One of the most confusing questions you might have had the displeasure of asking is, “Why did my ex unblock me after a long time of no contact or communication”? Have you ever been in a situation where your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend ghosted you, only for them to begin a cruel game of blocking and […]

I remember I was in my twenties and at a party. A friend approached me and told me that an ex had just arrived. This wasn’t a problem for me but my friend interrupted. The ex was spreading rumors about me. And some of them were pretty nasty.  I knew when we had broken up […]

As one of the inevitable evils in this world, glowing up after a breakup is one of the silver linings to the usually gruesome experience. Scientifically described as post-traumatic growth, post-breakup glow up isn't always as glamorous and rad as the name might have you think. While the result is always worth it, you'd have […]

The truth is, it’s not written on the stone that first loves are never really over, they can be. However, I believe that if you truly love a person, it's difficult to change that; whether he or she is your first or not, you never really get over it. That's how love works, you can't […]

When someone breaks up with you, you can feel a variety of emotions. You might be sad, or instantly feel a sense of loss. Anger is a common reaction. You put so much effort into this and they’re just walking away? That can be a tough pill to swallow.  It can be easy to lash […]

Regardless of how you and your ex-boyfriend left things off, finding out that he has moved on with someone else can be painful. What’s more devastating is finding out this new person is your sister. In most cases, you probably felt better when you didn't know the name or identity of the woman your ex […]

Are you worried that ex is obsessing over you?  Do you fear that he’s struggling to move on with the relationship?  The ‘obsessive ex syndrome’ can be harmful for both former partners. At the same time, there is a level of contact which might be suitable for exes.  So, how far is too far? How […]

Breaking up really is hard to do. In the day and age of social media, it is even more difficult as you often will know what your ex is up to even without being in contact with them. Or, with smartphones and email, it can be so easy to contact them which makes it harder […]

There is nothing quite like the drunk text. It’s one thing to be on the receiving end of those long, rambling messages professing love or doling out threats. It’s another thing entirely to wake up one morning and realize that you’re the one behind sending drunk texts to an ex.  Why You Sent A Drunk […]

Often when we break up with a person, we will harbor some regrets. However, that does not necessarily mean that we regret losing the person we broke up with. There are times, though, that a relationship breaks up and the two individuals regret it so much that they want to get back together.  It can […]