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12 Undeniable Signs Of A Virgo Man In Love With You

January 31, 2023

Are you falling in love with a Virgo man?

This sign is most commonly known for being honest, kind and dependable. No wonder you’re smitten. 

However, the more important question is: has he fallen in love with you? 

It's not always easy to tell when a Virgo man has fallen in love, but there are a few behavioral cues he’ll show when experiencing strong feelings towards a woman. 

In this guide, we are going to explore what these signs are. 

But first, would you like to know how to make a Virgo man fall in love with you?

The best strategy I know is based on a psychological trigger held by all men. This trigger is commonly known as 'The Hero's Instinct'

When a woman can activate this part of a man's mind, it can release intense feelings of power, strength and joy. 

This is addictive, and he’ll soon find himself wanting to spend more time with you.

The process of triggering a man's 'Hero's Instinct' is too complicated to explain here, but I have written a more detailed account of how I learned to do it. Click here to read it

Learning this skill was the best thing I ever did for my love life. Ever since, my relationships with men have become more serious and loving. We are able to connect on a much deeper level. 

The Hero's Instinct works on men of all star signs. However, if you're only interested in Virgo-specific advice, read on for my list of signs that a Virgo is in love.

Signs Of Virgo Man In Love With You

1. He opens up to you.

He opens up to you

Virgo men can be very reserved and guarded. They are often perfectionists and don’t want to be seen as anything but perfect. A Virgo man can find it hard to open up and reveal his faults and vulnerabilities.

A Virgo man doesn’t find it easy to relax and open up, especially to new people. This sign is naturally guarded. He won’t just let anyone in, so if he does open up to you, he sees you as someone special. A Virgo male will carefully choose who will be part of his life. One of the first signs he is in love is when he becomes more relaxed and opens up.

If he feels like he can trust you and slowly opens up to you, he sees you as someone he could form a long-term relationship with. When a Virgo man tells you his deepest secrets and dreams, there is no doubt that he is a man in love. He sees you as a rare person who understands him and he can be himself in front of.

If he opens up to you and shows you his true self, it is very clear that he trusts you and sees a possible relationship with you. If he loves you, he will let you in. He will involve in things such as his finances, dreams and other very personal things.

Virgo men can hold a lot of things inside and need someone that they can trust completely. If he has let you in, this Virgo man must really like you, because he finds it hard to allow someone it.

2. He introduces you to his family.

Another sign that a Virgo man is in love with you, is when he introduces you to his family. Virgo men are often very close to their families, especially their mothers. If you get to meet his family, this Virgo man is likely falling in love with you. His family means everything to him, so he won’t just introduce anyone to them!

Family and friends are really important to this guy. If he has feelings for you he will tell his the closest to him about you. It is really important to him that these people give their approval.

Until he develops a strong emotional attachment, he won’t introduce his partner to his family. So, if he becomes excited for you to meet his family, he likely feels strongly about you. This is one way of him showing you how much he cares about you.

It’s important to him that your friends and family like him too. He knows that your friends and family are as important to you as his are to him. This is another sign that a Virgo guy may be falling in love with you!

3. He is romantic.

He is romantic

Virgo men are not always romantic. And Virgo is not known as a romantic zodiac sign. However, this will change for a Virgo man in love. He will never be romantic in a typical cheesy sense. Instead, he will make a constant effort to surprise you with little things that are important to you.

A Virgo man in love will pay attention to little details about you. He will do things like buying you something that you mentioned you liked. He will remember your favorite color and favorite flowers without having to ask. He’ll remember that one restaurant that you really love and take you there unexpectedly.

Virgo men like to make gestures to show his love. If he takes you to your favorite restaurant, cooks you your favorite meal or buys you your favorite flowers, this may be a man in love. Actions are important to him, and he may be trying to show his love for you through these romantic gestures.

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He will go out of his way to spoil the woman he loves. A Virgo man in love will buy his partner random gifts and make romantic gestures. He’ll spoil you in every possible way. A Virgo male in love will make his love interest feel like the only woman in the world. He will never be happy until he knows his partner is happy as well.

He will hold the door open for you, make sure you are happy and offer to help with the chores. He will be a gentleman towards you. He will make a huge effort to make his partner happy. He will make little romantic gestures to let you know how much he cares about you.

