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How To Tell The Size Of A Guys Package (6 Unique Ways)

Last updated on November 23, 2022 by Sonya Schwartz

Are you wondering how big your love interest’s penis is? 

Whether you’re worried about him having a small penis or excited about the prospect of a huge one, there are ways to tell what he’s packing. 

In this guide, I’ll reveal six reliable methods to help you find out. 

But before I do, I have an important story to share with you.

Back in my early twenties, there were so many guys I fantasised about making love with, but most of them weren’t interested in me. 

Even worse, most of the guys I did sleep with had no interest in building a relationship. 

I had no idea what was wrong with me. It felt like I was destined to a life without meaningful romantic connections.  

Thankfully, I was able to turn this around. It all started when I learned about a powerful male psychological trigger. 

It’s called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ - and it appears to be held deeply by most guys. 

Once activated, it tends to release intense feelings of power, purpose and self-esteem with a man. Naturally he feels closer and more affectionate towards women who can make him feel this way. 

So, I learned how to do this - and the results were mind-blowing. Instead of only being seen as a ‘bit of fun’, it was common that men would quickly grow to OBSESS over me (you can learn how it works by reading my personal story).

If you’re sick and tired of being overlooked by fantastic men, this is the skill you need to learn. 

I have written a detailed blog post about how I discovered the power of the ‘Hero’s Instinct’, so you can experience this dramatic shift for yourself.

Go read it now - then come back and learn how to estimate the size of his penis.

1: You Need To Measure His Fingers

It might seem odd to measure fingers in relation to penis size; however, this method was discovered by scientists in Korea. In the study, which was conducted with 144 over 20 years, participants would have their flaccid peni and their stretched peni measured as well as their ring finger and forefinger measured.

From this, scientists were able to conclude that there is a correlation between penis size and the ratio of the difference between the man’s fingers. The theory being, that the smaller the ratio between the fingers, then the bigger your guys package will be.

Of course, to do this, not only are you going to need to be a math master but you’re also going to need to figure out a method of measuring your man’s fingers without his wondering why. So you might be easier just going in and investigating yourself!

2: Hand and Foot Size is Important

If you’re looking for an easy method for how to tell the size of a guys package, especially when you don’t want to start sneakily measuring fingers, all you really need to do is look at his hands and feet. In all likelihood you’ve heard this before, where people will comment that if a man has large feet or hands, it means that he also has a big penis.

What you might not know, though, is that this observation has actually been backed up by scientific studies, where penis size can correlate with a man’s hands and feet. The study itself took place in 2002 and involved 104, who had their penis length measure by English urologists. At the same time, the length of the men’s feet was taken.

When the two sets of data were compared, it was found that there was a general match between the size of the men’s feet and the length of a guys package. So, if you’re intrigued by the idea of what your man is packing, simply have a look at the size of his feet.

For big hands, though, there isn’t really any evidence that backs up big hands meaning a bigger penis size. However, there is plenty of evidence that shows finger length – such as the index finger and ring finger– can be used to indicate penis length. So, it does make sense that bigger hands can make for a bigger overall package.

3: Look For The Length Of A Guys Index Finger

3: Look For The Length Of A Guys Index Finger

It is possible to guess the average dick size of a man while looking at his index finger. Simply get him to make an “L” shape using his index finger and his thumb. That length of these index fingers down to their thumb will give you a good idea of what any erect peni will look like.

Of course, as with any finger lengths, whether it’s the ring finger or digit ratio, it’s just not possible to do it easily or sneakily without specifically asking him to show you. You could try to say you’re trying to see the difference in the size of his fingers compared with yours. Be warned though, this is a well-known fact, so if you do ask him, he could well know exactly what you’re up to!

4: Look Out For The Way He Sits

One simple way to predict the penis size of your man is to analyze the way he sits. As, if he has to sit a certain way, it’s likely that he’s doing this in order to protect himself from squishing himself or hurting himself in some way.

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So, when you see any men sitting, always check out the way they sit. If they sit with their legs very wide or they struggle to cross their legs properly, this could be seen as a sign of protection. However, this is to do with the size of a flaccid penis, so if he has no problem sitting, he still easily be a grower when the time comes.

You can also get a little more mathematical with the way men sit. As, when men sit with their feet touch and their knees apart, it’s sad you can measure the distance between his knees and then divide it by two to get an idea of his package size.

This isn’t an exact science though – especially if the men know what you’re up to – as they could easily stretch to get a higher length between their knees. Which means you might get a shock when it comes to any bedroom antics and it’s a smaller penis size than you imagined.

