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10 Things That Happen When An Aries Man Is Hurt

by Sonya Schwartz

Are you wondering whether you’ve hurt your Aries partner?

Perhaps he’s insisting that he’s fine, but you’re not sure whether that’s the case? 

Maybe this lack of communication is causing wider problems in your relationship?   

If so, you’re in the right place. This guide explains 10 signs that you’ve hurt your Aries partner - and a couple of suggestions to resolve it.  

However, before we dive into this list, it’s important that you read the next few sentences carefully.

For the majority of my twenties, I found myself in so many conflict-ridden relationships.

This was made worse by the fact that I didn’t know how to effectively resolve conflicts. 

In fact, I wasn’t very good at making men feel special at all. So, they’d rarely make me feel special either. 

It wasn’t a great time!

Thankfully, I managed to turn things around. Everything changed for me when I learned about a little-known aspect of male psychology called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’.  

This primal instinct has a huge impact on how men perceive their romantic partners. It’s a deeply-held psychological trigger that makes them feel powerful and purposeful. Naturally, they begin to feel incredibly affectionate to women who make them feel this way.

When I learned how to activate the ‘Hero’s Instinct’, it became a lot easier to find loving and fulfilling relationships (read my personal story to learn more).         

This is a simple concept to learn. Yet, so few people seem to know about it.

If you’re hoping for happier relationships in the future, I’d invite you to learn how I discovered the ‘Hero’s Instinct’.    

In the meantime, here’s our guide on how to handle conflict with your Aries.

Well, worry not, as if you’re looking to keep your Aries man happy, our in-depth guide will not only help you spot any signs but will also help you keep your man obsessed with you. We can even help you win your man back if worst does happen!

What Happens When an Aries Man is Hurt?

1. He Withdraws into Himself

An Aries man doesn’t like to have others seeing his emotions, which means if he is hurt, it’s likely that your partner will withdraw into himself and become quite secretive. This coping mechanism helps keep that fiery temper that we associate with the Aries star sign under the surface. However, this can be problematic, especially if you don’t realize the person in question is hurt.

So, rather than believing your man when he says he’s okay, be more insightful and understand something deeper is going on. Just keep in mind, going up to an Aries and telling him he’s hurt or upset is far from a good idea.

That’s because, when it comes to Aries men, they want to be seen as strong characters who aren’t ruled by their emotions.

2. He’s Being Cold with You

The number one coping mechanism for an Aries man is to retreat and deal with his emotions alone. For you, this means that you’re likely to notice that your man is being cold with you, perhaps less loving or not engaging in conversation as he might normally.

If you notice this kind of behavior, try not to poke at your man too much asking why he’s being cold. That’s because, with Aries men, hurt and anger come hand-in-hand, meaning he’s less likely to take you as being caring and more likely to think of you as being critical. Which will only end in a fight. In this situation, your Aries man wants to be be left alone.

3. Your Man is Being Angry and Irrational

Is he snapping? Appearing to be extremely angry over the littlest of things? Well then, you might be surprised to know that your Aries love might actually be trying to hide his hurt or sadness. Indeed, as successful as your man might be at hiding his sadness, anger is something that they will always wear on their sleeve.

Which means, anger or grumpiness might be the first sign you notice when your relationship isn’t going as well as you might have hoped.

4. He’s Avoiding Eye Contact

Just like they wear their anger in their sleeve, when you know your Aries man well, just looking into his eyes will tell you everything you need to know about how he is feeling. That’s because an Aries man holds all his emotions in his eyes.

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So, if your partner starts to avoid eye contact, it may be because he wants to hide the fact that he’s feeling sad.

How to Know if an Aries Man is Done with You?How to Know if an Aries Man is Done with You?

Once you’ve noticed that your Aries man is hiding the fact he is going through some emotional issues, it’s only natural to think there is something wrong with your relationship – or worse that there might be someone else.

Well, before you worry yourself too much, there are some simple ways for you to know if your Aries man is unhappy in your relationship. If he’s not showing one of these key signs then it’s more likely that he’s just going through some personal issues and just needs time to heal.

