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Does The Gemini Man Cheat? 4 Signs He May Be

by Sonya Schwartz

Are you worried that the special Gemini in your life is being unfaithful?

Is their recent behaviour making you suspicious? 

Are you wondering how to find if he has been cheating on you?  

Well, you’re in the right place. The article below reveals the 4 telltale signs that a Gemini has been messing around with someone else. 

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Our list of incriminating Gemini behaviours will help you decide whether you’re right to be suspicious of him.

Signs that a Gemini man is cheating on you

1.  He's quick to end things - so they are already over!

One way to tell that a Gemini is over you and the min sign that he is over you and wants to break up or has already moved on is that he is telling you its over! It's hard to catch the warning signs with this zodiac sign because more than any other sign he is able to just call a decision on thing sand will be breaking up with you the moment he is done. You might not have seen the signs. It's hard to say that he wouldn't cheat, but a Gemini is the kind of person who will make a very quick decision and will be able to leave in a snap. It is still possible they will cheat, but unlike a different sign who might want to keep you around or really mull out the decision (a Cancer man will even include his friends and family in the debate!), A Gemini will likely just take the new woman as his girlfriend and dump you. There is not much to be had in him in doing both. Having said that, some more immature Geminis are able to do this. He might also be still into you and just going through a rough patch. Every man is different and he might have family or work issues or something really deep that is causing him to act differently, so take the signs with the pinch of salt that they deserve and as soon as it's feasible - ask him what's happening.

2. He's being picky about you

If your Gemini feels like he is having to sort out your life and pick up your emotional baggage, he will certainly be wanting to put a stop to that and maybe looking for someone who has a little more spark to them. That's not to say anything is wrong with you, just that he has a short attention span in all things romantic and this can lead to a real dead-end if he makes his mind up. If you are together you can rest assured that you are a catch.  He tends to like intelligent women that are very independent and he felt so himself, so if he has started to make snide remarks round your intelligence, has hinted you are boring or has started to try and get away with things, perhaps not complimenting you when you make a big effort to dress up or staying out longer and longer at the bar when he said he would be back after just one hour, this is not a great situation. He might also be cheating if he is the kind of Gemini who hasn't realized he can just end things in an adult way and move on. If he is feeling particularly childish, it might be like a game to him to see how far he can go before you cotton on. This is cruel and if this is what he has done, be sure to get away from this guy - fast - and find someone with a bit more of a gentlemen vibe around them!

3. He isn't as anxious

Nervous and jittery, this sign has lots of energy and is someone who gets comfy when they are in love and calms down. Most people associate a Gemini I love as someone who really relaxes into the relationship -one thing is for sure - they will not be leaping up as much! If they are cheating or thinking about cheating you will get the feeling that they can't concentrate and they can't get still. They might start to leave movies unfinished, to have their head in the clouds and to generally give off an irritated, angry air. A Gemini that has decided to cheat or end the relationship is not a great person to be around as you can see, so if this is sounding familiar then please know that you have our total sympathies with your situation!

Look out for the signs of him leaping up the check his phone, long sighs, and exclamations about the world and fun that he isn't having - any loud sign that he is making that indicate that he would like to be doing anything other than sitting at home with you. A homebody this man is not! If you still want to save the relationship now is the chance for you to take the hint and try and get out with him and bring that spark back. Sadly this is just life with a Gemini, and he is a man that is going to keep you on your toes! If you love adventure this is the man for you, so don't let things get too far gone in this area before you spend some time with him in the great outdoors or trying something he has never done before. This might also mean something in the bedroom as well, so take. Look and see what can be done, but don't let him call all the shots!

4. The routine is off and he seems a little bored

A Gemini man tends to hate to get bored as you will know if they feel bored or trapped around you and their day to day life then this is a sign who will make a decision and it won't be long until they move on. If he seems like he doesn't want to do any activities that you used to or if has just switched off or seems distracted when you do thing that used to give him a big buzz, then this is a big sign that he is looking at someone else or may have cheated. Dullness and predictable routine isn't a big thing for the Gemini and h will be keen to find a spark. He might be interested in someone new that seems more independent and if he has started to take someone else out on adventures or has met them there and he is also acting in this strange and bolshy way then you should worry. For a Gemini this might be doing a new class or activity or sport, and if he meets someone during this period then he might be easily tempted away - but given the way he may have been living, perhaps this would be a blessing in disguise for you and will give you some relief from his harsh and strange behavior since he decided he wanted to end it.

If you are dating a Gemini or have a long term relationship then you might be wondering what has caused this change in behavior, but sadly this is just part of what they are like if they decide that the relationship is over. It's not a great place to be, but unlike other signs that might keep you strung along, the saving grace is that on the whole, this sign will simply tell you that its' over and will ensure that the process is really quick and painless.

If you are seeing the signs but are unsure if this is cheating, then please ask the Gemini in your life so you can know for sure!

Is the Gemini man really cheating?

Without really knowing, you don't really know anything, so it's time to bite the bullet and ask if that Gemini man is cheating or if he is even considering it. You are worth the very best in the life we have so its best never to waste your time on someone who isn't giving their all to you. Speak up now and you can let your mind at ease!

Please do leave a comment with your experience and also share this article across social media so we can help other women out who are looking out for those signs that their man is up to no good or not in the right frame of mind for a relationship anymore, after all, there are plenty of men in the zodiac who would love to be with you!

Thanks for reading and we can't wait to hear your stories.

You may also be interested in: 3 Easy Ways to Find Out If He's Cheating On You

Sonya Schwartz
A hopeless romantic that struggled for many years to find her Mr "Right" and made all the mistakes you could think of while dating. Known for always choosing the wrong guys or messing up relationships, Sonya was finally able to change her approach and mindset when it came to dating which helped her eventually find the man of her dreams and become happily married. You can read more about me here...

5 comments on “Does The Gemini Man Cheat? 4 Signs He May Be”

  1. My boyfriend use to leave the room and not talk to me all day and when i ask him if he is okay he says yeah and go back to his phone when we watch movies he always go to sleep or if we want to spend time together he goes to sleep don't kiss me or look at me always on his phone talking to his ex's hard for him to talk to me

    1. I’m just having a late night read through and honestly if this is the case you deserve so much better, find a man who appreciates you, i don’t know the ins and outs but I hope you do what’s right for you x

  2. u have a feeling that my bf is cheating a dosnt call any more an a dosnt txt an when ever u call him a dosnt answer.am his wored

  3. My Gemini guy has been turning v nasty and cold towards me and twists everything I say back onto me like I’ve done something wrong- he purposely winds me up. Totally insincere and nothing nice comes out of his mouth. I’m sure he is cheating

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