Do you watch romance films where the man pines over the woman? Do you want your man to pine over you and want you more? With a few simple tips on how to make a guy want you more, you can have just that and live your own romance story.
As someone who is happily married and who has been through many different experiences with my dating life, I am able to speak from experience and give you the best tips to help get your guy to want you more.
This may sound like a strange one but it actually works. If you say his name rather than talking generally then he knows that you only have him in your mind. Knowing this will help him realize that he also has you in his mind. Saying this however, it won’t work in any circumstance. To get your guy to want you more, you will need to say his name seductively and in a romantic environment.
Again this sounds pretty strange but let me explain first before you start thinking I have lost my marbles. A great way to get your gut to think about you and you only is to casually reach into his pocket while he is wearing them to find the car keys, house keys or whatever else you could realistically need. Touching your man accidentally will be sure to leave him wanting more.
Not telling him every single thing about you will make him want to find out more about you. Telling him everything early on takes away the excitement of getting to know someone. You want to keep an air of mystery to keep him interested and want you more. By all means tell him about yourself but keep a few things back such as how you enjoy playing bowls on a Saturday with your grandparents.
Sometimes making small changes can not only help to keep your guy interested but can actually make him want you more. For example, you could dye your hair a red color which might add a bit of excitement and result in your guy not being able to keep his hands off you.
Everyone likes to receive a compliment every now and again to remind them that they are cared for and appreciated and so it is important to remember that your guy also needs to be told compliments. Next time he changes the light bulb, tell him how much bigger his biceps are looking if you know he has been working out. Knowing that you appreciate him will make him want you more.
One of the best ways to get a guy to want you more is to remind him of any loving memories that you both share such as how you met, your first date, your first holiday or anything else that is close to both your hearts. Sometimes with the stresses of everyday life it can be all too easy to forget these memories so help him remember.
While it is important to get dressed up every now and again, guys actually like it when you show your natural self. Don’t feel the need to have to wake up every morning before your man to put your face on or to blow dry your hair. My man once told me that he always remembers when we were on holiday and we stayed in bed all day. He specially says that he remembers my natural curly hair and makeup free face and how he thought I never looked so beautiful.
Because you want your man to want you more, you may start trying too hard to grab his attention. If this happens then it may just do the opposite. Guys don’t like to be soppy so don’t continue to go on about how much you like or love him. You only need to tell him now and again when it is genuine, he won’t forget that you like him after a day. He will not want you more the more you tell him you like or love him.
Guys love to do the chasing, it is in their nature which is why you should let him be the first to call. If you call him first then you take the chase away from him and make it too easy for him. Let him be the one to chase you and show you how much he wants you. When you watch the romance films,you always see the guy chasing the girl because the girl doesn’t make it too easy for him.
I’m sure your friends are important to you so you should realize that his friends are also important to him. You want your guy to be nice to your friend to make your life easy so you should realize that you need to be nice to his friends to make his life easy. Getting along with his friends or being nice will help make him want you more.
Jealousy isn’t an attractive quality so don’t be the nagging jealous girlfriend that seems to be a stereo typical view of women. You will push your guy away if you argue with him every time he wishes to go meet his mates or invade his privacy by going through his phone. You wouldn’t like it if he told you that you couldn’t go and see your friends so don’t do it to him. Being able to enjoy time with you as well as away from you is what will make him want you more.
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Want him to chase, love and worship you?
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