5: The Digit Ratio Between Pinky And The Thumb

There is definitely a large relationship between hands, finger and the size of a penis – which is why there are so many different ways to calculate average penis length using men’s hands. The last way involves measuring the length between his outstretched pinky and thumb.

To this, get your man to tuck in his other fingers, leaving his pinky and thumb outstretched – it will look sort of like a right-angled triangle. Then just measure diagonally from the tip of the pinky to the tip of the thumb, this should tell you the approximate length of the penis.

6: A Big Nose Can Indicate A Big Penis

For centuries, people have believed there is a relationship in men between the size (or rather length) of their nose and how big their penis is. Which is why, through the ages, women have been attracted to men who have long Roman noses, as biologically they believe they are well-endowed and more than capable of making lots of babies.

This is far from scientifically proven though, and it has been shown to be wrong on many occasions, so always take nose size with a pinch of salt.

It's perfectly natural to be curious about the size of a man's penis when you're dating him. However, working out his length can be extremely hard - even with the tricks of ring fingers or feet size - especially when there are always men who won't match up to the theories.

So, the only sure-fire way for you to know is by getting up close and personal with it. Plus, always remember that size isn't everything in the bedroom, what he does with it is far more important!

Do you feel like all you think about is him, but he only thinks about himself?
This doesn't mean he doesn't like you. You have to understand how he is wired. Once you do, you'll find there is a subtle thing you can say that to him that will drastically change how he shows his emotions towards you.

Take this quick quiz that looks at whether he actually likes you or not!

Sonya Schwartz
A hopeless romantic that struggled for many years to find her Mr "Right" and made all the mistakes you could think of while dating. Known for always choosing the wrong guys or messing up relationships, Sonya was finally able to change her approach and mindset when it came to dating which helped her eventually find the man of her dreams and become happily married. You can read more about me here...

33 comments on “How To Tell The Size Of A Guys Package (6 Unique Ways)”

  1. I got my boyfriend to do the pose and measurement for the index finger and pinky outstretched and it measured 9 inches 👀. He still clueless as to why i asked him for it, and i just said for my experiment 😂

  2. So I recently hooked up with a 6'4" guy. His feet were not huge...maybe size 11 or 12 which is normal for a man his height. His hands were big though. When I got to seeing what he was working with, it was way thicker than I expected. He was grower too. He had a big head and a bit choad-ish when flaccid but I was pleasantly surprised. It was perfect. Thick and 6.5-7 inches. There was no correlation.

  3. sadly, i must tell you that you're dead wrong as i am a guy with an 8+ penis and except the hand span none of the entries apply to me.

  4. I don’t have the biggest hands or feet (shoes size 10), but my ring finger is much bigger than my pointer.

    I’m thick and length- 9ish— I Just wanted to inform.

    I would be glad to answer anymore. 🙂

    1. Well let us hope you are as attractive as you penis sounds.. we're assuming you get plenty of opportunities to use your endowment. BTW who old are you?

    2. Ok I have a question for you. Slept with a man decades ago. He was nicely huge. This summer I saw him and well it was not the same at all. Mind you he was intoxicated but it kinda freaked me out. He won’t talk about it. Just says it wasn’t my fault. Talking about a six inch difference here and 1/4 the circumference. He said it was in a box in the closet. I’m wondering what that even means? I’m so confused. I mean can it be that big a difference? Help.

  5. Lol! I done the index finger n pinky with the ruler. I’m 5ft8 and Indian British, I measured 5.5 inches, I must be 6.5 inches then 😳

  6. In my experience the larger the nose the larger the penis. If he has small tiny ears probably has a small tiny penis too

  7. Huh, my dick is 8" x 6.5" and my nose is a f*cking eagle's beak, so this article isn't entirely wrong, but I do have some little hands though so idk.

  8. I feel so relived after knowing all this. But size is not a problem for me I will be ok if my guy has an average or small but knows how to perform.

    Any guys interested? 🙈

  9. Only shoe size applies to me I suppose, I am 6ft, average hands, and nose lol, and normal size lips. 🤣🤣 But I wear a size 14w, and I'm 9"x6". 🤷🏻‍♂️

  10. Its kind of interesting that penis size is so important to you women. I just hope that you also have beautiful tight vaginas with just the right amount of puffiness and without any weird stuff like the inner labia hanging out or strange discoloring.