If he loves you, he will always be in contact with you. He will not just text you when it is necessary but he will call or text you to tell you about his day. If a Virgo man likes you, he will never forget your birthday or the anniversary of your first date. A Virgo male in love will put all his energy into making the love of his life happy and content.

4. He is protective of you.

He is protective of you

If he has fallen for you, this Virgo man will make sure to keep you close when other men are around, check in on you, and protect you. Virgo men are not shy of showing their affection in public.

If a Virgo man loves you, you will feel his protection over you. He will take care of the one he is in love with. When a Virgo man really loves someone, he becomes extremely protective of them. He is only protective of the people that he loves. He will react instantly if anyone threatens the woman he loves. He will make sure that he can protect you and keep you safe.

He is only willing to act in this way towards you if he is sure that he really likes you. When he is willing to stand up for you against others and protect you, you can be confident that he is falling for you. If he likes you, he will feel fiercely protective over you. He will make sure that nobody hurts or upsets you, if he loves you, he will always have your back.

He will do anything he can to care for and look after you. He’ll offer to help you with your chores, carry heavy objects for you, and help with your DIY tasks. If he suddenly becomes protective over you, this is a sign that he is falling for you. A Virgo man in love will do anything he can to make you feel loved and happy.

A Virgo man in love will do anything to make his other half happy. A Virgo male is one of the least selfish signs of the zodiac. He will always take care of the woman in his life and worry about your well-being. He will always prioritize you, look after you, and put a lot of effort into forming a caring, loving relationship.

When he loves a woman, he will do anything he can to protect her and keep her safe. A Virgo man sees it as his job to protect the woman he’s in a relationship with. If he is acting in this way, this is a sign that this Virgo man is in love with you.

5. His affection increases.

A Virgo man will open up if he is falling in love. He will begin to show his love for you through physical affection. Virgo men can become very affectionate when they decide they really like a woman. If a Virgo man is falling for you, he will become very physically affectionate towards you.

In the first weeks of dating, a Virgo may be shy when it comes to physical contact. He will never be pushy or overly affectionate at first. But as the relationship progresses his physical affection towards you will increase. Once he knows you are the one, he won’t be able to keep his hands off you.

Physical affection is of great importance to Virgo men. He will touch you or hold your hands whenever he can. Little touches like this are romantic and sensual. If he loves you, this Virgo won’t wait for those special moments to hold you, kiss you or hug you. He will take every moment he can to be affectionate with you. He’ll stop you whenever you’re by him to kiss you.

On one of your first dates, he may lightly brush his hand over yours, or touch your shoulders or your arms. If he is often affectionate towards you, even in little ways, he’s definitely falling for you. 

If his affection towards you increases, this is one of the sure signs that this Virgo man may love you.

6. He will call and text you often.

If your Virgo man is falling in love with you, his calls will increase. He will call you just to hear your voice. If he is in love he will likely call you last thing before he goes to sleep just to say good night. He will call you regularly just to chat with you and hear about your day.

If a Virgo likes you, he will think about you throughout his day, even when he is busy. He will often send random flirty and romantic texts. He will want to let you know how he feels about you. So, if you hear from him a lot, or receive romantic texts from him, that Virgo likes you a lot.

He will show how he feels about you through meaningful conversations. A Virgo likes to text frequently and say nice things, flirt with you, and make you laugh. He is looking for someone that he can develop a strong emotional connection with, so he will pay attention to you and keep in contact with you.

This is another sign that this Virgo man likes you!

7. He notices things.

This Zodiac sign is all about details. When he is in love, a Virgo man will notice every little detail about you. If he truly loves you, he will remember all the little things you mention to him and really pay attention to everything you tell him.

He may surprise you when he notices things that other people don’t. He will notice straight away if you change your hair or wear new clothes.

He’ll also notice even the slightest change in your mood. A Virgo man will always know when something is wrong with you, even before you may tell him. You won’t be able to keep any secrets from him.

This man will observe everything about the one he loves. He will pay attention to the smallest details about you and your life. He will remember your birthday, your childhood pet’s name, your favorite color, and your favorite food. He will notice your little habits and details about you.

