Are you worried that your husband might be active on dating sites?
Are you scared that he might be going behind your back and you're trying to catch him red-handed and by finding his actual account on these sites?
To get straight to the point, the most reliable tool is to use something like this (click to check it out).
With this tool you simply enter his name, and the city where you live (you can also enter his email if you know it - although this is optional).
The tool will take a while to scan the internet and pull up a list of dating sites on which it finds his details.
Most popular dating sites are included.
In fact, many wives and girlfriends were surprised that they did not only find the hidden dating profiles of their spouses with this tool - but in some cases these profiles had been active for many years.
Therefore, I really recommend you use out this checker so that you can run a quick scan and find any dating sites that your husband may be on.
Once you've done that, let's get into some of the less reliable ways of finding your husband on dating sites.
But before we go into business, I should inform you that my reason for writing this is not to be misinterpreted as a means to break your home but rather, as one to build it. This I believe, is to give you proof and to help you communicate better with your husband.
Dating sites are platforms that allows individuals across different locations to find and interact with one another through the internet with the aim of developing a personal, sexual, or romantic relationship.
From the definition above, dating sites should be for individuals who are yet to be married, what then is your husband looking for there? You see, most times, married men join dating apps because of the dissatisfaction they get from you, their wives, in bed. Here are other reasons men visit dating sites
This implies that if you get to find your husband on a dating site, the bulk of the work is yours to do in other not to lose your husband and marriage.
Before you embark on this journey, I need remind you that you must be extremely smart and cautious so as to not get caught snooping around. If he catches you once, there is every likelihood you would not have a second chance to carry out your investigation. Follow the steps below to find out if your husband has a dating account or not.
This should be your first point of check as it does not require any technical know how. At first, you would need to have access to his system and you should now his password. If you do not know his password, you can ask stylishly with the pretense that you want to make use of his laptop for work purposes.
It is either he reveals this or not. If he does not oblige, it is more evidence that he is trying to keep something away from you. Once you gain access, you should go straight to his browser or browsers. Go to option and tools which is usually at the top of the page. Upon clicking on this tab, you would find the history icon, click on it and it would display all the websites he has visited recently.
Look through all these websites for any dating site. If you are not so sure, you can write down any strange website and visit it later. If you are sure the website(s) is a dating site, it means he is most likely a member there. You still need to do further search as he might just have visited the website and is yet to become a member.
Having found a dating website on his browsers history, you can take a step further by visiting the sites. Most of the time, you might need his login in details. But if his password is saved already, you are a lucky person.
More so, there are tools that these kinds of sites provide that can be employed to filter your search, helping you to narrow down your husband by describing his kind of person and the things he likes. It would bring out options and if your description is right, you would see your husband’s profile among the options. Unless of course, he filled in different details.
This is a very certain way of finding out if your husband is on a dating site(s). however, you need to find out if it is legal to snoop around one’s mailbox with permission. If it is illegal, do not cross that line out of desperation. Let it go or try another means.
If it is safe, then you can look through his inbox or spam. The idea behind this is that before registration on these sites can be completed successfully, one needs a working mail for verification purposes. So, you just must look intently and patiently for a message that is related to that. If you find one, open it, you would see his username and some other details that can be used to track him. If you do not see any such email, then we might have to go for an alternative.
Go to the dating site, to the login section, insert his email address in the username/email section and click on log in. If a command that says ‘wrong password’ pops up, that means he has an account. You could also use the ‘forget password’ icon which would mean that a message would be sent to his mail. You must be smart here. If you are want to get a mail for a password reset, you better have his phone with you also so it can be deleted once it pops up.
If you are certain of his username or email address, the next step is for you to create an account. I call it a ‘pseudo account’. The essence of the account is to find out exactly what your husband is looking for on such platform.
Your profile should be a replica of what your husband truly likes. By this I mean, the kind of woman, either busty, fair, or dark, tall, or short, etc. The idea is to tempt him to chat you up. This is a very intricate way of getting through to your husband. So, you must be smart enough not to leave any clue whatsoever for your partner to figure out you are the one on the other end. Every single detail must be abstract. You can search for your partner’s likes and dislikes on his profile and use it to create your profile
More so, you must be careful enough not to fall victim to what you are trying to solve. Creating a fake profile usually means creating a perfect profile and most times, it gets to attract more people than a real profile. So, just incase, you have so many potential suitors knocking on the door, you must control your self enough by keeping your eyes on the ball.
All thanks to technology, you can now monitor what a computer user does or is doing by installing a computer monitoring program. This requires that you are very smart as the only way you can achieve optimal result is by making sure your husband does not find the program on his system. You can hide it within desktop icons, somewhere around the middle or you just make it a background app.
For it to work, remember it has to be running which is where the difficulty comes up. However, it can be used to record emails, chat, emails etc. You most likely would not have issue installing the program as it requires the same procedure needed to install other software. If you don’t have basic knowledge of how to install a program, you can hire an I.T. guy to get it done.
This is a very straightforward way to finding out the truth about your husband. You just need to get his phone, look around for online dating apps. Most times, apps on the phone do not need any log in detail as the details are usually saved. If there are no apps, you can view their browsers, and visit his history page.
The difficulty with this method is that you must not be caught snooping around his phone. He is going to take it hard on you. The best thing to do is to politely ask for his phone on the pretense of making a call or something. You must have orchestrated a smooth plan with appropriate response. Be sure to know how to operate his phone if not, take out time to learn how to before hand. You can also look through his mailbox on his phone just in case you find nothing.
This is a very industrious and much effective option. If you are not able to do all that has been listed above maybe because you feel you might be sloppy, it is advisable you hire a private investigation. Go for a registered and professional private investigator.
These individuals charge certain amount of money and depending on how good, it could be quite expensive. If you are sure your husband is hiding something, then it is worth the while. if not, it is not too late to turn back now.
Private investigators have access to more databases and resources that you would ever have. They can also have what it takes to scan browsing histories and emails. Although, they might be able to go quite a length to find answers, they would definitely not go hacking into your husband’s phones and computers as it is punishable by the law.
You can put on random searches on google to find if your husband is on a dating site. Input his names or nicknames and keep on accessing the results. Here, you are looking for his profile on dating sites. Better still, you can use his picture to search for him. Watch this video for how to search using his picture
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This should be the last thing you should do. If you find something out, you must confront him. You guys would have to sit down and talk about the whole issue. If you did not find any clue also, and you still feel he has something he his hiding from you, maybe it is high time you confronted him. In confronting you must take certain things into consideration. They include:
You should be extremely careful when carrying out the steps listed above being that you would not want to cause more havoc to your marriage. Ensure you do nothing illegal and remember, no matter the outcome, the aim is to save your marriage. Communication, acceptance of fault and a desire to make things right would do the job well.
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