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How to Know When a Gemini Man Is In Love With You (3 Eye-Opening Signs)

by Sonya Schwartz

Are you wondering whether a Gemini man loves you?

Perhaps you’re in a relationship with a Gemini and he’s not showing as much affection as you would like? 

If you’re wondering where your romance with a Gemini man is going, read on because this article reveals the 3 telltale signs that he’s falling in love. 

But before these signs are revealed, it’s important that you read the following story. 

Throughout my twenties, I wasted time in relationships with men who wouldn’t show any love towards me.

Looking back, they just weren’t that into me. 

The longer this pattern went on, the more it felt like I’d never find someone who loved me for me. 

Thankfully, this all changed - and it all started when I learned about a little-known aspect of male psychology called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’.

This primal instinct appears to be held by most men, and it has a huge impact on how they feel about the women in their life. 

I decided to learn more about how it works and it turned out to be a relatively simple psychological concept. However, the results were mind-blowing. 

Once I knew how to trigger the ‘Hero’s Instinct’, it was common that men would OBSESS over me very quickly. It was if I could make them feel a way that no other woman could (read my personal story to learn more)

The crazy thing is: although this is such a powerful psychological ploy, very few people seem to be aware of it. 

If you’re struggling to make men fall for you, I would highly recommend you learn more about how I discovered the ‘Hero’s Instinct’Of course, it could be that this wonderful Gemini is already falling in love with you.

Read on to discover the three clearcut signs that this is happening.   

How to Know When a Gemini Man Is in Love with You

1.  He is even more fun and himself around you.

It sounds silly, of course, being in any relationship is fun, isn't it? That's true but when you think about Geminis, you have to think about them as if they're just a big kid. Okay, if he is in love with you he will start getting really silly when he's around you in almost every single moment. And with this big kid mentality and his lust for life you will start to see that he'll do anything to make you laugh, anything to put a smile on your face, and he's going to do the same thing every day!

Geminis tend to be smile, someone who, likes to keep things light, they don't like things to get too serious and too heavy. So, If the Gemini is kind of directing that that attention towards you, they're enjoying laughing with you and talking with you that's a good sign that they like you. Now this is a  little trickier than other signs because they're going to direct this energy to towards everybody, so don't take that too seriously.

This is easy for him as Geminis in general tend to have an extroverted personality. He's going to be very entertaining, just lots of laughs just tonnes of fun time. This can include him, like cracking jokes, anything to show you how silly he can be, singing songs. He really is a big kid in love so just think about if he were a child, how would he play and show you that love and you have your answer!

2. He's going deep in his connection

If they are willing to go deeper and willing to have a conversation with you where they're opening up, and they're admitting that they're having feelings for you that's obviously a very clear sign that they're interested in you Geminis are all about communication and if they want to have experiences with you, and talk with you about their experiences, and share experiences with you, that are personal that is a good sign that they like you and they want to spend more time with you.

They are an air element and usually, when you think about emotions, and things like that, that's usually reserved for water signs, even fire signs and those two out of all the elements, just generally speaking, are more emotional. Of course, there are exceptions to the rule that depends on a particular sign and the planetary movements, but just generally speaking, the first thing that comes to mind when you think emotions is a water sign or fire sign. So, when it comes to Geminis, they are an Air. This doesn't s means they aren't the emotional type, but it's not their natural stare. They process things from a logical point of view so when it comes to him, and him showing he loves you and relates with you, and wants a romantic relationship with you

It'll take him a moment to open up because logically, does it make sense to open up too soon in the beginning? No.

Because again, he doesn't operate off of the emotions, he's operating off of the mental decisions he thinks through, you have to look at it from their point of view and keep this in mind. However,  if you're looking for a long-term relationship with a Gemini man, he will come around!

3.   He's very keen to be with you - day in and day out!

If they are choosing you as their partner in crime for his life and in adventures, count yourself lucky because they have lots of people that they could count as partners in crime with an him making you his company is a sign that you are able to offer plenty to him. A Gemini is not just after the looks of a woman or a pretty face and no personality, he really wants someone who he can laugh and joke with and if you are already seeing him for plenty of days on the go, you can be sure that you have got his attention in a very serious way and he is almost certainly in love with you or at least moving that way!

