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How to Know When a Gemini Man Is In Love With You (3 Eye-Opening Signs)

Last updated on June 18, 2022 by Sonya Schwartz

Are you wondering whether a Gemini man loves you?

Perhaps you’re in a relationship with a Gemini and he’s not showing as much affection as you would like? 

If you’re wondering where your romance with a Gemini man is going, read on because this article reveals the 3 telltale signs that he’s falling in love. 

But before these signs are revealed, it’s important that you read the following story. 

Throughout my twenties, I wasted time in relationships with men who wouldn’t show any love towards me.

Looking back, they just weren’t that into me. 

The longer this pattern went on, the more it felt like I’d never find someone who loved me for me. 

Thankfully, this all changed - and it all started when I learned about a little-known aspect of male psychology called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’.

This primal instinct appears to be held by most men, and it has a huge impact on how they feel about the women in their life. 

I decided to learn more about how it works and it turned out to be a relatively simple psychological concept. However, the results were mind-blowing. 

Once I knew how to trigger the ‘Hero’s Instinct’, it was common that men would OBSESS over me very quickly. It was if I could make them feel a way that no other woman could (read my personal story to learn more)

The crazy thing is: although this is such a powerful psychological ploy, very few people seem to be aware of it. 

If you’re struggling to make men fall for you, I would highly recommend you learn more about how I discovered the ‘Hero’s Instinct’Of course, it could be that this wonderful Gemini is already falling in love with you.

Read on to discover the three clearcut signs that this is happening.   

How to Know When a Gemini Man Is in Love with You

1.  He is even more fun and himself around you.

It sounds silly, of course, being in any relationship is fun, isn't it? That's true but when you think about Geminis, you have to think about them as if they're just a big kid. Okay, if he is in love with you he will start getting really silly when he's around you in almost every single moment. And with this big kid mentality and his lust for life you will start to see that he'll do anything to make you laugh, anything to put a smile on your face, and he's going to do the same thing every day!

Geminis tend to be smile, someone who, likes to keep things light, they don't like things to get too serious and too heavy. So, If the Gemini is kind of directing that that attention towards you, they're enjoying laughing with you and talking with you that's a good sign that they like you. Now this is a  little trickier than other signs because they're going to direct this energy to towards everybody, so don't take that too seriously.

This is easy for him as Geminis in general tend to have an extroverted personality. He's going to be very entertaining, just lots of laughs just tonnes of fun time. This can include him, like cracking jokes, anything to show you how silly he can be, singing songs. He really is a big kid in love so just think about if he were a child, how would he play and show you that love and you have your answer!

2. He's going deep in his connection

If they are willing to go deeper and willing to have a conversation with you where they're opening up, and they're admitting that they're having feelings for you that's obviously a very clear sign that they're interested in you Geminis are all about communication and if they want to have experiences with you, and talk with you about their experiences, and share experiences with you, that are personal that is a good sign that they like you and they want to spend more time with you.

They are an air element and usually, when you think about emotions, and things like that, that's usually reserved for water signs, even fire signs and those two out of all the elements, just generally speaking, are more emotional. Of course, there are exceptions to the rule that depends on a particular sign and the planetary movements, but just generally speaking, the first thing that comes to mind when you think emotions is a water sign or fire sign. So, when it comes to Geminis, they are an Air. This doesn't s means they aren't the emotional type, but it's not their natural stare. They process things from a logical point of view so when it comes to him, and him showing he loves you and relates with you, and wants a romantic relationship with you

It'll take him a moment to open up because logically, does it make sense to open up too soon in the beginning? No.

Because again, he doesn't operate off of the emotions, he's operating off of the mental decisions he thinks through, you have to look at it from their point of view and keep this in mind. However,  if you're looking for a long-term relationship with a Gemini man, he will come around!

3.   He's very keen to be with you - day in and day out!

If they are choosing you as their partner in crime for his life and in adventures, count yourself lucky because they have lots of people that they could count as partners in crime with an him making you his company is a sign that you are able to offer plenty to him. A Gemini is not just after the looks of a woman or a pretty face and no personality, he really wants someone who he can laugh and joke with and if you are already seeing him for plenty of days on the go, you can be sure that you have got his attention in a very serious way and he is almost certainly in love with you or at least moving that way!

