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What Does It Feel Like To Have A Guy Come Inside You?

Last updated on June 18, 2022 by Sonya Schwartz

Are you wondering what it feels like to have a guy come inside you? 

Perhaps you’re looking to replace condoms with another form of contraception, but you’re worried about how it’ll feel when he comes inside you?

Or maybe you’re anticipating this moment with excitement? 

Either way, make sure to read on because this guide will explain exactly what you can expect. 

However, before we get into that, I have an important story to share with you.

Back in my early twenties, it was a real struggle to stay in a relationship long enough to do away with condoms. 

Most of my relationships were based on ‘fun’, not trust or companionship.

Whenever I hinted at wanting something more, guys would quickly disappear.

It felt like no-one would ever view me as long-term relationship material. 

However, that all changed when I discovered a little-known aspect of male psychology.

It’s called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ and it has a huge impact on the way men feel about the women in their lives. 

By learning to activate this psychological trigger, I was able to develop deep and loving  relationships with men. 

It was incredibly consistent, as if I was speaking to a part of a man’s mind that had incredible power over his heart. To learn how it works, read my personal story.  

This is an easy skill to use, once you know how. The crazy thing is: so few people seem to be aware of it. 

If you’re sick and tired of having to settle for meaningless relationships, I’d urge you to learn more about how I discovered the power of the ‘Hero’s Instinct’

In the meantime, scroll down to learn more about how it feels when a man comes inside you.

1: You Will Feel Warm And Happy Inside

When you’re thinking about what it feels like for a man to cum inside you, you might not realize just how happy it will make you feel. As, just before he reaches orgasm, you will see him start to breathe heavier and appear to lose focus of everything that’s going on around him.

When he does ejaculate, especially if it’s a strong one, you may actually feel his ejaculate shooting inside you. This might sound odd, however, when you experience it yourself you will adore the feeling. Especially since you know you helped that man get to that magical feeling.

In fact, after he does cum, you’ll likely feel like a warm feeling inside. Which will make you feel happy, accomplished and satisfied. Exactly how you want to feel after sex with your guy! Indeed, you might just find yourself becoming addicted to this warm and fuzzy feeling that you'll be dragging your guy off for a hot and steamy sex session as often as you can. Something which your partner is sure to be thrilled about.

2: You Might Feel Like A Little Sticky

When you’ve been used to having sex with a condom, when you switch to sex without, you will find it quite surprising inside – especially when it’s far more messy. However, this shouldn’t put you off from having you man finish inside of you, as while it is messy, it will still feel amazing.

In fact, you might even feel wet and slippery deep inside for a long time after. Don’t worry though, you’ll soon get used to this sensation and know what to expect. After all, let's face it, sex can be pretty messy and that's part of the fun! So, lie back, relax and enjoy everything that's happening around you.

3: It Might Not Feel Any Different At All

While with some men you can really feel a cock pulsing (sort of like a throbbing sensation or muscle contractions) and ejaculating – indeed it often feels like a bullet going off inside – for others you might not notice anything. Not only can this differ from guy to guy, but it can also change depending on the particular sex you had at that point.

What you can feel and see, though, is that your man is really enjoying himself because you are letting him orgasm inside of you. He will make moans, noises and have pleasure all over his face – which can be incredibly exciting and addictive for you. Indeed, you’ll never want to use a condom again if you don’t need to.

So, just lie back and relax and take in everything he's feeling. Not only will you have a great time from what he's doing, but there's a great thrill from seeing how much he will be enjoying his time. Just watch every little movement on his face and all the sounds he's making. In no time at all, you'll be feeling turned on and ready for your next session.

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4: You Will Feel Empowered

4: You Will Feel Empowered

While it’s incredibly fun to have an orgasm yourself, there is also an intense satisfaction that comes from seeing your man get pleasure from being able to ejaculate inside you. It’s just a totally different experience, as you know he’s getting turned on by being able to feel all of you, rather than being blocked by a condom.

Which means, when he goes to cum, you will feel empowered and incredibly proud of yourself. In fact, you will likely feel even more attractive and loved because of it. This kind of satisfaction is hard to describe, however, once you experience it yourself, it is something no one ever forgets.

You see, you have the power when it comes to whether or not he can cum in you. True, he can ask, however, it's entirely up to you on whether or not you agree. If you do, it means you're holding the power, which can feel amazing too.

5: It’s Less Messy Than Other Methods

When someone is trying not to cum inside their girlfriend, they will often choose to cum outside you, often over your body. Not only is this not as fun, but it can also be very messy for you both to clean up. Which isn’t exactly what you want to happen straight after sex.

Instead, by being inside, there is far less mess for someone to deal with. You’ll just need one quick trip to the bathroom for a quick clean up and then you’ll be ready to jump back into bed and cuddle with your man again.

6: Don’t Worry If You Feel Nothing At All

Some women can worry if they don’t notice any difference in sex when there is or isn’t a condom. Even if your man does cum, not all men release a lot of semen so you many not even too much difference afterward. For some reason this can really alarm women, however, it’s nothing to be worried about. As, regardless of there being a condom or not, you’ll feel the same pleasurable sensations during intercourse. Plus, all that really matters is the fact that you’re both having fun.

Plus, you should always remember that every time you have sex, it will feel different. Perhaps you haven’t done it for a while, you’re trying something new or doing it in an interesting place – anything can make your time feel different. So, even if you aren't feeling different one time, it might well feel different the next time.

7: It’s Going To Feel Special

Overall, when you choose to let a guy finish inside of you, it means you have both chosen to take your relationship to a new level. As, by ditching your condoms and going bare, you will have a whole new level of closeness between you both.

