Does the Virgo man cheat? If so, what are the signs he may be cheating on you? If you are unsure if the Virgo that you love is really dedicated to just being with you, we understand it can be a tough time. After all, this is someone you really like and you want it to work.
Does a Virgo man cheat? They are all different but there are some key signs to look out for to see if he is losing attention with you and maybe looking for his affection elsewhere. Whatever the signs, the best advice is to ask or to find out for sure so you can rest your mind and move on if you need to. After all, there are so many men in the zodiac who will not make you worry or fret.
So, what signs should you look for?
Signs that a Virgo man is cheating on you
1. He is starting to seem less interested in you
What you may see with a Virgo man is that he is very interested in keeping you around, even if he is thinking that the relationship is over or if there is someone that has caught his eye. There might be signs that he is not the way he used to be but you can't quite put your finger on ow. It might be that there are fewer phone calls and less time for you in general in your life.
As you may know, the Virgo loves to play the part of the hero or the fixer in your life, and if he feels that this is done for him and there is no extra need for him to be around, it wouldn't be unlikely that he would find someone else who he can take care of or fix. Watch out for him looking for someone else to help, as this man just can't helo it, he might have a new job or a hobby and might be talking about someone else's problems or what a tough time so and so has been going through. This should ring an alarm bell, especially if this person is a woman and they are looking for someone to gove them some support at a tough time in their life. This is like a flame to a moth with a Virgo and will be something that attracts him. If he has cheated, he might justify it as ‘just comforting' someone, and if he feels guilty he might be defensive about the time he is spending with this person, again, highlighting their troubles and making you feel like a bad person for questioning his morals and behavior. Look out for any signs that he is protesting too much about his intentions to help someone like this could be something you have to watch and nip in the bud if its not too late for you both.
You might have noticed that when you were together at the start that he was very keen on taking care of you and was able to help you out in whatever way he could. If you notice that he has been saying things about you being independent and seeming a little off, this could all be down to his sign and his natural desire to want to be the person you turn to. And the shoulder you cry on. In short, he might consider cheating if he feels that you are growing apart in some way so now is the time to try and make him feel a bit like the hero in his own story – perhaps you need some help or advice? Even if you are an amazing independent woman, perhaps you need to play the game with this Virgo just to get him out of the mindset of cheating and finding another heroine for his story when he has someone just perfect who already loves him very much!
2. He seems physically stressed
The Virgo is a sign that can't hide his emotions well from his body and if he is cheating or has been considering cheating then it may be written all over his face and also in his body language. It might be in the way he sits and looks agitated or how he is seeming nervous and edgy. He might even be feeling full of cold and flu and getting run down from the emotion of it all. These signs really show everything in their skin, so if he is really wrestling with a conundrum about what to do or whether to cheat on you, he won't be taking this as lightly as some other signs and he may well be running it over and over and unsure if he wants to do the act. Look out for signs that he is under the weather, snappy and irritable and generally looking a bit grey as this could all indicate some deeper emotional turmoil he is going through at the moment which could be down to cheating or planning on cheating.
3. He comments that you are overbearing and picks fights
If you feel that you are being pushed away by the Virgo you may have noticed that he has made comments around you mothering or controlling him – even if you are pretty sure that you haven't been doing anything of the sort! This is one sign that really hates to be nurtured in this way and he wants his freedoms. If he has started to make little comments about you tying him down or checking in on him, or just being there too much (which can be hard if you live together!) this is a sign that e may be unhappy and potentially has someone else on his radar. He is the kind of man who might be tempted by someone who again has plenty of emotional complexity, but also someone who is keeping him at arms length as well. If he has been away on business or to a new destination and then all of a sudden starts to accuse you of being too much, this could be his own way of justifying the decisions he is thinking of making, by claiming to himself and to you that you are not compatible and that you are too restrictive to be with.
Virgos can be very almost obsessive-compulsive about you, and as you may well know their terms are what matters. If you are going about your life and you see that the Virgo is suddenly arguing with you about everything and every opinion they have is the start of a fight about wanting to be right or they start becoming really bossy with you, then be warned. The Virgo has away when he feels he is right or justified in becoming very controlling and this is definitely something that they might be losing interest or they might be on their way to being over you and just a definite sign that they are getting ready to move on either alone or with someone else. As always, just because his sign says that he might be controlling this doesn't mean it is acceptable and it is time for you to make decisions about this behavior, if he is making you unhappy and you are seriously worried then please step away from the relationship and leave him to pursue someone else that can meet him unrealistic standards!
Is the Virgo man really cheating?
As you can tell there is a range of signs that the Virgo man is cheating on you and might not have your best interests at heart. Regardless of his zodiac sign, cheating isn't fun for you and you need to find out the real truth and see what's what. We really hope that he is just having a bit of a funny moment and that you two can work it out. If not, well, why not pick a different man from the zodiac? Don't forget you are so worth it and if his behavior is almost unbearable in terms of his strange moods, physical stress and the energy he is bringing to the relationship then now is the time to wave goodbye to this particular sign and see who else would be the perfect match for you – the are plenty to choose from – millions of men, so don't get hung up on this one!
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Thanks for reading and we wish you the very best of luck with your Virgo man, whatever happens!
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