    I mean just as you make demands from us, we will make demands from you. If you have a 5 out of 10 vagina, you hardly deserve a 10/10 penis.

    Have a nice day.

    1. lmao. You must feel very attacked by this article I wonder why...
      As for our pretty vaginas, ask your mom or sister if the inner labia is anywhere hanging out of their pus*y... im sure no one gives a f**k. Chill out dude vaginas are a whole different story from dicks, you should probably be in some other page reading how to increase the size of ur dick with some cream or sum shit like that. Already giving us small dick energy lol. And im pretty sure this article was meant for those with feminine energy only, no offense
      Have a nice day.

      1. you are crass, if he is triggered by what you wrote it does little to help. As a nurse practitioner in urology I can say that Small penis syndrome is a serious issue related to body dismorphic disorder and has caused a few to end their life. I wonder if he was bullied in achool, or humiliated by an ex lover at some point? Any woman who would use this ploy to attack a man is simply the most crude form of feminimity. You triggered to his body shame with body shame of your own. Fyi lengtgh can only be gained by cutting the suspensitory ligament at the base of the pubic bone. Tensioners will be worn to assist the bodys rehabilitation and aclimate to the .5 to 1.5 inches that may be gained.
        Most urologists will give aq clinical assesment and unless the person has a micro Penis then they will likely try to persuade against that surgery.
        A woman who is overly concerned with size as I have known some to be change their attitude when their husband underoes a rsadical preostatectomy for prostate cancer. You see at the top of the prostate and incison is made to sever the urethra, on the underbelly of the urethra it is severed yet again.

        Many Men have noted a loss from .5 inches in length to 3.5 inches varied upon the enlargement of the prostate. There are some tools like vaccum pumps to aid in rehabilitation but the loss in length is difficult for men to come to terms with. If a man was average before the surgery he will most likely be smaller than average after.

        woulkd any loving wife dismiss her husbands worth based on his new measurement, becuase I can Gurantee you until the grief process completes it is a very big deal.

        I wonder if you had a son would you shame him for something he had no control of? There are eventsa in the second trimester which can leave a person with a micro Penis, a penis measuring less than 3 and 2/3 inches long when erect.

        whoever gets a kick out of kicking these poor souls most likely enjoy making fun of people with down syndrome, Kleinfelters syndrome, or prader willys disease. anyone who does this is the worst kind of person male or female. Genetalia will be beutiful to you if you love the one your with, and sex becuase of the wonders of the vagina can accomodate a wide range of size.

        1. I Thank you for your kind comment. I think to much is said about the size of the penis and if you aren't built like a horse,you are a less of a man.Like every thing else in life,in respect to the human body,both man and woman are born having no say in how they look.Yes
          when going through pubity that's when we change.As with men having different sizes,which you have know say in the matter,likewise a girl has know say in how big or small her breasts will be.
          Yes I agree size in anything is irrelevant,it's how you use it and in anyway you can't measure a person by their penis or breasts.
          The love of a woman or man for what they are, showing love with kindness is what will last.
          If you base your marriage on sex most likely it want last.
          Thank you again,for your wonderful comment.

      2. Tell him girl. Woman already have their own insecurities. Us men don't need to bring them down about it.If you love the girl, then you won't judge her or ever bring it up. Otherwise you're a coward who needs to make fun of woman because you can't get any. Love the article.

        I'm 7.5 inches by 6 wide. I believe that's the best size. Never had a complaint. Also have a big jew nose and proud of it. Love my girl Olivia!

  11. i have a 6.5-7 inch-ish lawrence with very good width, and kind of big nose xd and i'm 5'10 tall 10 shoe size with bigger than average hand size. I would say that this article is 80% Accurate

  12. absolute rubbish, a mans feet nose, hands are solely determined by genetics and human growth hormone. The penis and secondary sexual charecteristics are determined by Testosterone.

    A car accident may cause head trauma at 13 affecting the hypotha;amus release of gnrh, in turn dimished levels can decrease leutinizing hormone and folicle stimulating hormone. this affects tesosterone in a severe wayt more so than growth hormone due to the levels present in the body.

    Boys can begin pyuberty as early as 11, just because family are sporting an average or above average penis does not square with a person who has had a pubertal interuption, or even a pubertal delay should he get a doctor that does not overclassify "normal" normal for every man is differant and based off genetics but outside events may cause a lack of length or girth.

    You want to know what should be spoken of is who he would be as a husband and a father, not the hang up over the length and girth of his dick.

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