Indeed, most people only choose to do this when they are really in love and want to show their commitment to each other and only each other. As without monogamy, this isn’t something that you would usually agree to for fear of contracting a sexually transmitted disease.

So, by choosing to not use condoms, you are both sharing a brand new commitment between each other. In fact, this could even be your way of showing that man that he is ‘the one’ that you would like to spend the rest of your life with.

Just think, most men won’t just choose anyone to ejaculate inside of, especially when so many of us are scared of unwanted pregnancies. Which means, if he does, he likely sees you as being the future mother of his children.

If you and your boyfriend are thinking about removing condoms, it’s important that you both sit down and have a serious chat beforehand. For one, you will need to make sure that you’re still using some form of birth

control, whether that be in the form of a pill or an implant. Otherwise, you will be in danger of having an unwanted pregnancy.

It’s also important that you both go for a screening for sexually transmitted diseases beforehand. As, without a condom, you will both be open to contracting any diseases from each other. So, both go and get the all-clear, that way neither of you has to worry about taking this new step.

Overall, though, you should enjoy it! It might all be new to you and perhaps you don’t feel any difference at first, but this doesn’t make it any less special or exciting. So, give it a try and see what happens, you might just find yourself being totally blown away!

Do you feel like all you think about is him, but he only thinks about himself?
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Take this quick quiz that looks at whether he actually likes you or not!

Sonya Schwartz
A hopeless romantic that struggled for many years to find her Mr "Right" and made all the mistakes you could think of while dating. Known for always choosing the wrong guys or messing up relationships, Sonya was finally able to change her approach and mindset when it came to dating which helped her eventually find the man of her dreams and become happily married. You can read more about me here...

11 comments on “What Does It Feel Like To Have A Guy Come Inside You?”

  1. I've never used a condom in over fifty years of having sex. Conservatively, I would say I have been with a minimum of fifty women. I always tell them I will pull out, but have always stayed inside just as deeply as possible to have more chance of getting her pregnant. I've always did my best to get every one of them pregnant. I'm proud that I have managed to get eleven of them pregnant. Three are friends, and four are neighbor's wives, one of who I have got pregnant four times. I'm particularly proud of that one. Unfortunately her husband decided he better get a vasectomy, so most of our play has stopped. He thinks all of the kids are his, even though they look like me. I like seeing my kids running around.

    1. You realize it’s kind of rape to not pull out aka stop when they ask right? You could be taken to court for what you’re doing.

  2. I have to admit, I love seeing the look on a man’s face as he is leading up to cumming inside me. It builds such anticipation and arousal for me. Once I feel him starting to throb and feel the warmth of his seed in me, it’s sets of my orgasm. Makes me feel so sexy and desired knowing how much I pleased and satisfied him.

  3. I love when a guy cums inside me! Sex does not feel "complete" to me if he pulls out. Honestly, even when I'm on top, I generally can't actually stop myself from grinding into my lover as he cums even if it is a risky time of my cycle and I know I shouldn't. I agree with Danielle in some ways -- his breathing, his sounds, his expressions, the look in his eyes, the flexing and contracting of his muscles as he moves inside me and starts to lose control, and even his sweat and body odor is a massive turn on in that moment. But for me when he cums, I don't feel it "squirting or splashing against my cervix", or "getting hot inside me", or anything like that. So what I do feel is -- as he is about to cum his thrust pace initially quickens and his balls slap a little against my ass, but then they slow way down. At that point, if he is on top, sometimes I can feel his balls resting on my ass and you can actually feel them get tighter. I feel his cock get even harder, and sometimes even a bit thicker. I love the pressure and friction of his pubic area pressing and grinding against mine as his whole body stiffens and his cock throbs inside me. I can feel the pulsing of his hardness in me when he makes that final thrust and sort of holds it, and that generally triggers my hardest orgasm as well. I throb too as it is happening, and when I cum I feel a tickly, amazingly pleasurable loss of control between my legs. My hips kind of know what to do all on their own and tilt into his and undulate and I feel myself just start clenching over and over as pure intense pleasure radiates from inside me at the base of my spine to the rest of my body until it stops. As I cum with him, my mind sort of blanks, and I can't really react voluntarily. I actually think I moan out as a way to breathe, but I can't totally control that either. My body sort of takes over and just kind of instinctually reacts to the pleasure. I also love the time immediately afterward especially when he is on top and sort of collapses a little and his weight presses me into the bed as we recover. Or if we change to spooning and he sort of holds my womb with his hand as he cums and just stay inside me holding me like that as we recover -- that is super hot to me too. But I still don't feel his liquid inside me. Sometimes a little leaks out of me when he softens and slips out. When that happens I feel it running down my skin outside of my pussy, but usually, it all stays in me until I use the bathroom when I wake up and I don't really feel it. Depending on the guy, sometimes his cum can be a pretty decent lubricant for wake-up sex too, so I like to leave it inside. And I always expect wake-up sex even if it is just a quickie -- then I feel like sex was a properly completed act. Don't get me wrong. I'll let someone I care enough about to sleep with to cum where he wants -- which nine times out of ten is inside my vag as deep as he can! 🙂

  4. I love it when I come inside a girl especially when I tell them I will pull out and I don't but some girls they know when you get ready to come inside them and I tried to play it off but they know when I get ready to come I really get turned on by that when they tell me to wait but i dont....

    1. If you can’t properly listen and stop during sex, you shouldn’t have it..At any time a girl can ask you to stop and you have to. Cumming in her when she’s said not to and on purpose is technically rape as she said stop and you didn’t thus consent isn’t there.

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