Looking at a person’s star sign can be very enlightening as to what their personality is like. When it comes to relationships it can be a good way of ascertaining whether two people are compatible and suitable for each other.
Here, in this article, we look at Gemini and Cancer and see whether there is love compatibility there. More specifically, we look at a Gemini man and a Cancer woman to see whether this relationship dynamic can go the distance by making one another happy.
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To see whether a Gemini and a Cancer are two signs that can end up in a happy relationship, we look at what the advantages and disadvantages of this dynamic are. Not all these advantages or disadvantages may be seen clearly in a relationship and the reason being for this is that each individual will have stronger elements of their sign that shine out of them specifically. This can then make a difference as to what benefits and negatives are strongest in a relationship dynamic.
The Gemini and Cancer dynamic has a lot of fantastic positives that can really help the relationship be a success. If any of the below traits outweigh the negatives, this duo has a really good chance of having a happy and healthy partnership.
Gemini is a very outgoing person which is what a Cancer woman needs at times. They literally need a person that helps them come out of their shell which is what a Gemini guy can do. As a consequence, this is a very attractive trait to a Cancer and so a desire for the Gemini can be very strong from a Cancer female. Having such a strong attraction or desire is great news for the long-lasting future of a partnership as it is what can help keep two people together when things get tough.
Geminis tend to be one of the smartest zodiac signs and this can help hugely when Gemini and Cancer signs come together. This is again because the Cancer female will find it a very attractive trait in their prospective partner. Intelligence makes them interesting to talk to, but also their clever ways mean that Geminis tend to know a lot about everything. The result of this is that a Gemini boyfriend will know a lot about their girlfriend’s interests which helps solidify a connection. If the two people have a lot to talk about then this again can help make a relationship long-lasting as well as loving.
Perhaps one helpful trait that a Gemini has which a Cancer needs is their amiable and friendly nature. This is great for a Cancer who can sometimes struggle with being a bit touchy so that they can overreact at times. With a Gemini’s amiable ways in a Cancer female’s life, it means that she has a partner who will not meet her overreaction with another overreaction. Arguments are therefore shorter than they otherwise could be between two signs that get cross easily. Geminis are easy going and so will stay calm in the face of a partner who is upset. This cools down and diffuses a variety of situations before they get bigger than they need to be.
What every Gemini needs is a partner that is supportive. This is down to the fact that a Gemini can sometimes never know the right course of action to take. This is down to the fact that he is so bright, he will see things from several different points of view. He can, therefore, argue a case for every situation and end up confusing himself into what he should do. With a supportive partner, which a Cancer woman is, he tends to find any stress he feels from seeing too many sides to a story dissipates. It gives him the confidence to take one course knowing that everything will be alright with his girlfriend by his side.
A great characteristic to have in a person who is in a couple is a highly intuitive nature. This means that they are able to foresee what their partner needs or what they are really thinking or feeling. This makes life a lot easier for a couple as it means arguments or tense situations tend not to arise as frequently as they may do in a relationship where there is not an intuitive person. A Cancer woman is therefore very sensitive to Gemini’s needs which is always helpful in any couple. Having a partner that can tell what a person is in the mood for and, importantly, not in the mood for is invaluable.
Here are the negatives that can transpire between a Gemini man and a Cancer woman. If these are some of the stronger traits that shine through the two-star signs, then the relationship can be a fraught and tricky one. However, as ever, if the two signs continue to talk to each other and keep lines of communication open, they can have a happy life together where these negatives are kept to a minimum.
It can be very frustrating, but a Gemini sign tends to be a very inconsistent sign of the zodiac. This means that they are difficult to predict and know what they are really going to do. Whilst they are invariably very sociable and not only say yes to every invitation, as well as turn up to everything they say yes to, but they also may not always behave in a way that people have seen before. This can manifest itself in a relationship where a Cancer woman does not always know where she stands with him. While her intuitive ways will help minimize this bad point, it can still result in the Cancer female being left feeling a little unsupported and not high on his list of priorities.
Another trait of a Gemini which exacerbates the issue of his inconsistency is that he is impulsive. While sometimes he can dither over a decision due to seeing everything from so many sides, he can also make some quick decisions that may infuriate his Cancer girlfriend at times, and hurt her at others. Again, this is down to the fact that she may feel like he is not thinking of her first and foremost.
A Cancer girlfriend can be a very temperamental female which can make being in a partnership with her quite hard going at times. While a Gemini’s amiable ways help keep her moody ways to a minimum, it can still be quite draining and difficult for her boyfriend. Moodiness is always hard to contend with, but it is a trait that is diminished if the Cancer female talks about her feelings before they turn into negative emotions that cause massive mood swings.
One of the things that can make a Cancer female’s moody ways worse is the fact that she can be an incredibly vindictive sign of the zodiac. This means that she always holds a grudge, which despite a Gemini’s patient and amiable ways, can be very grating after a while. Indeed, if she continues to hold a grudge against her boyfriend for a long time, it can be very hurtful. For this relationship to work, she will need to forgive and forget things in her life with her Gemini boyfriend as his impulsive ways will mean he makes mistakes quite frequently through rash decision making.
Finally, something that a Cancer and a Gemini dynamic need to be aware of in their relationship is a Cancer female’s sensitive nature. This can make dealing with a Gemini’s impulsive and inconsistent ways hard for her as it means she will often take his decisions very personally. She won’t feel prioritized which can upset her. However, she needs to remember that a Gemini tends not to prioritize anything in life and so she can take comfort in the fact that his behavior is not spiteful - just a little callous at times.
This dynamic is not without its bad points. However, if the balance of the relationship is kept where the advantages outweigh the disadvantages, there is every chance that this couple can stand the test of time. There not only are advantages here, but there are some great benefits to this zodiac sign pairing that any relationship would be happy to have. To ensure that the plus points continue to outweigh the bad, Geminis and Cancers need to make sure that they talk through any hurt emotions as and when they occur - and not let those feelings fester.
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