So, look out for signs that they've chosen you and that they really like simply being with you, and that they're interested in enjoying more time with you. Instead of words or big grand gifts, this is how a Gemini man will be showing you that you are really special. They will focus that over the place multitasking attention they are famed for and use it just on you, they will rein it in a little bit. And they'll apply a little bit of commitment to  you to make you feel loved and special. This is the best way a Gemini knows to make that real connection with you so don't overlook it by waiting for the fancy gifts or the meals out as with the Gemini, it might be a long wait!

When he does spend even more time with you, know that he's not just doing this, just to do this. He's doing this because he, really cares about you this point, He will probably call and see how you are, he will want to know about your day, he is checking up.

In fact, don't think there is anything averse around him checking in a few times a day!

A Gemini will text you long, long texts, or they will keep in touch with you and be sad when they can't reach you. They really need communication from their partner and they need that kind of contact. That's what they're good at.

If a Gemini does this, this is such a huge sign. He's not emotional, so any real care he shows is coming from a logical process he has considered.

It's not going to be a statement he makes just for the thrill or the fun of it. He is very genuine and it might come to a bit of a shock to them as well as to you if they're a typical Gemini, that usually is kind of uncommitted type. Geminis will sort of bounce from a relationship to relationship, flings, or they won't go deep with anyone at all! That means if they are going deeper with you, that's a good sign. They really like you and they most probably love you as well.

Is your Gemini  man ready to commit to you? 

It's hard to find out if the Gemini in your life is really in love with you, but the main takeaways are looking for those signs that he is really wanting you around and is able to both be his own light hearted and fun Gemini self, but also that he is capable of opening up and bringing that emotional deepness that he will know that you crave!

Ideally you will be getting all the benefits of the Gemini in full flow of his appreciation for you, with those long text s and phone calls that last all night, as well as the real fun and adventure that he brings in the day that make him everyone's friend!

We hope that this article gave you some of the answers that you need to work out if you are on the right path with your Gemini man. Please do share this with people in your inner circle who might be struggling with a Gemini or unsure if the signs are looking good for them, after all, knowledge is really power!

Please leave a comment and tell all about the man in your life and maybe we can help each other out!

FAQs

How Do Gemini Act When They Like Someone?

If a Gemini likes you then he will send you text messages throughout the day, he will want to make sure that you know that he is always thinking of you. He will be openly affectionate with you and will let you know that he likes you. He will also become protective over the person that he likes.

What Is A Gemini Man's Weakness?

A Gemini man’s weaknesses may include that he is indecisive, he won’t likely be able to make decisions about anything. He may also be unreliable so don’t trust him until you really know him. Don’t tell a Gemini your secrets until you know that you can trust him.

How Do You Know If A Gemini Man Misses You?

If a Gemini misses you he will likely call you and text you often. He will let you know that he misses you by keeping up contact with you most of the time. He will let you know he’s been thinking about you and missing you and will want to know what you have been up to.

How Does A Gemini Man Flirt?

Geminis often flirt through communication or body language. If he is into you he may send you flirty texts just to let you know that he is thinking of you. He may initiate deep conversations with you if he likes you and wants to know more about you. His body language will also give away the fact that he likes you.

How Do You Get A Gemini To Chase You?

If you want to get a Gemini man to chase you then show him that you are independent as this will be one of the first things that will attract him. Begin with creating a friendship with him and don’t play mind games as this may completely put him off. Make sure that you are always spontaneous as he will love this.

Sonya Schwartz
A hopeless romantic that struggled for many years to find her Mr "Right" and made all the mistakes you could think of while dating. Known for always choosing the wrong guys or messing up relationships, Sonya was finally able to change her approach and mindset when it came to dating which helped her eventually find the man of her dreams and become happily married. You can read more about me here...

5 comments on “How to Know When a Gemini Man Is In Love With You (3 Eye-Opening Signs)”

  1. I am a sagittarius hes a Gemini I love him so much but I'm always second guessing us I love the way he loves me and I always seem to push it away but I only want and love him

  2. I'm a cancer woman been with a Gemini man for 6yrs almost 7..... he say he's ready for marriage but never shows it.. talks but never show then when I want to break it off he finds a way to keep me from leaving him.. a liar is his profession.

  3. I'm a taurus woman an I'm with a gemini man an we have been together for 1 year an 3 months , He is so wishy washy it drives me insane but idk it's something about him he is so intriguing to me but it's like I can't seem to take our relationship serious .
    But now I play his cards on him when he's distant I be distant, when he doesn't call I won't call , when he wants to be affectionate I'll be affectionate, and I guess that is what makes us such a challenging couple because I'm a taurus an I'm very stubborn and he is a Gemini an indecisive .

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