Here are a few signs that should have you concerned:

1. He’s Not Contacting You as Much

When you don’t receive a text or message from your Aries man, it can be easy to just presume that the worst is about to happen. However, before you jump to conclusions, it’s time to take a step back and actually take a look at what’s going on.

The thing is, just because he’s not contacting you quite as much as normal, it doesn’t mean he’s no longer an Aries man in love. Indeed, he may just be busy at work, with little spare time to contact you. Or, he may be stressed with other issues in his life and he’s just taking a step back to evaluate his feelings.

If your Aries man was truly ready to ditch your relationship, he would simply stop contacting you at all. So, the fact he is contacting you – albeit on a sporadic basis – is a very good sign. Never choose to bombard your man with messages, though, asking why he’s being different. As you may make him reevaluate your partnership based on your actions.

2. He’ll Tell You Outright

Unlike other star signs, Aries men are not ones for messing you around. Which means, if you have seen some signs that your man isn’t quite right, then he won’t take long in letting you know. Worse still, an Aries man who is upset is one who is far more likely to be insulting and even hurtful.

How to Get Back an Aries ManHow to Get Back an Aries Man

So, he’s told you that your relationship is over, the problem is, for many women Aries men are too addictive to give up. Which means, you might be looking for the best way to get your man back into your life. Well here are just some of the ways you can that special someone back into a relationship:

1. Improve Yourself

As much as we’ve all heard the “it’s not you, it’s me” break-up line, when it comes to Aries men, they are far more likely to give it to you straight, telling you exactly what you did wrong in your time together. Now as harsh as this can feel, this honesty can actually give you a lot of pointers on the way you improve yourself to attract him back.

So, rather than spending your time moping, get yourself off the sofa and start living your independent life to the fullest. You might want to work on your career, your social life or your appearance – even all three. Whatever you do, make sure you show him you’re living your best life on social media.

You might just find that he’s starting to comment on your photos again or using your email address to accidently book nights out – when you go to contact him, you’ll soon find him inviting you along with him!

2. Give Him Time

The worst thing you can do when you want to get the attention of an Aries man, is to hound him with messages just after your relationship has ended. That’s because, your man still has all those reasons for breaking-up at the forefront of his mind, making it far from the best time.

Instead, the best way to get your man back is by giving him time. So, wait a few weeks, maybe even chat to someone new in the meantime. When you do send a message over, you’ll be far more likely to get a reply asking how you’re getting on – maybe even inviting you out for a drink.

How to Make Your Aries Man Obsessed with YouHow to Make Your Aries Man Obsessed with You

If you are worried that your Aries man doesn’t like you as much as you like him, not to worry, as here are a few simple ways to make yourself the best woman in his life.

1. Be Unavailable

An Aries man is a hunter, which means, if you’d like to start a relationship with him, you’re going to need to inspire him to chase you. So, rather than answering him straight away, take your time to text, arrange for other nights out when he’s liked to meet and never show how much you like him. You may be surprised at how easy he is to hook!

2. Give Him the Date of Your Life

When you do finally agree to that date, you’ll need to find a way to make it unforgettable – that way, your Aries man will never want to let you go. So, take your time choosing something to wear that will blow him away as soon as he sees you.

Even better, learn lots about him before you go, that way you can study his hobbies and interests. Then, on the night, you can casually show off how knowledgeable you are, dazzling him with his personality.

Aries men might seem like a lot of work, especially when they can hide their emotions and act so harshly. However, these men are also incredibly passionate and exceptionally rewarding to be with. So, if you can look out for the signs of your man being in emotional turmoil, it is well worth taking steps to protect your relationship.

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Sonya Schwartz
A hopeless romantic that struggled for many years to find her Mr "Right" and made all the mistakes you could think of while dating. Known for always choosing the wrong guys or messing up relationships, Sonya was finally able to change her approach and mindset when it came to dating which helped her eventually find the man of her dreams and become happily married. You can read more about me here...

2 comments on “10 Things That Happen When An Aries Man Is Hurt”

  1. Wow this is helpful.Am a Leo and dating an Aries I love too much attention yet he doo give it to me that much how can I get him to pay attention to me as I like it

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