This man will show an interest in your passions and remember things about your interests. This is one sign that he is really interested in you. He wants to view life the way that you do.

If he sees a future with you, he will pay attention to little details about you and your life. If he notices everything in this way, this Virgo man has feelings for you.

8. He values your opinion.

A Virgo man is ruled by Mercury and sees intelligence as highly valuable. He will appreciate intelligence more than good looks. The best way to notice if this Virgo man loves you is that he appreciates and is truly interested in everything that you have to say. He will want to know your opinions on various topics and your attitude toward life.

He will want to try and determine how much you have in common with each other, as this is really important to him in a relationship. A Virgo man is not solely led by physical impulses but requires a woman that he can really connect with on a deeper, intellectual level. He wants a woman who will listen to him, who he can talk to, and whose opinion he values.

If this guy loves you, he’ll start asking you important life questions. Virgo guys are often naturally curious. If he asks you about what you want for your future and where you see yourself in a few years, it means he’s thinking about his own future as well as yours. He is trying to determine whether you will fit into his own future.

If he listens closely to when you are talking, values your opinion and frequently asks you questions, this is a sure sign that he is interested in you and sees a future with you. Getting to know your priorities, opinions, and goals allows him to figure out what you are feeling.

He asks you about subjects that he already knows you love because he is interested in you and wants to know more about you. If he loves you, he will take time to get to know everything about you and your opinions on various topics.

If he has fallen for you, he has fallen for you on a deeper level than just looks. This is one of the signs of a Virgo man in love.

9. He is honest about his feelings.

He is honest about his feelings

Although he may be shy when it comes to physical affection, he is not afraid to tell you everything that he is feeling verbally. As soon as he realizes that he loves you, and you are a person that he wants to develop a committed relationship with, he won’t be shy in saying it to you.

He will be direct about his feelings and emotions with the woman he loves. A Virgo, unlike some other signs, will not play mind games or send confusing signals. He doesn’t enjoy playing hard to get or being chased. He won’t ignore you in order to get your attention nor will he try and read your mind to figure out if you feel the same way about him.

This is a man that will always know what he wants and who he wants to be in his life. He likes to stay away from drama and messy breakups. He will want to know where he stands with you at all times and will not hide his feelings about you.

This type of guy is not afraid and won’t hold back, especially in a relationship. A Virgo doesn’t play hard to get. He won’t pretend that he doesn’t care about you if he actually has feelings for you. If he really likes you, he will be clear and honest about his feelings. He will tell you how he feels about you. He won’t subject you to any mind games.

He’ll make sure that he clears up any doubts or fears that you have. He will honestly answer any questions you ask him and will make sure that he clears up any issues before they develop.

If he likes you, he will make a straight-up move, and ask you out. Virgo men are not afraid of asking for what they want. If you love a Virgo and he is acting in this way and telling you how he feels, it is likely that the feelings are mutual.

10. He is loyal.

How does a Virgo man act when he likes you? Virgo men are usually not interested in casual flings. They are loyal and committed and looking for a life partner with the same traits. Virgo males look for serious relationships and are something that they always desire.

He has no real problem with being alone until he meets the right person. But when he commits himself to a person, he is not wasting her time and is looking for something real. This is one of the signs the Virgo man in your life really loves you and is dedicated to you. If he is committed to your relationship, he won’t mind labeling it as a relationship.

You will not catch him texting other girls when he is in a relationship with you. Nor will you ever find him cheating on you. If he is in love with you, he is not interested in anyone else and has eyes for only you. 

When he loves a woman, a Virgo will be fiercely loyal. He will do his best to make the woman he loves happy and content. A Virgo will do anything he can to stand up for the one he loves.

He will be extremely loyal even in public and he will demonstrate his devotion to you by supporting you. He will make it obvious in public that you are a couple. He will stand by your side and hold your hand in public.

There is no need to worry in a romance with this guy, he will make sure you are taken care of and will have nothing against holding your hand in public. This is one of the sure signs that the Virgo man in your life is in love with you.

All In All...

A Virgo man who loves someone will become affectionate and ask you lots of questions. While it may take a while for him to make up his mind, when he really falls for a woman, he will offer commitment and loyalty.

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