So, look out for signs that they've chosen you and that they really like simply being with you, and that they're interested in enjoying more time with you. Instead of words or big grand gifts, this is how a Gemini man will be showing you that you are really special. They will focus that over the place multitasking attention they are famed for and use it just on you, they will rein it in a little bit. And they'll apply a little bit of commitment to  you to make you feel loved and special. This is the best way a Gemini knows to make that real connection with you so don't overlook it by waiting for the fancy gifts or the meals out as with the Gemini, it might be a long wait!

When he does spend even more time with you, know that he's not just doing this, just to do this. He's doing this because he, really cares about you this point, He will probably call and see how you are, he will want to know about your day, he is checking up.

Is it like pulling teeth getting him to spend time with you?
The key to solving is understanding men on a much deeper emotional level. The number #1 factor that causes men to behave this way is actually relatively easy to change with a few subtle things you can say to him.

Take this quick quiz to see if he actually likes you!

In fact, don't think there is anything averse around him checking in a few times a day!

A Gemini will text you long, long texts, or they will keep in touch with you and be sad when they can't reach you. They really need communication from their partner and they need that kind of contact. That's what they're good at.

If a Gemini does this, this is such a huge sign. He's not emotional, so any real care he shows is coming from a logical process he has considered.

It's not going to be a statement he makes just for the thrill or the fun of it. He is very genuine and it might come to a bit of a shock to them as well as to you if they're a typical Gemini, that usually is kind of uncommitted type. Geminis will sort of bounce from a relationship to relationship, flings, or they won't go deep with anyone at all! That means if they are going deeper with you, that's a good sign. They really like you and they most probably love you as well.

Is your Gemini  man ready to commit to you? 

It's hard to find out if the Gemini in your life is really in love with you, but the main takeaways are looking for those signs that he is really wanting you around and is able to both be his own light hearted and fun Gemini self, but also that he is capable of opening up and bringing that emotional deepness that he will know that you crave!

Ideally you will be getting all the benefits of the Gemini in full flow of his appreciation for you, with those long text s and phone calls that last all night, as well as the real fun and adventure that he brings in the day that make him everyone's friend!

We hope that this article gave you some of the answers that you need to work out if you are on the right path with your Gemini man. Please do share this with people in your inner circle who might be struggling with a Gemini or unsure if the signs are looking good for them, after all, knowledge is really power!

Please leave a comment and tell all about the man in your life and maybe we can help each other out!


How Do Gemini Act When They Like Someone?

If a Gemini likes you then he will send you text messages throughout the day, he will want to make sure that you know that he is always thinking of you. He will be openly affectionate with you and will let you know that he likes you. He will also become protective over the person that he likes.

What Is A Gemini Man's Weakness?

A Gemini man’s weaknesses may include that he is indecisive, he won’t likely be able to make decisions about anything. He may also be unreliable so don’t trust him until you really know him. Don’t tell a Gemini your secrets until you know that you can trust him.

How Do You Know If A Gemini Man Misses You?

If a Gemini misses you he will likely call you and text you often. He will let you know that he misses you by keeping up contact with you most of the time. He will let you know he’s been thinking about you and missing you and will want to know what you have been up to.

How Does A Gemini Man Flirt?

Geminis often flirt through communication or body language. If he is into you he may send you flirty texts just to let you know that he is thinking of you. He may initiate deep conversations with you if he likes you and wants to know more about you. His body language will also give away the fact that he likes you.

How Do You Get A Gemini To Chase You?

If you want to get a Gemini man to chase you then show him that you are independent as this will be one of the first things that will attract him. Begin with creating a friendship with him and don’t play mind games as this may completely put him off. Make sure that you are always spontaneous as he will love this.

Do you feel like all you think about is him, but he only thinks about himself?
This doesn't mean he doesn't like you. You have to understand how he is wired. Once you do, you'll find there is a subtle thing you can say that to him that will drastically change how he shows his emotions towards you.

Take this quick quiz that looks at whether he actually likes you or not!

Sonya Schwartz
A hopeless romantic that struggled for many years to find her Mr "Right" and made all the mistakes you could think of while dating. Known for always choosing the wrong guys or messing up relationships, Sonya was finally able to change her approach and mindset when it came to dating which helped her eventually find the man of her dreams and become happily married. You can read more about me here...

