If you are a Gemini man with an Aquarius woman, you may be wondering whether your relationship is one that will last. Or, you could well be an Aquarius woman looking to the future and concerned with whether your Gemini guy is the most suitable for you.
Here, in this article, we look at whether the Aquarius Gemini dynamic can really work and whether it will result in love. We do so by looking at all the advantages of this pairing against the disadvantages that a Gemini and Aquarius couple will face. This is largely down to the characteristics seen in both star signs. For a couple to work, the advantages of their personalities need to outweigh the disadvantages. This will depend on individual to individual, but also on a couple’s ability to communicate with each other when issues that arise from personality clashes occur.
What can make a Gemini man Aquarius woman pairing easier than other star sign dynamics is the fact that an Aquarius woman is a very easy going individual. This can help make life a lot easier as there will be no undue stress caused by the uptight nature of an individual. In fact, a Gemini is a very easy going star sign too which only seeks to make life easier for the couple. It means not one individual is overly sensitive and so arguments tend to be less frequent.
Amongst the reasons that Gemini men are attracted to Aquarius women, are because they are naturally caring people. Aquarius females like to look after their loved ones and will always think of them first. They become very devoted to their partners therefore and as a result this only has positive implications on an Aquarius and Gemini pairing. It’s great for the Gemini as it makes him feel supported and wanted, which is what can help set apart a platonic relationship from a romantic partnership. It also helps strengthen the bond between two people as well.
An Aquarius woman will often be drawn to a Gemini man because he is very friendly. This is an attractive trait for many star signs, but definitely something that an Aquarius woman is drawn to time and time again. Being friendly appeals to their caring and kind natures, and also they love to be around people who are amiable and laid back company. This is due to their easy-going characters who find it difficult to understand when people get stressed out or fussy in some situations. This is behavior rarely seen in a Gemini.
Gemini men tend to be very intelligent beings and are counted amongst the smartest of the zodiac signs. This is great news for a relationship with an Aquarius as it means the Aquarius woman has her brain continually challenged and stretched. She likes to learn and so enjoys being with a person that pushes her mind’s boundaries. What’s also great about how smart a Gemini is, which is also great news for their relationships, is that they use their smarts to learn about their partner’s interests. This means that they always have something to talk about and start to share hobbies.
In addition to being very friendly, Gemini men are also very outgoing which an Aquarius finds great to be around. She likes the warm and bubbly character that comes as a result of being outgoing, which is helpful to the future of a Gemini and Aquarius relationship. It means the Aquarius is naturally drawn to the Gemini and wants to spend as much time with him as possible. His friendly nature likes this and he also enjoys being with someone who is happy to be his partner to all the events and activities that he is constantly asked along to.
While this pairing has some fantastic plus points, that doesn’t mean it has no negatives that can cause problems for the couple in the future. Here we look at what those drawbacks are so that both of these people can work at these disadvantages so that they don't become major sticking points between one another.
A Gemini may struggle at times in a relationship with an Aquarius woman as she is an incredibly independent person who sometimes needs her space outside of the partnership. A Gemini, who is such a sociable person, can find this tough to deal with. He can sometimes find it quite jarring therefore to be with someone who doesn’t settle into a codependent relationship as he does.
In any relationship, there will always be someone who is more stubborn than the other. With respect to the Aquarius woman, Gemini man dynamic, it is likely to be the Aquarius woman. While this shouldn’t get in the way of the love that these two people can feel for each other, it is still a difficulty that some Gemini guys can find difficult to grapple with. She can be so stubborn that it turns to obstinance which can infuriate the Gemini man, despite his easy-going ways. In fact, it can be such an alien reaction to him given how easy going he is, and the fact that he can see things from two sides. His girlfriend’s obstinance and subsequent obsession with being right can be something he finds hard to comprehend.
A strong-minded person should not be something to be afraid of, but it can be difficult for a Gemini guy at times if he is in a relationship with someone who has very resolute opinions. This is down to their ability to see things from many viewpoints which means they can simply don’t understand why anyone else doesn’t have that ability to do the same. It can be hard to come up against someone who just won’t budge an inch in their opinion, even in the face of a well-balanced argument.
Another of the reasons that it can be hard for this dynamic to overcome their issues is that a Gemini is very judgemental. It means that when he comes head to head with an Aquarian girlfriend’s obstinance or independence, he will judge it quite critically at points and find it difficult to sympathize. Whilst this is usually a rare occurrence, due to his easy-going manners, it can be a harsh reality for his girlfriend to come to terms with - especially if his hard judgment falls upon her and her ways.
Any partner of a Gemini man, even ones who are very much in love, will find it extremely difficult to deal with a Gemini guy’s inconsistent ways. He is such an outgoing and doable person that he sometimes stretches himself a little thin at times so that he can be a little flaky. This can irritate or even hurt his Aquarian girlfriend’s feelings. A good way to get around this so it doesn’t become a big problem between these two is simply to highlight as and when his inconsistent behavior has been hurtful. Doing it as and when it arises means that it won’t let sour emotions fester and get worse in the Aquarian’s mind.
Amongst highly revered astrologers, the Aquarius and Gemini partnership is seen as a couple that has a high chance of being long-lasting and very loving. This is down to the fact that they are both air signs so many of their positive traits are similar and so they are naturally attracted to each other. They also allow each other to bring out the best in one another which is great news for their love and their relationship.
Whilst, like any partnership, it is not without its problems that can be hard to overcome at times, they are seen to be a couple that can go the distance.
The bad points to this relationship are not something to be downplayed when it comes to this pairing. There are some fundamental differences in how they both see the world that can cause a lot of contention. However, if a Gemini guy and an Aquarius woman have stronger good points than bad points in their own individual personalities, it should be the case that this is a very strong pairing within the Zodiac.
To ensure that this pair do stay in love, like with any other pairing, it is important that they both talk to each other about any issues that they encounter within their relationship. This can be difficult sometimes to bring up, but if they are serious about a future with each other, it is the only way.
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