games. They can be playful and very flirtatious, though! Usually, when a guy is playing you, he’s leading you on. Geminis don’t like to hurt girls intentionally; they are very positive, happy creatures! They want everyone to have a good time!
Are you trying to get the attention of a Gemini man? What tactics have you tried? What worked for you and what didn’t? What did you think of the suggestions offered in this article?
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