11 comments on “How to Know When a Gemini Man Is In Love With You (3 Eye-Opening Signs)”

  1. I am a sagittarius hes a Gemini I love him so much but I'm always second guessing us I love the way he loves me and I always seem to push it away but I only want and love him

      1. Im a Gemini & when we like/love someone, we place them as a priority. Basically just like the article states, we show affection, call to check on you, send long word vomit text... We get a little clingy as well.. We are very analytical & huge over thinkers. We like receiving the same energy back as we put in. We like common sense, kindness, intelligence, warm hearted like individuals. Someone who can think outside the box and see various angles of debate, we like praise from are partners... although were overly modest... deep down we like to know how our partner feel about us..As Geminis we reciprocat what receive in a relationship... if you 1/2 ass it, so will we. You give a 100%, were going at minimum 110%..Just be transparent with him & he would appreciate that.. We love knowing how everyone else feels, but struggle to talk deeply about our own feelings. We're are so complex and half the time we dont talk about our feelings is because we feel all sorts.. simiontanesly.. If a Gemini loves you he will dedicate so much time & attention to you... even putting his needs and wants on the back burner. If he does something nice, regardless of how small... just show appreciation... a simple smile and thankyou goes a long way with Geminis. We dont like to feel used, unwanted or unappreciated and when we do... we pull back, making ourselves a little less unavailable to the point we become quite & distant.. So if he begins to feel distant, talk to him, ask him what is bothering him etc.. you know were not good at talking about our own feelings, so when something is off we just shut down... The whole time we're silent or distant with our partner, we are actually obsessing internally over what's bothering us.. Once you talk & allow that Gem to be heard... he will let it go & open back up to you. Communication is the best way to a Geminis heart, we love transparency and we love engaging communication. If a gem falls for your mind, body & soul, then he will be absolutely head over heels for you and it will show. Gemini have multiple personalities that are changeable, we can mingle with groups at parties and change slightly depending on our audience at the time.. Its not about being fake, more like making those around us comfortable.. I tell everyone that I have a crazy twin that I keep locked up, but sometimes he breaks out... we blow off steam then we put evil gem back in his cage.. lol goodluck, have patience with him...

  2. I'm a cancer woman been with a Gemini man for 6yrs almost 7..... he say he's ready for marriage but never shows it.. talks but never show then when I want to break it off he finds a way to keep me from leaving him.. a liar is his profession.

  3. I'm a taurus woman an I'm with a gemini man an we have been together for 1 year an 3 months , He is so wishy washy it drives me insane but idk it's something about him he is so intriguing to me but it's like I can't seem to take our relationship serious .
    But now I play his cards on him when he's distant I be distant, when he doesn't call I won't call , when he wants to be affectionate I'll be affectionate, and I guess that is what makes us such a challenging couple because I'm a taurus an I'm very stubborn and he is a Gemini an indecisive .

  4. I’m a Taurus he’s Gemini. He’s been married 3 times. We rushed into meeting and moving in together. Had issues with old girlfriends and wives. I talked marriage he says not ready . But says it would piss everyone off he’s been with if he married me. Makes me feel he uses me and waiting on another x that’s married to come back.

    1. Gina, please do tell lol I have recently met my first gemini man and I'm a scorpio like you, how are things going so far? For me so far he is so affectionate to the point I have to keep my distance from him for a few days, very considerate and seems dominate, will ask me if I thought about him if I don't contact him in a day or so.. It's only been 3 weeks! I don't like to feel smothered and when I'm around him he's directly in my personal space! I like the attention but it's comes off soooo dominate or maybe it's just his direct nature.. but I wanna run away lol perfect gentleman tho if he could just slow down! I told him I don't move as fast and he says he has patience lol I'm not looking for a bf just fun and he knows this and he says he's not looking for anything also and no intentions. Guess I'll see what happens..

  5. I’m a pisces , I have been in love with this Gemini man from the moment I met him 22 years ago. We are very close friends and lovers. Now we have a long Distant relationship and he wants more. He sent me the song by “YES” Love will Find a Way! He knows me so well and plans “Paula”days and we travel and have many adventures! He encourages and inspires me as an artist and he is a musician. We are an older couple but I we enjoy each other more even now.

  6. Gemini man here and I would say about 80-90% of this is true. Time is love for me. If I spend hours with you that means I value YOU above other people or activities. It doesn't really matter where we go or what we do, I care about spending time with people. I like lots of people, but love a select few and I communicate that VERY directly to them. They know they're my people. But yes, spending time and sharing laughter = expressing love for sure. Only real thing that is not true for me is that I am a very emotional, not logical thinker. I make decisions based on how I feel about things rather than what I think about things. Definitely open to discussing difficult experiences with people I care about and an extremely good listener. I'm chronically late, but always understanding if you're late!

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